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RE: Money up front ? - 6/16/2011 10:19:47 AM   
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Well I was thinking of trying some new ones. Must admit haven't fell victim since then and I suppose your thinking whats he moaning about ? The fact is MOST ones that I have asked won't even start saying how much they want OR IF they will even see me ? 10 Years ago I was a bit naive !

You're also thinking why I don't stick with the ones I know? Well I see it that PRO dommes are only financially interested and yes it's ALL very nice etc but why shouldn't I try others ?

If I was collared by a lifestyle Domme then I wouldn't be using Pro Dommes ? In short why should I pay just to communicate ?
The other usual retort is "time wasters" fucking hell I think that's a bit rich when exploitation is the agenda WITHOUT even experiencing anything. I know some dudes like financial stress, I don't. BUT yes BUT I'm willing to pay for a goodtime and would say I'm generous.

Pisses me right OFF



Please don't assume that you know what I am thinking and try to answer what you think I am asking based on that. Thank you.

You are lashing out and saying things that you cannot know. You don't know how good they are as a dominant, if they are in fact a dominant or simply a scammer. You are focusing on others and what they do, rather than what you are doing. Because you aren't collared... you are seeking where you know the results will most likely be flaky and then blaming the flakes. How about a bit of personal accountability?

There are a lot of women trying to take advantage, but you cannot excuse your own actions or what you try to overlook when seeking a dominant. The moment someone mentions tribute in a profile or to you... you could turn and walk, rather than bitch and go find someone that doesn't mention tribute. We are out there.

What you have done here is just let a lot of dominant women know a lot about who you are and how you deal with things. What you fail to see is that we are out here watching too and when we see something like this, we remember and most of us would exclude you from someone we would consider as someone to welcome into our life, unless we like a wrong focus, laying blame and immature responses.

You don't like something... walk... walk towards the somethings you do like. It is as simple as that. If you wish to cry out about the injustice in life... I am sure you could find a much better cause.


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RE: Money up front ? - 6/16/2011 10:24:01 AM   
Nicem


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We're not missing a thing.

You paid ten years ago. Twice. And you're still pissed off enough after ten years to start a thread about it, which reads just like the hundreds of other threads on the same subject.

Lemme sum up. There are people who want you to pay money. You don't want to pay money. You're incompatible. End of story.


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RE: Money up front ? - 6/16/2011 10:27:36 AM   
SweetShySubgirl


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You're MISSING the point LoL When I say PAY I mean for something not just fucking chat or negotiation doesn't float my boat.


So, when you say PAY, what are you PAYING FOR?

Sounds stupid to me in any way, how's that saying go? "A fool and his money are soon parted."

Take it how you will, don't pay for anything, if you want to voluntarily buy them something nice that's one thing. But paying all the time...you've got sucker written all over you.


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RE: Money up front ? - 6/16/2011 11:03:50 AM   
LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: SweetShySubgirl

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ORIGINAL: Nicem
You're MISSING the point LoL When I say PAY I mean for something not just fucking chat or negotiation doesn't float my boat.


So, when you say PAY, what are you PAYING FOR?

Sounds stupid to me in any way, how's that saying go? "A fool and his money are soon parted."

Take it how you will, don't pay for anything, if you want to voluntarily buy them something nice that's one thing. But paying all the time...you've got sucker written all over you.




Nope, I'd say that's a client... though I imagine his idea of a "good time" might not be the idea of most pro dommes... Just a hunch...

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RE: Money up front ? - 6/16/2011 11:24:03 AM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: Lockit

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ORIGINAL: Nicem

Yes I think that is the best policy. Plus half of them can't even Domme properly



How would you know if the last time you tried them... was ten years ago? Come on now... Give it to me straight.



That was my thought exactly, Lockit.  How would he know that they can't domme properly if he hasn't tried them?

I think somebody sent money to an on-line Domme, and he wasn't happy with what he got for his money, and now he's whining to all of us. 

I guess that getting burned (twice) 10 years ago didn't teach him enough of a lesson. 

BTW OP, your profile says that you joined this site in 2009.  So why are you starting a thread like this in 2011?  Haven't you figured out how CM works yet?  The other side of this site is full of mean people from places like Ghana, Russia, Nigeria, and the Philippines who want very badly to take your money.  Despite what your penis is telling you, don't send it to them.  Okay?

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RE: Money up front ? - 6/16/2011 11:37:56 AM   
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Anyone I had to pay to be with outside of the usual "Pay" (as in take out to a movie and dinner..which isn't an obligation on my part) isn't someone I'd want to be with to begin with.


So you're now demanding a refund?

No chance, sucker!!

Your half of the dinner and movie would be nice, yes.

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RE: Money up front ? - 6/16/2011 11:42:10 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		I can certainly stump up half the dinner.

It might not smell so good now, though....

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RE: Money up front ? - 6/16/2011 2:02:34 PM   
Icarys


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I can certainly stump up half the dinner.

It might not smell so good now, though....

I suppose I could take it out in trade which would help you keep it packed tightly in there. At least for awhile.


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RE: Money up front ? - 6/16/2011 2:13:48 PM   
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I'm afraid you are missing the point DUDE !



I think it is YOU who is missing the point...........Duuuuuuude.


