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bimbosletgezocht -> Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/15/2011 2:15:31 PM)

Fellow owners,

After different relationships i had that progressed from a vanilla to a bdsm relationship ,mind that i say bdsm relationship and not tpe relation, i found that it didnt last because of the fact she has her vanilla life and all the things the put boundries on her in the bdsm realation at home.

Now im a bit older and a bit wiser i have my life planned and bussiness on the run so i got time to find that one thng thats missing my tpe slavegirl. I searched here and found the perfect girl for me. I was looking for a bimbo slave/slut and found one.

We both agreed that she would be a live in and dedicate her being to my service, she has a high sex and bdsm drive. All this is perfect but i find now that it takes a lot off time and effort to get her a daily schedule and the attention she craves and needs.

Its not that i didnt know what i was getting into but i find it harder than just the weekend sessions you normally have. Im trai ing her on different areas which cover: servecing, domestic chores, cumming in curtun waysnand manners.

But she is young and very flexible in taking pain humiliation and degration. It gives her a kick and comes back begging for more.

Wel here is finally my question: are there owners that have good routines and schedules that will train her and keep her occupied mentally and phisically without being present my self. Other than puttting her in a cage.

Any schedule or training schedules are welcome to wear her out on sexual area and physical area.


Master ronald




Aileen1968 -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/15/2011 3:16:47 PM)

Why don't you ask her since she appears to be the dominant in the relationship.
Otherwise, make up the rules and schedules that YOU want followed, not what is going to give her the "daily attention she craves and needs."




DarkSteven -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/15/2011 4:07:32 PM)

Lemme get this straight. You have gotten yourself a 24/7 TPE slavegirl and now want to know what to do with her?

*sigh*... Start with her helping you in your business. Keep her busy with things that benefit YOU.

And congratulations on becoming a Master.




Lockit -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/15/2011 5:00:40 PM)

So not only did you steal the photo, but you now want to get ideas from others with something you already got involved in, that sounds a lot like the last person that used that picture?

No time... don't do the time. Stop catering to a demanding submissive. Easy...




coookie -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/15/2011 7:03:04 PM)

Have her wake you up. Have her make you coffee/tea/orange juice. have her serve you this. Have her cook you breakfast. Have her serve you breakfast. Have her clean up after breakfast. Have her clean the house/ do laundry. If ya wanna make this kinky hell have her do it naked with a butt plug in.

TPE means more than just fun sex games. It means she does all the shit you don't want to or dont have the time to do.




MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/15/2011 11:47:41 PM)

 
In my experience, fixed schedules, routines, protocols and such are helpful in the beginning stages... and over time, the important things stick, and the other stuff just naturally falls away -- leaving the dynamic that works best for both.

[:)]






ranja -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/16/2011 8:42:12 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

*sigh*... Start with her helping you in your business. Keep her busy with things that benefit YOU.


well... as she is his bimbo i must wonder how beneficial it will be to him if he makes her help (read ruin) his business




ranja -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/16/2011 8:43:54 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

So not only did you steal the photo, but you now want to get ideas from others with something you already got involved in, that sounds a lot like the last person that used that picture?

No time... don't do the time. Stop catering to a demanding submissive. Easy...



are you the expert on whos picture is whos and who has used it last?
how do you know all these people here?




ranja -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/16/2011 8:47:12 AM)

OP: have her strut around like the barbie you want her to be

she should be spending hours a day on her hair and nails, tits and make up
she should be daily for hours in the gym or spa

and the rest of the time she can sit on a chair next to the door looking pristine and waiting for you to come home




bimbosletgezocht -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/16/2011 10:37:50 AM)

Ok thank you for the useless reactions so far.

To answer some of them, indeed the true dominant in the realtionship is always the submissive, the sub dictates the hard limits soft limits in the bdsm play.

Thats what often brings tensions and problems in a relation if dominant dont get that. Good masters know this bad master will do jail time for rape or worse...

And of course i have a schedule already with her getting up doing chores making breakfast, waking me dressing me, playtime, gym time, house time and playtime.


Im looking for better ones or proven ones to progress things better....



Ronald




SweetShySubgirl -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/16/2011 10:45:21 AM)

I think things just sort of naturally progress as you see what works and what doesn't.

Allow her some free time in between all that you mentioned she does already and see how she uses it, see if she needs more direction or less. Does she laze about if there's nothing specifically told to her, or is she proactive looking for things to do for you? Allow her some respite daily, but as long as it's not excessive, it shouldn't be an issue.

Ask her what might help her, too. Sometimes she thinks of something that no one else does.




Mainman661 -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/16/2011 12:38:57 PM)

She sounds like a blast, but if she's putting a strain on you, then you need to control her in that respect.
I learned the hard way not long ago that subs can use Doms and you don't even realize it until it's destroying you.  She's getting her thrills at the expense of your own.
Perhaps instead of worrying about what she enjoys, you should reflect on what you want her to do for you.  And if that answer comes to her laying off, or her giving you time to herself, consider it a discipline and teach her it.  "You will spend each day between 5 and 7PM to yourself and are not to disturb me."  You can even see how she enjoys sitting in a corner of the room or at your feet, patiently waiting for your attention when you're ready.
You can have her please you in ways she hasn't.  Help with your business.  Provide general service to you (wash your feet, back massage, etc).  Have her pick up a hobby such as sewing, knitting, or any other hobby that pleases you.  She could be tasked with reading a book (or a series of books) and writing a summary/report on each one.  That should keep her very busy.  Just because she's a sex slave (I assume) doesn't mean all tasks must be sexual.

