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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 6/16/2011 7:47:00 AM   
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How do Dom's in this lifestyle carry themself when they find a submissive girl wanting to learn all she can of enjoy this lifestyle if she is married and the husband doesnt want this kind of fun... Or would you walk away ?


I have seen Doms agreeing to do sessions with married women all the time at the club. Sex does not enter into the equation normally.

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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 6/16/2011 7:54:45 AM   
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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 6/16/2011 8:47:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BendMeOverSir

In the vanilla life men would see a  girl & would do his best to have her if he was attracted to her.. How do Dom's in  this lifestyle carry themself when they find a submissive girl wanting to learn all she can of  enjoy this lifestyle if she is married and the husband doesnt want this kind of fun... Or would you walk away ?


If it's a situation where you're husband isn't aware of you wanting to participate, you'll still find people who are willing to engage in it with you.  There's no difference between the vanilla and kinky worlds on that one.  Some guys don't care who they are doing it with as long as they are getting their rocks off.  Others will care about their own moral standards, regardless of where you set yours. 


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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 6/16/2011 9:17:13 AM   
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Others will care about their own moral standards, regardless of where you set yours. 


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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 6/16/2011 11:20:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Others will care about their own moral standards, regardless of where you set yours. 



i nominate this as pompous piffle from the poly posse

'cos everybody cares about their own moral standards, regardless (or not) of where others set theirs

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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 6/16/2011 12:20:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sure a "real Dom" would do lots of things

would the Dom you want do that??

*ponders*

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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 6/16/2011 12:28:51 PM   
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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 6/16/2011 12:32:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think we need to start a section of the boards called:

"Just because you are in a BDSM Lifestyle it does not mean your basic value system and behaviors should be any differen than Vanillas".

That way, we could lump all the various threads about this kind of thing into one repository.

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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 6/16/2011 12:37:32 PM   
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^^ nice! 



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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 6/16/2011 4:00:53 PM   
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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 6/16/2011 5:00:44 PM   
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In my totally vanilla little life, I value honor over pussy. So no, I wouldn't grab my buddies wife even if she had the hots for me. Amazingly enough, getting into BDSM has not corrupted my sense of honor and integrity nor has it made me so addicted to pussy that I can't control myself.

Now.... if that friend's wife wanted to learn something that I knew, sexual or otherwise, and HE was good with that then that'd be a different story.



Nope Nope I am not banging my buds bitch PERIOD to my way of thinking that's like pissing in your own pool.
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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 6/16/2011 5:02:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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How do Dom's in this lifestyle carry themself when they find a submissive girl wanting to learn all she can of enjoy this lifestyle if she is married and the husband doesnt want this kind of fun... Or would you walk away ?


I have seen Doms agreeing to do sessions with married women all the time at the club. Sex does not enter into the equation normally.


That still doesn't make it "right"

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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 6/16/2011 7:00:58 PM   
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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 8/7/2011 4:20:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm in an open marriage. I would play in a second with a woman who was in something similar.

A woman who was cheating ... at most I might be willing to empathise and flirt with/compliment her, if I really liked her, but that would be the uppermost limit.

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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 8/7/2011 5:21:21 AM   
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If she's married, she's useless to me. 
i concur. i don't care if the husband knows or approves, if she's married to him, she's at best a fuck to me.

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999 men out of 1000 who approach you online want to fuck you - and this number is probably conservative.
looking at her i'd say it's safe to say that's very fucking conservative number.

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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 8/8/2011 4:55:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you make a vow to be faithful to one and break it than the person doing it would be less than trash in my peronal opinion.

Can you find others with differing opinions. Those willing to "play" without worry of moral ramifications. Of course you can.

What I am wondering about is more why would you want to continue to have a realationship of this kind (marriage) with someone that has no interest in it themself. People are into all kinds of different things but I am not sure how I could hold onto a realationship with someone that had no interest in this part of my personality.

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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 8/8/2011 5:22:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well it would all depend on whats going on to be honest.

1. If the husband doesn't know, and isn't in the hospital with cancer, coma, or life threatening illness then no I would walk away.
2. He does know and doesn't consent to this then again I would walk away.
3. Husband consents, and said wife is only looking for the sexual aspects of this lifestyle, then again I would walk away.
4. Husband consents and the wife wants more then just the sexual aspects, then I wouldn't mind at all.

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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 8/8/2011 5:33:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Sakone

Well it would all depend on whats going on to be honest.

1. If the husband doesn't know, and isn't in the hospital with cancer, coma, or life threatening illness then no I would walk away.
2. He does know and doesn't consent to this then again I would walk away.
3. Husband consents, and said wife is only looking for the sexual aspects of this lifestyle, then again I would walk away.
4. Husband consents and the wife wants more then just the sexual aspects, then I wouldn't mind at all.

AS A MaN OF THE CLOTH SMILE I AGREE WITH YOU SMILE...I have many married women just seeking a fuck however as a mean sob sadistic man I do have rules to live by,,now if she is just seeking the pain thats she craves then maybe just maybe i will give it to her after all a slut is still a slut..B

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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 8/8/2011 6:34:42 PM   
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In the vanilla life men would see a girl & would do his best to have her if he was attracted to her.. How do Dom's in this lifestyle carry themself when they find a submissive girl wanting to learn all she can of enjoy this lifestyle if she is married and the husband doesnt want this kind of fun... Or would you walk away ?


The sub would do well to find a mentor to help in the transition.

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RE: Would a Real Dom do this? - 8/8/2011 6:38:23 PM   
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