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KiGirl -> Phone play (6/13/2011 9:49:49 PM)
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This is posted in General Discussions as well; please forgive the redundancy, if you've seen this both places. Okay. So I've been communicating with a submissive male across the country from me for almost a year. We have amazing chemistry; he's basically everything I look for in a partner, on a variety of kink and vanilla levels.
Unfortunately, neither of us has the funds to meet in real life. We just recently had our first phone session, and...to be perfectly honest, it was wildly hot. We talked about the stories we've been exchanging, about our (minimal) experiences and fantasies. I could hear his voice tremble when the questions made him nervous or excited. Listening to him mutter "please, Ki" between gasps was possibly the sexiest thing I've ever heard...but I digress.
In spite of the fun we had, I was sometimes fishing for ways to keep the sexy momentum going. I'm basically a newbie at 1) phone play in general and 2) dominating the play. I can be pretty creative, but could use some starter ideas. So here are some questions:
To those of you with long-distance experience, what sorts of over-the-phone play has worked best?
What things didn't work?
What fantasies can be fulfilled when only our voices can close the gap?
Neither of us is very comfortable with cameras, and his experience is mostly self-imposed or entirely theoretical, so simple suggestions are appreciated. Thanks in advance for your input!
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