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Faramir -> RE: Can a Dom be 'trained'? (5/28/2005 5:28:01 PM)
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ORIGINAL: masterdarkthorn
There is no such thing as a totaly dominant character. Everyone submits at one time or another and everyone dominates at one time or another. Of course a person who is dominant by nature can be trained...if they coundn't, they would never learn anything. Think about it.
You are mistaking leadership, a suite of virtues and socio-political role, for dominance, a sexual orientation or framework.
I'm never submissive in itnimacy - it just doesn't suit me. I know people who are submissive all the time in intimacy - it's how they are put together.
Being dominant in intimacy doesn't say shit about your leadership qualities or role in the broader world, and vice versa.
If I went back and polled my fellow officers at 2d Tank Battalion, while they all ranged from good to outstanding as leaders - while they all had power roles - I'm sure that some of them were sexually dominant, some were submissive, and the majority were vanilla.
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