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Virginal as opposed to experienced? - 5/15/2006 5:57:17 PM

BLKMADONA

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Which is the preferred? Thats a tough one..I suppose it depends on the situation. Example: a beginner Dom/Domme and an experienced sub-both can grow together(and vice versa).Me....I have more preference towards the inexperienced.Tho I am myself inexperienced(doing real time now-guys...nothing beats it hands down)-but I atleast have knowledge about this lifestyle-and besides..we are all beginners at one time or another.

I understand why men like virginal women. Theres something almost majical about taking ones *cherry* for the first time(and I agree with them).To be with them on that first experience*sigh*To see the facial expression on them(the shock n pain..heh)..just simply delicious!That is not to rule out the experience-If I am unsure about something..by all means..show Me...after all..I am a hands-on-Domme.

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RE: Virginal as opposed to experienced? - 5/15/2006 6:08:38 PM

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Sure there's something nifty about being with a virgin.

But everyone's new to the relationship when it starts. And it takes a lot more than niftiness to make a relationship work in the long term.

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RE: Virginal as opposed to experienced? - 5/15/2006 8:16:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Sure there's something nifty about being with a virgin.

I have been with a couple of virgins to sex.

I have been with a couple of virgins to threesomes (fMf)

I have been with a virgin to the lifestyle.

Im not sure what the big attraction is. As George Clooney said (in response to Islamic terrorists) "Who wants 7 virgins? Give me 1 professional."

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RE: Virginal as opposed to experienced? - 5/15/2006 8:35:56 PM

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Virgins or experienced. Neither matter if they are unwilling to let the past go and move on with relationship, as opposed to comparing you to the past people in their lives. And that goes for both sides. Been there and done this with someone recently. Ain't worth the energy if they insist on wallowing in the past, instead of shaping the present to create the future they want, instead of wwanting to relive the past for some screwed up reason.

Yeah, being the first can be fun, but preconceived notions will frequently make things a total clusterfuck if things aren't talked through to the point of the whole conversation being memorized by both sides verbatim. The opposite with experienced, but the same end results.

Just a matter of letting go of pride and moving forward. Just my opinion.

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RE: Virginal as opposed to experienced? - 5/15/2006 9:01:35 PM

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It's like tennis. Virgin if your ego needs boosting. Experienced if you want a good game

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RE: Virginal as opposed to experienced? - 5/15/2006 9:09:32 PM

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