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New post, I'll be circumspect... - 5/15/2006 5:22:36 PM

LTRsubNW

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I just visited the "Ask a Master" posting area...and of course, "Ask a Mistress" area...and in the "Ask a Mistress" area there were 9,774,812 people (approx.) "visiting this forum" and in the "Ask a Master" posting area, there was one guy named "Bert".

Something tells me, if I'm looking for answers...I need to ask a Mistress.

Okay...now, as a sub, my proclivities tend towards the whole sub genre (you're surprised aren't you?). That's to be expected. As a cuckold wannabee (I checked the spelling..."wannabee" is correct), I am occasionally searching for good data, such as..."is jealousy a factor...how do you deal with it?", and "who puts his socks away?" ("his", meaning...mine, since I can't ever figure out where my car keys are, ergo...socks are a higher order).

So, my question is thus:

Do you, as the Domme/Owner/etc., determine the sexual outlets, do you deem when if at all he can watch, do you not allow him to watch (jealousy), do you force him to watch, do you tease him about other men, do you allow him to watch through a purloined location (closet, two way mirror, camera, etc.), do you fake every minute of it because you know this sets him in high speed full motion video?

(I was just curious)

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RE: New post, I'll be circumspect... - 5/15/2006 5:48:55 PM

MsMacComb

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Yes and no. Oh and sometimes, lol.

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RE: New post, I'll be circumspect... - 5/15/2006 7:23:33 PM

Evanesce

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quote:

Do you, as the Domme/Owner/etc., determine the sexual outlets, do you deem when if at all he can watch, do you not allow him to watch (jealousy), do you force him to watch, do you tease him about other men, do you allow him to watch through a purloined location (closet, two way mirror, camera, etc.), do you fake every minute of it because you know this sets him in high speed full motion video?

Yes, and no, and everything in between, depending on the individual and my mood. However, my primary concern in terms of my slave's sexuality is that there is to be absolutely NO manifestation of jealousy in any way, shape or form. They need to understand and accept that the odds of my using them sexually are not in their favor, because I have a primary sexual partner. That doesn't mean it'll never happen, but as my profile states, it's not high on the priority list.

And check the spelling again. It's wannabe - short for "want to be," which only has one "e."

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RE: New post, I'll be circumspect... - 5/15/2006 7:27:41 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Evanesce

And check the spelling again. It's wannabe - short for "want to be," which only has one "e."

Nope. Wannabee - short for "want a bee," which has two "e"s.

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RE: New post, I'll be circumspect... - 5/15/2006 7:28:55 PM

LadyHugs

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Dear LTRsubNW, Ladies and Gentlemen;

Being a lady--I would fake it, give you a commercial porn video.

I don't have witnesses to my private sexual experiences. So, I'll just have two lads make love and or a lad and lass make love, and I'll do the watching, keeping my modesty.

Respectfully submitted,
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RE: New post, I'll be circumspect... - 5/15/2006 11:58:16 PM

HarryVanWinkle

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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb

Yes and no. Oh and sometimes, lol.

Ms MacComb,

Do you mean, "Absolutely, positively maybe?"

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RE: New post, I'll be circumspect... - 5/16/2006 1:13:51 AM

MsMacComb

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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle
Ms MacComb,
Do you mean, "Absolutely, positively maybe?"

Perhaps sometimes but not so much the rest of the time, lol.
No what I really mean is that what happens one time isnt the same everytime.
One thing I enjoy greatly about various cuckold related activities is the fact that my husband never knows whats happening next. He may be allowed to watch, or not, participate or not, allowed to have an orgasm or not, or I may "ruin" it for him.
Keeping him in a somewhat constant state of anxiety, curiosity, arousal, blue balls, questioning, wondering. Is that a wet spot on the sheets? Who was that guy that called? Am I going out tonight and if so should he wait up for me? If I say no, why not? When will I allow him to have regular sex with me? The millions of questions, and my supplying very few answers. Its like a puzzle or a game with few clues that he desperately wants to solve or play, but never knows when he can. Mental sexual anguish.