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Liquescent -> Help in flipping the switch (5/15/2006 6:07:24 PM)
Greetings to all from a new member among your ranks! This thread may be brutal only in its' redundancy to most of you, so please don't unravel on me. I am a masculine male who enjoys roleplaying as quite the cute little cd cumslut sub. The woman to whom I am faithfully committed enjoys my En Femme personna: she has experienced the touch of another woman in the past, and cherishes her lesbian fantasies. Our first experimentation as a couple led us to the conclusion that I am to portray the role of her Femmedomme. Assuming the dominant role became possible for me while releasing my inner woman, but my lack of experience as a switch quickly became evident. We both abhorr serious pain/ws/scat, but otherwise are quite the cute little freaks. So why am I here? Not for General Stockdale, but for general suggestions on resource material. After all, it is M'Lady's satisfaction that I cherish the most. If submitting to her request means learning to become her Mistress, than that is my sole desire. Care to help me flip the switch? I am guessing that the most relevant perspectives would be those of a female or TS Dominatrix. Thanks to all for your time, and to those who provide this forum. Liquescent, aka Mistress Steevie Bender

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/15/2006 6:24:05 PM)
One trigger might be how you dress. If you've just come home from work in dockers and a button down, you're not going to feel very feminine. If you, however, go and put on that hot leather outfit that makes you feel like a woman...well, chances are, that switch will flip at least FASTER. Fire

Phoenixandnika -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/15/2006 6:40:40 PM)
I personally love submissives that are willing to explore them fem side. These are some things that I have done to subtle intorduce that to them both in private settings and subtly(secretly) in public. wear womens lingirie underneath your clothing. A pair of nice lace panties that only she and you know about. Allow her to pick them out and pick when you where them. When at home and in play as your fem persona ask her to make you up or even show you how to make yourself up Shave your legs, arms, genital area, and as well as underarms When at home wear a pair of high heels or boots. Heels may be sexy but they can reek habic on your back. knees, and ankles Go wig shopping and find a wig that looks good on you that you can wear at home or when deemed approriate Blessed Be & Good Luck Phoenix's Nika

Liquescent -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/15/2006 6:51:19 PM)
Nika, thank you for your post... I always love a good input! My hair is nearly to my waist, and otherwise absent (although unshaven beneath my hose). The stripper heels were a delightful sight to my lover, and an exquisite humiliation to try on and purchase. Learning to cavort in them is another story. Perhape a scene suggestion would help guide me? THANK YOU! Liquescent

Phoenixandnika -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/15/2006 7:06:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Liquescent Nika, thank you for your post... I always love a good input! My hair is nearly to my waist, and otherwise absent (although unshaven beneath my hose). The stripper heels were a delightful sight to my lover, and an exquisite humiliation to try on and purchase. Learning to cavort in them is another story. Perhape a scene suggestion would help guide me? THANK YOU! Liquescent Your welcome. Here are some of my favorite scenes. lingirie cat walks - try on various lingirie some barefoot some with shoes and other accessories and walk the cat walk(try to walk like a fem.model) dressing you up in a maids uniform and cleaning the house her picking out something completely sissy with frills and lace ect and forcing you to dress up(if your both comfortable you can carry this over into an outting such as lunch, drinks, or shopping) going to a spa or salon and both of you getting petties and manicures. Having her choose out polish colors for your toe nails - or her simply painting your nails at home if your not comfy with the public display going shopping for perfumes and make up and testing them at the store (i.e lipstick) since your hair is long taking a trip to the salon and have your hair professially done if your not comfy with public display this can be done by her in private I have so many more that I enjoy implimenting with those wishing to explore feminization or sissy play. Blessed Be, Phoenix's Nika

Dustyn -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/15/2006 8:58:47 PM)
Phoenix/nika, I would personally advise against public displays of crossdressing, just to avoid the possibility of harassment and possible physicality against the man crossdressing by other males. I live in a fairly liberal city, and I see it happening off and on in the darker alleyways and what not. Just something to consider. - Dustyn

