MissImmortalPain
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SubBBw28, this is a wonderful statement of pain and healing. I hope it helps to make you feel better to get it out. A creative soul never stays lonely long(my grandmother used to say that) Because creative people have a way of shining like stars even at the darkest time. People are naturally attracted to that. I know what a broken heart feels like so I do feel for you. But you really have empowered yourself here....don't let that go. Hold on to knowing your own self worth and a better partner will come to you.
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MrMarshall you are talking about the difference between "fight-or-flight" and "tend-and-befriend." The first commonly followed by men, the latter by women. Men are more likely than women to respond to stressful experiences by developing certain stress-related disorders, including hypertension , aggressive behavior, or abuse of alcohol , or hard drugs. Where on the other hand the tend-and-befriend response may protect women against stress. There are some rare stresser(like broken heart syndrome) that do more harm to women than men. In both cases people believing that they should hide, or that they can control their emotions, cause even more stress. Which isn't good for anyone.
ETA- *oh* and that thing about "more emotion changing hormones" Women also make more of the hormone that allowes people to deal with stress than men do.
< Message edited by MissImmortalPain -- 9/1/2011 8:17:31 PM >
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We must all go through a right of passage,and it must be physical, it must be painful,and it must leave a mark.
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