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sunshinemiss -> RE: King of Kings and loves to eat pussy... (7/4/2011 2:36:59 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Awareness
Reality is malleable and in any social group the strongest reality dominates. A sub will quite happily buy into the reality which the dominant believes to be true provided he actually believes it.
To be clear, I am choosing to not answer this because I have already and because it's not even worth the time to respond with substance. It is clearly wrong.
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However, relationships of all kinds require compromise. That's just life.
Since when? Ye Gods Sunny, do you even remember what forums you're on? Making your sub do something they hate forms a large part of the discussion here - especially in the mistress forum.
Everybody compromises in healthy relationships. I thought the "healthy" part was understood. Evidently not.
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You won't criticise anyone you respect because you - like most of the women here - lack intellectual honesty. You prefer to believe that your friends are always right and that being wrong, lacking integrity or simply behaving like an assclown are attributes which only apply to people you don't like.
There are threads that prove you wrong. I certainly do criticize them. I can't be bothered with looking for them because I have better things to do with my time than go through recent threads. So we are clear - the people I mentioned are not my friends. They are men who have demonstrated certain characteristics that I find fall under the term "integrity". What makes that so is that they are in fact willing to admit their mistakes and move forward. More than once I have stood up to them in public (on the boards for this discussion) when I thought they were wrong. When I believe they are engaged in asshattery, I will tell them that as well. However, I do that in private. Some things are in fact private to my way of thinking. Any person who has gotten a "look, we need to have a come to Jesus" talk (and there are several) knows I respect them. When I don't respect them, I can't be bothered.
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I do well with smart, secure women because they're not threatened by my opinions. On the contrary, they tend to either embrace them or spar with me about them. That you were unable to do so speaks volumes.
I am choosing to not answer something that is obviously incorrect (and obvious within this thread).
Just because you believe something does not make it so. Same is true for me. I, however, am willing to back up my statements with facts and with proof. To my way of thinking, that is what speaks volumes.
good luck in your search,
sunshine
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