Phoenixandnika -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/16/2006 10:11:06 AM)
To say a Crossdresser should not go out in public as such to me says that they should be ashamed of who / what they are. There is nothing wrong with being a CD, sissyboy, or fem. male. If it makes them happy, doesn't break any laws, and isn't hurting anyone else why make it an issue? The reality is CD, fem. males, and sissy boys have a right to dress as they like just like you or I, or the guy down the street. Now I will admite that society imposes idels of how men should dress and the roles men should hold. So there maybe social consequences to CD in public. That is why I urge people who are just getting started in CD to talk with their parter about they why or why nots. Now let me say this, someone who attacks someone for CD is running the risk of going to jail. Period. It's not legal. Those who Crossdress should not have to hide in the shadows or be afraid or shamed of who / what they are. I know many who crossdress in public though they may get the occassional snide remark from time to time they have not had any "major" issues arise.However, they have prepared themselves mentally, and emotionally for any negative encouters they have. In the end you must do what is right for you and what makes you happy. Blessed Be, Phoenix's Nika

fastlane -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/16/2006 11:09:08 AM)
Dress like the CatWoman. You will not only look like a sexy FemDomme in Latex, but no one in their right mind would fuck with you, with claws like that. Puuuurrfect solutions come with a price though. No Catnip when your out on the town, save that for your Mistress! Whiskers and hairy tongues welcome, Kevin

Phoenixandnika -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/16/2006 11:12:54 AM)
laughs Kevin I am noticing your always good for a laugh. Blessed Be, Phoenix's Nika

fastlane -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/16/2006 4:05:59 PM)
I thought I had confiscated all the naked pictures of me? I want names and sites!

Phoenixandnika -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/16/2006 5:14:13 PM)
I will NEVER tell but anyone wanting a picture of Kevin nude contact me via email and we will negotiate a price. winks towards Kevin Blessed Be, Phoenix's Nika Disclaimer: this is just a joke!

Liquescent -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/16/2006 6:52:36 PM)
Sir Fastlane, thank you for the purrrfect suggestion! A latex catsuit would indeed present an aura of intimidation, and also permit me to manouver my paraphenalia to all the right places. Ideas like that give me a case of the Friskies. With appreciation for your input, Liquescent aka. Mistress Steevie Bender

Reflectivesoul -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/17/2006 12:06:59 AM)
Nika, You know that pic is making hundreds on e-bay as we speak, whew such a hot topic! We must have more to supply the demand! ~RS~

janiceleeinsc -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/24/2006 8:21:23 AM)
I am teachng a Master now how to switch to submissive because he wants to know how it feels to be a sub. I think it is wonderful. The only way to flip the switch is to switch the switch. Get a flogger and try it out. Respectfully, Mistress_Jan

Dustyn -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/24/2006 8:26:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Phoenixandnika To say a Crossdresser should not go out in public as such to me says that they should be ashamed of who / what they are. There is nothing wrong with being a CD, sissyboy, or fem. male. If it makes them happy, doesn't break any laws, and isn't hurting anyone else why make it an issue? The reality is CD, fem. males, and sissy boys have a right to dress as they like just like you or I, or the guy down the street. Now I will admite that society imposes idels of how men should dress and the roles men should hold. So there maybe social consequences to CD in public. That is why I urge people who are just getting started in CD to talk with their parter about they why or why nots. Now let me say this, someone who attacks someone for CD is running the risk of going to jail. Period. It's not legal. Those who Crossdress should not have to hide in the shadows or be afraid or shamed of who / what they are. I know many who crossdress in public though they may get the occassional snide remark from time to time they have not had any "major" issues arise.However, they have prepared themselves mentally, and emotionally for any negative encouters they have. In the end you must do what is right for you and what makes you happy. Blessed Be, Phoenix's Nika While I agree with you completely and totally about people being allowed to simply be themselves, some things do have complications that can impose health problems. Broken jaws, fractured cheeks, cracked ribs. While I personally think it's beyond juvenile to attack someone just because they make you uncomfortable, the world is populated by a number of juveniles. Personally, were I a crossdresser, I'd avoid doing so in public simply to avoid getting into a fight because some inbred, backwood redneck jackoff decided he's got a beef with me. Self preservation should rank a bit higher than being yourself, but I'm brutally practical and I'd rather not be blatant than be blatant and be in a hospital bed. But to each their own.

Dustyn -> RE: Help in flipping the switch (5/24/2006 8:28:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Phoenixandnika I will NEVER tell but anyone wanting a picture of Kevin nude contact me via email and we will negotiate a price. winks towards Kevin Blessed Be, Phoenix's Nika Disclaimer: this is just a joke! Are you saying that fastlane naked is something to laugh about? impish grin

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