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New to alot - 5/15/2006 7:42:45 AM

beenwhipped

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I was recently introduced to the lifestyle when a friend invited me to a club, i accualy agreed to go thinking that it was something totally different, but i thought i knew what i was getting into before arrival. before the end of the night she had me strapped to across and was flogging me

before walking into the club that night, i was unsure how anyone could enjoy being beaten like that, after leaving the club i was wanting more more more.

I have taken quite some time combing the net looking for more information, i have joined several message boards trying to gage what else I do want and do not want. I do not think that i would be turned on by taking on the top role, but the extent many of the dommes have posted on this site scares me a little. I want to explore my submissive side more, but I am unsure at this point how very submissive i could be. How would I go about finding a FemDomme that would be willing to teach and respect some very hard limits that I know I will have especialy as I am learning.

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RE: New to alot - 5/15/2006 11:28:45 PM

ElectraGlide

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Hello and Welcome to CM you will gain great information from the forums.

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RE: New to alot - 5/16/2006 12:24:34 AM

Reflectivesoul

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Hello beenwhipped and welcome to the wonderful world of CM and online BDSM. The best advise I can offer you is to try local munches or groups, maybe ask your friend is she could introduce you to a seeking Domme. Also just a hint of advise if while combing profiles you see someone you would like to contact, be POLITE. No one liner e-mails, be open and honest that you are new and look for friends first. Dont jump head first into a wading pond, you're likely to break your neck. I also have to warn you, dont be upset or get discouraged if people dont reply to you, it happens, a lot of time peoples e-mail settings will block someone and so they dont know they are ignoring you. Get familliar with the forum posting put your name out there so people can see you and find you. Oh and another thing, work on your profile. In the words of a very smart boy in these threads, there are a lot of people looking for a Domme, make yourself stand out to Her and be noticed. Dommes get hundreds of e-mails a week you're going to have some pretty good qualities in order for you to stick out above someone else and for you to catch Her eye.

Good luck to ya and if you need help, feel free to ask for it.

~RS~

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