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obey1 -> RE: Face Slapping. Your an Expert!? (3/13/2007 10:44:08 AM)
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I did not even cover 'mindset' when one prepares to include slapping. And yes, even the slightest of slaps can inadvertently damage blood vessels (capillaries) and nerves, so lots of practice on yourself is in order and hopefully the repetition will control your swing in the heat of the moment.
One of my subs had sexual, physical, and verbal abuse all throughout her growing up years, from 8-17.
When I found her she was probably MDD. But she also had her very manic moments. After almost three years together working on these things, she saved up her money and decided to get breast implants. We talked about what would be reasonable, and then she decided to go another 50-125cc above that. I guess she wanted huge melons!
Anyway, during the recovery period, something snapped inside her and after a night of drinking together, I had laid down in bed believing she would come soon. Instead, before I fell asleep, I heard choking sounds coming from the floor next to the bed. When I rolled over to see WTF, she was there on the floor choking herself with a scarf tied in a knot around her throat. The knot suggested to me that if it tightened enough to lock, I would be running for a knife and didn't want to do that so I jumped on top of her, grabbed her hand and tried to loosen her grip. She is a strong woman and so I wasn't having much success with that one.
She was nude and her big ass titties were pointing straight up at me, so knowing they were sensitive from the surgery I started slapping them with my fingertips to get her attention and distract her. She finally did let go to protect herself from the stings, but I continued while I used my other hand to loosen the knot and get the scarf off from around her neck. The whole situation was emotionally traumatic for her and obviously painful, but a worse situation was avoided.
Long story short, those controlled smacks on recently stretched tissue left some horrible looking patches of broken capillaries and bruising that took a few weeks to disappear. She had to tell her surgeon that she was riding her bicycle and crashed into some bushes with a halter top on, LOL. He just looked at her and raised his eyebrow in sarcastic disbelief, but didn't say anything else. I guess docs are used to girls pushing the limits as soon as they get a new pair.
It was a lesson for both of us, but yes, you can go to work the next day and have some discoloration that is going to be very hard to explain away so be very careful, everyone.
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