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RE: Money up front ? - 6/16/2011 2:35:28 PM   
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Does anyong think a tribute submissive would work? I need more money.


At our last staff meeting, I asked VideoAdminAlpha if I could be a tribute mod.

I don't think I've ever heard her laugh so hard. In fact, it's been a week and I think she's still laughing.

I get NO RESPECT.

Mod21


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RE: Money up front ? - 6/16/2011 2:38:27 PM   
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Does anyong think a tribute submissive would work? I need more money.

Here's Fifty bucks...Now Bend Over!

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RE: Money up front ? - 6/16/2011 2:53:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
Does anyong think a tribute submissive would work? I need more money.

Here's Fifty bucks...Now Bend Over!


That's another way to do it. Seems like it would work better than my idea.

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RE: Money up front ? - 6/16/2011 3:14:41 PM   
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Does anyong think a tribute submissive would work? I need more money.

Here's Fifty bucks...Now Bend Over!


Monopoly money is NOT going to cut it.

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RE: Money up front ? - 6/17/2011 6:31:01 AM   
Nicem


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Status: offline 		Just to clarify and shut some smart arses on here. The point I'm making IS why should someone pay money to just negotiate a price. And Rochsub2006 I haven't been ripped off since ten years ago and that was not knowing.

The trouble with some people they exploit to the full with all this time waster bullshit and you will do as I say and it's very evident it's contagious as most ads are related to either money/presents or blackmail LoL

:o)

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RE: Money up front ? - 6/17/2011 6:42:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Nicem

Just to clarify and shut some smart arses on here. The point I'm making IS why should someone pay money to just negotiate a price. And Rochsub2006 I haven't been ripped off since ten years ago and that was not knowing.

The trouble with some people they exploit to the full with all this time waster bullshit and you will do as I say and it's very evident it's contagious as most ads are related to either money/presents or blackmail LoL

:o)



Ok... Here's the thing - there are some people whose time is the thing they negotiate - time and the use of their talents. Coaches, therapists, lawyers, doctors, etc. You go to a doctor and ask for an opinion or to negotiate or whatever? No they have a fee. Same with a lot of professions. Some will give you a 15-30 minute free intro discussion, but still, their fees are their fees.

People have to pay because of supply and demand. If it's not your deal, you don't dig it, you say no and you move on. So what? When the plumber comes ot my house to look at my backed up toilet that has overflowed onto the floor, I'm not gonna argue with him a whole lot - he holds the cards because I *need* his services. If on the other hand I just want to move the sink from this wall to that wall and am in no hurry, I'll negotiate with him. He'll be smart to negotiate because when my toilet overflows, I'm more likely to call the dude I know. I hold hte ards in this scenario.

The question for you is - who holds the ards? How much do you NEED the services of the gals you are contacting?

good luck,
sunshine

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RE: Money up front ? - 6/17/2011 6:53:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		When I log on to this site my home page is set to feature the newest members (female dominates in my state). I  read the condensed profiles sometimes and there are literally dozens of them stating "pay piggies" "financial domination" ect.  When I read threads like this it just makes me wonder why there are so many and are they all scams.  Even if I was still looking for some one I would not be nor was ever inclined to initiate contact with any of those.  Is it so lucrative that they just come out of the wood work ?  Most are a bit out of my age range anyway but good grief, why are there so many ?  I'm just curious.


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RE: Money up front ? - 6/17/2011 7:07:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Does anyong think a tribute submissive would work? I need more money.


I'll send you what ever amount you want but you'll have to come over and clean my house first.


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RE: Money up front ? - 6/17/2011 7:17:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ModTwentyOne


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Does anyong think a tribute submissive would work? I need more money.


At our last staff meeting, I asked VideoAdminAlpha if I could be a tribute mod.

I don't think I've ever heard her laugh so hard. In fact, it's been a week and I think she's still laughing.

I get NO RESPECT.

Mod21



I'd tribute ya, 21...

as long as ya don't mind antique, crocheted afghan blankets covered in cat hair...

oh wait!  I have an awesome Bettie Page pic I could offer!

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RE: Money up front ? - 6/17/2011 7:21:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lovmuffin

When I log on to this site my home page is set to feature the newest members (female dominates in my state). I  read the condensed profiles sometimes and there are literally dozens of them stating "pay piggies" "financial domination" ect.  When I read threads like this it just makes me wonder why there are so many and are they all scams.  Even if I was still looking for some one I would not be nor was ever inclined to initiate contact with any of those.  Is it so lucrative that they just come out of the wood work ?  Most are a bit out of my age range anyway but good grief, why are there so many ?  I'm just curious.



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RE: Money up front ? - 6/17/2011 7:37:09 AM   
Nicem


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Status: offline 		Hurray LoL Someone with observation.

To the one about paying for professional services doctors etc. They don't ask for money or presents before do they ?

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ORIGINAL: lovmuffin

When I log on to this site my home page is set to feature the newest members (female dominates in my state). I  read the condensed profiles sometimes and there are literally dozens of them stating "pay piggies" "financial domination" ect.  When I read threads like this it just makes me wonder why there are so many and are they all scams.  Even if I was still looking for some one I would not be nor was ever inclined to initiate contact with any of those.  Is it so lucrative that they just come out of the wood work ?  Most are a bit out of my age range anyway but good grief, why are there so many ?  I'm just curious.



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