Rochsub2009
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Lastly, there is a philosophical question about punishment; what is your objective with the punishment and how does your sub view the punishment you are proposing. If your objective is funishment (punishment done in the spirit of BDSM as fun and games), I think you are spot on. If your objective is punishment (to genuinely and specifically prevent future such occurrences), we cannot know whether the ideas will have the desired effect.
Even if he feels discomfort, he might enjoy those activities for sake of SM. If he does, he will have reason to repeat the offense rather than avoid it. If your objective is to avoid it, I do not know enough about the situation to say whether it will work. If you have him do these activities naked and you see an erection, there is a good chance you will see a repeat offense.
QFT. Sea hit the nail on the head with this one.
The problem with punishment in BDSM relationships is that it is a very individualized thing. Some people like pain, so causing physical discomfort is a reward for them rather than a punishment. Similarly, some people like being humiliated, so embarrassing them is a reward, rather than a punishment.
Only YOU know your sub. So only you can determine what would be an appropriate punishment based on his particular psyche.
Don't try to be too cute initially. Think of something that you know he won't like. Putting his balls in ice may be a reward for him. So you need to thoroughly understand your sub, and then determine what types of punishments he'll enjoy, versus what types of punishment will actually serve as a punishment.
Instead of trying to be too clever, maybe you can think of something a bit more basic. Like make him drink a glass of pickle juice. Or make him eat an onion as though it were an apple, and force him to do it in 2 minutes or less (and of course, he'd have to do it on camera). Or if he has a pet dog or cat, make him lick the pet's fur on camera as though he were giving the pet a tongue bath. These are the types of punishments that even the most hardened sadist isn't likely to enjoy.
Since he is obviously controlled by his cock (that's why he masturbated in the first place), I would avoid punishments that involve his cock (like putting his balls in ice water). He's likely to enjoy those punishments, and he may misbehave again to receive a similar punishment in the future.
Like I said, don't over-think this one. There's no need to get too cute with the ideas. Simply think of something that you think would be totally unenjoyable, and make him do that.
Lastly, because masturbation is the problem, have you considered putting him in a chastity device and having him mail you the key? The problem with that idea is that most locks come with two keys. So a smart sub will keep the other key and not tell you that he has it. 
Good luck with your punishment.
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OOOOH! Acetone (nail polish remover?) on the weiner? Sounds sadistic but I can't imagine if it would really burn or not. On the slit it couldn't be pleasant but....I don't know. Any experience doing that to a sub????
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