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ChrisGreen -> Extreme sensualist from Liverpool in England (10/12/2004 10:12:28 AM)
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Hi,
My profile is fairly extensive, however, I am technically married, wear a wheelchair (though I can still walk a little, get up and down stairs, and garden), born with Asperger's Syndrome, served in the British Army, got a pension and a War pension from them, owned and sold 3 businesses, currently run a charitable company.
Age 51, 18 stones or 238 pounds, mostly muscle, though running to fat on the tummy, beard and moustache which can be removed should my mistress desire it.
Been in the scene for most of my life, as I discovered that I enjoyed being spanked and beaten while having it done to me by my mother - I stole some money, did not do that again, and did not sit down for a good long time either - but was surprised to find that I enjoyed the whole experience.
Not just the actuality of the punishment but also the whole build-up, the being told off for punishment, the waiting, the preparation, waiting for mum to get home from work, waiting for her to tell me when she would punish me, then waiting for that, then being stripped and bent over her lap and getting the paddle, and then over the butcher's block for the cane, then stood in the kitchen with my bottom on show.
As the years passed by, so I met ladies who were into the more severe forms of punishment.
Nowadays I seek strong-armed ladies, maybe buxom, dressed in the style of 1950s British nursing sisters - that's right that was Mum's job - for interrogation, persuasion and/or torture, judgement and judicial punishment scenes.
I run 8 adult groups on Yahoo under the id of quetzal981, write short stories on BDSM, write poetry and am working on my 4th volume, and have some entries in this year's Arvon Poetry Competition, have an award winning garden in Liverpool - last year we won the Restricted Access category, and this year we have enterred the Wildlife Garden category, and have been invited to the prize giving, though we do not know what standard we have achieved.
Apart from the scene I am interested in uniform collecting, military history, British history, politics, lobbying Parliament on a variety of social issues, not least the right of disasabled people to self-determination where sexual activities, and other similarly, but loosely, sexual activities are concerned.
I regard the code of no sex in BDSM, as nonsense - from a male perspective, men want what they cannot have, slave cannot have Mistress this increases the sexual need of the slave to serve his Mistress.
If the slave ever did get what he wants, he would ditch that Mistress and look for another to act out his fantasies and needs with.
In discipline, there is an acknowledgement, that the male or female 'victim' is going to sexually enjoy the 'punishment'; there is an acknowledgement that the Mistress is going to enjoy inflicting the spanking or castigation.
In effect it is sex without intercourse - the safest sex you can have.
As to me, yes I need to have an intellectually strong, dominant lady who can control me, as I am not submissive to most ladies. She who shall be obeyed has to have 'command presence' and be able to demand my obedience, even without saying anything.
For me, this is not a game, this is a way of providing stability in my life, a set of simple rules, and the knowledge that I shall be thrashed, without mercy, if I break any of those rules.
I look forward to writing on these groups, in the near future.
Regards,
Chris Green
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