There's a few ideas off the top of my head to help you out.  I really hope you get to enjoy her more by making sure she's meeting your needs and pleasures and less worrying about hers.




Aileen1968 -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/16/2011 1:30:31 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: bimbosletgezocht


To answer some of them, indeed the true dominant in the realtionship is always the submissive, the sub dictates the hard limits soft limits in the bdsm play.

Thats what often brings tensions and problems in a relation if dominant dont get that. Good masters know this bad master will do jail time for rape or worse..


Ronald


Ummmm. No. A bit of a generalization?
You seem to think it's more the norm to have topping from the bottom and that's fine since you seem to enjoy it.
But please don't think that all bdsm relationships have this element.




LillyBoPeep -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/16/2011 1:31:37 PM)

i couldn't tolerate a relationship where that was a central tenet... 




agirl -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/16/2011 2:55:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: coookie

TPE means more than just fun sex games. It means she does all the shit you don't want to or dont have the time to do



I'm glad that's not how M sees TPE...... on both counts.

agirl




HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/16/2011 6:03:12 PM)

quote:

To answer some of them, indeed the true dominant in the realtionship is always the submissive, the sub dictates the hard limits soft limits in the bdsm play
Not always. Hanners is without a doubt the true dominant in our relationship. I have no limits. This is not to say there are no limits in place, just that Hanners set them. My only "right" around here is to call the whole thing off and go back to just being lovers. I do, however, have a lot of what could be considered power in the relationship, but that "power" comes from the fact that she loves me. Not that I ever take advantage of that, no never, not me! [8|]

Now to the question. Well I don't have a rigid schedule, but I do have a regular routine.

My Normal Daily Routine
- Wake up with the alarm (11 AM to noon), get up, get Hanners' orange juice and toast (or bagel when we have them) ready.
- Bring them to Hanners and wake her up.
- Have sex, snuggle and make out and talk.
- Go for a swim in the river if its nice out.
- Shower time. Wash each other, dry each other, do each others hair (not like a hair do, but brush and blow dry, put in braids or whatever).
- Get breakfast (cereal or cold cut sandwiches, her choice) & bring it to wherever Hanners is (usually living room). Eat together, clean up (always just me, I usually do the dishes at this point).
- Snuggle, make out, talk and goof around online (mostly CM) together.
- Get Hanners dressed for work, kiss her and wave to her as she drives off (2 PM or 4 PM depending which shift she has).
- Go to the park and hang out for a while (usually do some writing). If its nice out I'll sunbathe in the back yard, if its not sunny go for a walk along the river, if its rainy I just go inside and write or look stuff up online.
- Lunch ( 5 - 6 PM).
- Do housework. Wash floors & walls, laundry, minor errands at the local store.
- Goof around online (mostly CM), talk with my Dad in Yahoo.
- Either get dinner ready if there's something premade in the freezer (there usually is, Hanners usually cooks and freezes a bunch of stuff on her days off) or get everything ready for Hanners to make dinner.
- Hanners comes home (9 - 11 PM depending on what shift she's on). Snuggle, make out, talk, have sex.
- Help make dinner. Eat dinner together, clean up (usually together, but that's up to her, as a rule I leave the dishes til the next day).
- Snuggle, make out, talk, watch TV and goof around online (mostly CM) together.
- Go for a swim (skinny dipping rules!) in the river if it's nice out, have sex and go to sleep (4 - 6 AM).

That's what most of my days are like. Some days there's no time for the park or the walk, some days I don't do a lot of housework because I get busy writing or researching stuff. Some evenings I get together with my girlfriends, they usually come here and we watch a movie and gab...girl stuff, or make out and fool around.

On Hanners' days off there is no schedule, we just do whatever she wants to, some days we barely get out of bed, other days we drive out to Gatineau Park and go for long hikes, other times we have parties, or do a movie marathon, or just hang out together. We almost always manage to put in some play time on her days off, and sometimes fit it on her workdays as well.

Groceries are usually done on her days off, or in the late afternoons when my g/f can use her parents' car.

It's a harsh, demanding life, but it suits me. [;)]

p.s. If you're a male dominant, why do you have stolen pictures of women on your profile?




peppermint -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/17/2011 12:26:33 PM)

If she's too much trouble and taking up too much of your precious time, get rid of her.  Find a someone who requires less of your time or effort.  




sunshinemiss -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/17/2011 4:36:49 PM)

Put her in university. Not only will it give her focus and something to do with her time, but she'll make more money in the long run which will free things up for you guys.

For the record, Lockit, I took my pic off the internet too. Do you really think I'm a sunflower? :)

best,
sunshine




coookie -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/17/2011 8:18:46 PM)

lol good point agirl .. in my relationship it means that (usually)

OP sorry i wasn't more helpful. You could always loan her out to all of your friends.




analyticalmaster -> RE: Daily schedules for a slave girl (6/17/2011 8:56:09 PM)

Ronald
First of all, While I cant say its not true, the supermodel looks just a tad too good to be true.  Second of all assuming there is any reality in what you are posting, grow yourself a pair.  If you have just a Top/bottom relationship, yes she would be the dominant one demanding you fill her sensation wants, a pain slut can run any normal guy ragged trying to meet their wants.  A relationship that has a tpe component which is the only kind that can last, requires that you be the man.  You make the choices, you decide what when where and how.  A good word to learn is NO.  But you are still young and full of cum, so the little head is still doing your thinking for you.




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