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Willowmoon -> Need suggestions for a gift for Master (6/20/2011 5:20:41 AM)

I am to be collared by my Master this coming weekend, the collaring ceremony is going to be held at his birthday party so I guess in a way he is getting me for his birthday. I am really wanting to give him a birthday gift that will also symbolise this special occassion but I am drawing a blank as to what a suitable gift could be.

Does anybody here have any suggestions?




gothikbutterfly -> RE: Need suggestions for a gift for Master (6/20/2011 5:22:34 AM)

A ring that has the word Master engraved on it perhaps?




GreedyTop -> RE: Need suggestions for a gift for Master (6/20/2011 5:46:45 AM)

if you know any good photographers, what about a pic of him holding you by the wrist, or hair maybe.. cropped so it is JUST the hands.. maybe done in B&W (maybe sepia tones)?  either way, it could be a piece of art that you could hang on a wall that is a symbol of the relationship, but also subtle ...




leadership527 -> RE: Need suggestions for a gift for Master (6/20/2011 9:22:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Willowmoon
Does anybody here have any suggestions?

Sure, I do. But it's not what you are looking for.

In my own eyes, getting the gift of "Carol" is kind of like winning the super-lotto 20 times in a row. Honestly, what sort of "thing" is going to compare to that? I'd vote for "do a better job giving him you." Not, by the way that I'm implying you're doing a poor job. But especially in the beginning of relationships I think there's always "the path" and you can always be "another step down it". Take that step.




MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Need suggestions for a gift for Master (6/20/2011 7:22:56 PM)

 
Show up nekkid with pizza... and beer!!! [;)][:D]





HannahLynHeather -> RE: Need suggestions for a gift for Master (6/20/2011 9:35:43 PM)

i had this wonderfully fucking bitchy response i was about to type up, and then decided it had a kernel of truth in it.

get him something normal, the sort of thing you'd get your husband/lover/boyfriend on any other birthday. he's already getting you in the collaring for fuck's sake, so just get him something nice and normal. if it were me, i'd want a fucking curling iron, mine is wonky and unreliable, i need a new one.

this is why i think a collaring or wedding or any such thing on a birthday is a dumb idea. it mixes them up too much. in the future is it his birthday or your anniversary you are celebrating? on my fucking birthday i want to be celebrating me. on our aniversary i want to be celebrating us.

anyway, its too fucking late for that advice, so i'd get him a new putter, or driving gloves, or a book, or the cd box set of his favorite band, or whatever. a normal gift, to seperate the two celebrations. for the collaring he gets you, for the birthday he gets a fucking skill saw.





lizi -> RE: Need suggestions for a gift for Master (6/21/2011 5:09:58 AM)

I'm going to combine both Greedy's and Hannah's suggestion. It's his birthday, that's a normal gift-giving occasion. It's a collaring so that's something the two of you are sharing. Do the picture thing, Greedy had some nice ideas for that or just make a nice picture of you. Guys are visual creatures, a good picture of you in a frame would be appreciated and make a smaller wallet size that he can carry around. This is coming up really quickly, if you have a cam you can do it yourself and print it off on your printer...go get a nice frame. Play with outfits, cropping, background....the picture thing can be really creative and lots of fun. He'll see that you put some time into it and that'll mean more than anything.

You could even do a montage type of thing if you have any photoshop skills and choose things like Greedy suggested that would subtly suggest D/s.




sunshinemiss -> RE: Need suggestions for a gift for Master (6/21/2011 7:42:47 AM)

This book:
The Five Love Languages





ThundersCry -> RE: Need suggestions for a gift for Master (6/21/2011 7:28:59 PM)

A NICE rod and reel!




OohAahMrs -> RE: Need suggestions for a gift for Master (6/23/2011 7:28:16 AM)

If it was me, i'd like a bucket of French Honey, yes i'm serious, try Bernard Michaud.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Need suggestions for a gift for Master (6/23/2011 7:48:43 AM)

Some of the best presents I have given or received had nothing to do with cost, and every thing to do with meaning and context. Which is why I hate questions like this. We don't know your master, we have no idea who he is and what floats his boat.

Really, if you can't figure this out for yourself, than perhaps you don't know him well enough to be collared by him.

And I agree, having an anniversary and birthday on the same day is a bad idea. One dilutes the others, in my never humble opinion.





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