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RE: Butt Plugs - 6/24/2011 11:55:25 PM   
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Maybe she's trying to give him a fucking home made EEG.


What's wrong with a home-made EEG ?

D'ya have any idea what I would have to pay for a certified EEG unit with a similar channel count?

Of course, sticking one in my rear never occured to me, nor have I ever seen one designed to vibrate via remote.

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Hello Aswad,

Nothing... Nothing at all... I am going to wait on pondering the visual of you and all the electrical things you could do with your brilliance. Geesh man you could light up half of Europe with your neuronal energy.
I was actually trying to make a (not so subtle) point that he has stuck his brain up his backside if he thinks it's a good idea to wear a remote anything during a business function. Foolish indeed.

(I hope that your posting means you and your charming lady are doing well.)

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RE: Butt Plugs - 6/25/2011 12:01:30 AM   
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Maybe she's trying to give him a fucking home made EEG.
Since a EEG measures brain activity......never mind...i am going to be nice.



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RE: Butt Plugs - 6/25/2011 12:23:55 AM   
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I was actually trying to make a (not so subtle) point that he has stuck his brain up his backside if he thinks it's a good idea to wear a remote anything during a business function. Foolish indeed.


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RE: Butt Plugs - 6/25/2011 8:12:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		So the remote butt plug is for humiliation when everyone around you at the business meeting hears your ass buzzing loudly?

As far as timing goes, I used have my slave sleep with sleep with one. It was training until she got used to it enough that I could put my cock in her when we slept.  


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RE: Butt Plugs - 6/25/2011 11:47:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think this is a good idea to wear it to a business meeting, but it sounds like a brilliant mindfuck, even if a person doesn't actually turn it on. wickedly laughing
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RE: Butt Plugs - 6/26/2011 11:29:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ok... just to be clear, the function is a trade-show like function with the little booths all around... then there is a sit down dinner at the hotel.   While I may see an acquaintance or two at the function, its not like my co-workers will be there.   The Lady that asked me to do this, I have know for years and we have played alot before.  I would Trust her with my life and know She would not do anything to jeopardize me or my career.  We both think this will be an interesting and fun was for Her and I to play our Dom/sub play while at the function.   My biggest concern was the safety of having a device inserted for that amount of time.  Although we both researched it a little before I posted, I thought this would be a good place to get a straight forward answer from someone with actual experience.



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RE: Butt Plugs - 6/27/2011 9:24:57 AM   
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Aside from the safety of leaving the plug in for an extended period, i have a couple of concerns.  This wirelessly controlled device has a fairly large box structure on the end of it where the batteries are held.  I'm concerned that the box will cause it to slip out while I'm walking around.   Also, I'm concerned that the device may make significant noise if She decides to use the remote, particularly if I'm sitting on a wooden chair or other hard surface.  
Tell 'em it's your phone.

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RE: Butt Plugs - 6/29/2011 5:05:19 PM   
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I was actually trying to make a (not so subtle) point that he has stuck his brain up his backside if he thinks it's a good idea to wear a remote anything during a business function. Foolish indeed.


I disagree, but the reply got too verbose, so I've mangled it down to size and might bounce it a bit:

Would you trust me to do the right thing with a remote ?

quote:

(I hope that your posting means you and your charming lady are doing well.)


The wheel goes up and down, it is said.

These days, my wheel is convinced that life is a centrifuge.

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Edit: The OP returns with some of what was cut.

< Message edited by Aswad -- 6/29/2011 5:07:13 PM >

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RE: Butt Plugs - 6/29/2011 6:11:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		No personal experience with receiving, richfrist.

You may want to ask a gastroenterologist.

They may charge you to answer the question. They may be surprised that you have the guts to ask, no pun intended. But they have seen it before. In fact, they have extracted such toys before, and repaired damage from people who didn't ask before embarking on some new anal adventure. Some have lost patients who waited too long from embarrassment. And all of the ones worth a damn would rather spend some time thinking about your question to answer it properly, than patch you up afterwards for going in blind (again, no pun intended).

How familiar are you with the actual anatomy of the male pelvic compartment?

I'm all for anal adventures, but it helps to have an idea of the anatomy, and to be willing to ask a specialist.

See, here's the rub. Depending on your anatomy, the characteristics of the toy, what circulation you have and how your movements will be in the course of it all, there may be compression of the tissue. That can cause at least two problems. One is the possibility of triggering the vasovagal response, but that's not specific to the duration. The other is that it can reduce or interrupt the circulation locally. If you get reduced circulation in a part of the rectal wall for a sufficient period of time, the tissue will die. If enough tissue dies to prevent repairs, it will leave a hole. That hole will invite peritonitis, which is extremely painful and can lead to sepsis, multiple organ failure and death.

