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CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: lost my mistress (6/25/2011 3:52:16 PM)
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LOL, so join anyway.
Many people read in stealth mode (yes, I can look at your profile and all of the entries you have made in these message boards without your even knowing about it if that is what I chose to do). What makes you think that you are not being looked at and evaluated even now? We have many who log in as Guest just to read and not to post...unless given a reason to sign in and post or make contact through the mail room. You are making an impression even now, whether or not that is your intent to do so.
I can even hide my profile here and read, and send letters to friends. Sometimes I do this to cut down on the mail I receive. I am not the only one...maybe there is some woman in Pakistan doing the same thing.
If you are not too impatient, one of the new women who think they are sub might find out that she also has a Domme side she wants to explore. Also, another thing you have not considered...sometimes Doms have fem subs and want their sub to dominate another male. You said there are 30 males in the munch group already...
If nobody knows you at the munch in your area, how are you going to know when a Domme has joined? If you have not put some effort into making a good impression, why will she even notice you? Go to munches and get invited to play parties and to dungeons...
Someone I knew last year was stationed in Greece, and I prodded him to go to his local munch group. I located it for him. He went, found out that the organizers owned a dance club...and he went there. Got to know them well...and he is a nice guy. They liked him...and played matchmaker, and introduced him to a friend of theirs who was not listed as a member at any BDSM site. (Last I heard, they were in love.) Something like this could happen for you.
I hope you find someone to give you that online fix you need, but think about this. You have a chance to eventually take this into real time...but it will require action and patience on your part.
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