Iamsemisweet
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Joined: 4/9/2011 From: The Great Northwest, USA Status: offline
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First of all, don't act so wounded meldin. You posted a comment that you meant to be provocative, so don't be surprised that it worked. And yes, everyone is entitled to their opinion, I just question how well thought out your is. Sounds like you were quite the baby factory. If you and your ex were able to send that many kids to college or otherwise set them up for success in life, then good for you. If not, then my opinion is that people who knocked out kids, without the ability of providing for their future, are the "source of many of the problems in society in general.". Didn't sound like you ever had much on the ball, but the women who really crack me up are the ones who put their career on hold, and expect to start right up where they left off when they return to work Yes, I agree it is their and their husband's decision for them to stay home, but it is pretty stupid to think they are just going to return to the work force, with great fanfare, when they happen to feel like it. Sorry toots, it just doesn't work that way. So your husband took off, did he? Well, I have dated a lot of men who's exes were stay at home moms. These guys tend to use phrases like "I felt taken advantage of" and "I felt like I was just the bank" when referring to their ex wives. Wonder how your ex describes you. Of course, all of this is just my opinion. Good luck finding someone willing to support your dead ass for the rest of your life. Hopefully you have some sort of retirement set aside, because I sure don't want to support you. I tend to think that "many of the problems in society in general" are from too many mooches thinking the rest of us owe them a living. quote:
ORIGINAL: maiden4meldin Fyi, I don't hate my job, I hate working. While married as a "mooch" we ran several home based businesses, along with one retail store as owner operators. I was also in charge of financing, along with day to day operations of the retail store, and the rental properties. I hate working because it takes so much time away from the things that I truly valued, like raising my children, who btw came to our store and did their home schooling, and devoting myself to my husband. My son is angry because his father checked out, and moved to the philipines, we have two other daughters that are married with growing families, and these two strong women have chosen to "mooch" off their husbands and stay at home with their babies, putting their "careers" on hold to do so, a choice between them and their husbands. Two other daughters that one is a single parent by choice. And the other chooses to work. One son that is in university at the moment deciding to rule the world of music producing. So if I offended you career ladies, too bad. We all have opinions, thats why this is a message board right. maiden quote:
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