In women, the risk is anovaginal fistula, as their peritoneum doesn't extend as far down (a function of its attachment to the uterus and a part of the vagina). That can also end just as badly, of course, but we're "used to" dealing with it because it happens in a percentage of natural births around the world. Also, it doesn't actively pump the infected fluid around the whole abdominal cavity, so the risk of getting multiple organ failure should be somewhat lower, I'm guessing.

So, I can't give you any concrete advice on this, except to ask a gastroenterologist.

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RE: Butt Plugs - 6/30/2011 4:16:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I was actually trying to make a (not so subtle) point that he has stuck his brain up his backside if he thinks it's a good idea to wear a remote anything during a business function. Foolish indeed.


I disagree, but the reply got too verbose, so I've mangled it down to size and might bounce it a bit:

Would you trust me to do the right thing with a remote ?

quote:

(I hope that your posting means you and your charming lady are doing well.)


The wheel goes up and down, it is said.

These days, my wheel is convinced that life is a centrifuge.

Health.

Edit: The OP returns with some of what was cut.


Would *I* trust *you* with a remote?  welllllllllll..... let's have coffee before we start talking specifics, sugar. 


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RE: Butt Plugs - 6/30/2011 5:43:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		Aswad,

I'm not a doctor but with masters in Bio and several anatomy classes under my belt I do feel I have a but of understanding of the anatomy of the rectum and anal area.   That being said, you make a good point and I will definitely ask my doctor about it before I wear the device for an extended period.   I'm hoping that he will say that there will be warning signs -- such as pain, if there is a real problem.  As i think I said earlier I'll be getting the device ahead of the meeting so i can make a few short trial runs (no pun intended either).  

Rich




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RE: Butt Plugs - 6/30/2011 6:53:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've come back to answer a little more seriously... I don't know that I'd go to a DOCTOR myself about this, but there are some things that just don't belong in certain of my orifices.  I remember one night working in the E.R.   Every bed in the place (yes, EVERY BED) was taken up by a man with a sexual something or other (including priapism from a dude who had snorted too much coke, a guy with a pencil in a place no pencil need ever visit, and a guy who tried to...  well... let's call it... he tried to give himself a Prince somebody piercing.  (Andrew?) 

If it were ME, I'd think my hoo hoo could go woo hoo a whole lot easier than some back door visitation with electrical appliances.  Men of course don't have that option... unless things have changed drastically in my last X amount of chaste time.  (hope not!)

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RE: Butt Plugs - 6/30/2011 7:04:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		richfrist, I think you're making a smart decision to consult your doctor before doing this. If you have the device, take it with you, let the doc see it and get his/her opinion as regards that specific device.

I've worn butt plugs to work before, and just when out and about. I think the longest I've worn one has been something like 6 hours, but I did remove, clean, and relube it a couple of times during that period. Lube is something you'll need to keep in mind, the anus is NOT self lubricating, and lube tends to dry out/get absorbed and when that happens toys sometimes get stuck to various internal membranes. Not a good situation to be in, as toy removal when that happens tends to involve things like tears and ruptures in location where you really don't want them. So obtain and carry with you a small bottle of lube.

I've had problems with butt plugs wanting to work their way out, my solution was to use t-back type underwear that was very snug, with regular underwear over it if necessary with whatever I was wearing. A crotch rope type thing might also work to secure it, though that would introduce a whole 'nother set of sensations (both good and bad) and possible discomfort depending on how it was constructed.

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RE: Butt Plugs - 7/2/2011 8:07:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		Aswad gave you the best advice. Ask your doctor. When owned, that was the one thing i could not do and that was have a butt plug in for extended periods of time. And yes, i asked my doctor (you have to be comfortable with your physician) who advised against long periods with a butt plug

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RE: Butt Plugs - 7/2/2011 6:56:50 PM   
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Would *I* trust *you* with a remote?  welllllllllll..... let's have coffee before we start talking specifics, sugar. 


It was more like a general question.

Substitute someone reasonable that you've actually met.

I've found it rewarding to have others take a leap of faith (i.e. trust).

I've also found that some find it rewarding- and betimes thrilling- to make such a leap.

Granted, there are those who are in the habit of abusing trust, but that is hardly a productive assumption.

Health,
al-Aswad.

P.S.: I don't have any remotes that would span the distance. That's what USB-controlled toys are for.


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RE: Butt Plugs - 7/4/2011 11:56:53 AM   
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So the remote butt plug is for humiliation when everyone around you at the business meeting hears your ass buzzing loudly?

As far as timing goes, I used have my slave sleep with sleep with one. It was training until she got used to it enough that I could put my cock in her when we slept.  



It would appear there was already an echo!

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