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lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 9:33:09 AM   
findingmistress


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well i have been into this life style for a long time almost 3 years now..... and guess i am 24 now.
here in which country i live this BDSM concept (specially Femdom) is not known well and for a female i think non around me know even about this thing.

so thats the first point i am into online relationship only, fortunately i found one mistress and i did every thing for her. i found her from literotica and she was a story writer and she did all of her experiments of punishment on me and had video proofs and in return she asked for my experience in full detail. i did wax torture on my balls and cock. cum control, thigh whipping. taken a 8 inches candle in my ass. had taken enema with 500ml of soothing soap. cross dressed in panty and bra, used cum as lubricant to fuck my ass.

then suddenly wat i get in my inbox from her.

(I can't do this anymore. This is not me. Please forgive me for the pain I caused you. It made me feel bad every time I ordered you to do those things.)

and attached was the story she posted on literotica for me.

after that day i have tried a lot and was unable to find an online mistress. I beg all the mistresses to please just give a wink, i will be urs. i am really desperate now. and mu unruliness is making me made. please any one make me ur slave. my limitations are below.

will not show my face.( I usually wear underwear on face while performing punishments)
will not eat cum or shit.
punishment proofs will be sent via email in video or pic.

regards
Ur future slave,
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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 9:42:24 AM   
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Have you looked for a pro? That would probably be your best route.

Good luck.
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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 10:01:32 AM   
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I agree, but I guess he thinks that sending videos of him doing kinky stuff should be reward enough...

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 10:51:03 AM   
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Welcome To CM

Good luck finding what you seek

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 10:58:17 AM   
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ok, I have tried to be not snarky.. but the evilness inside has prevailed:

Where did you last leave her?/

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 10:58:39 AM   
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Dude, quit the begging. 

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 11:00:13 AM   
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last leeave her means?

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 11:03:19 AM   
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to sunshine miss,
yes i am trying to find a pro but no pros are intrested in online relations usually :-(

Dark Steven: i am begging bcoz this is the last option i have :-(

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 11:10:07 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: findingmistress

yes i am trying to find a pro but no pros are intrested in online relations usually :-(

You're kidding, right?  Half the pros advertising on CM seem to only be interested in online relationships.  It's likely that a good number of them are men masquerading as women, but if you're never planning on anything but online, as long as they can convince you they're women does it matter?

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 11:25:24 AM   
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That's just sad.

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 11:29:24 AM   
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@ stef,

in short term it doesnt but in long term it matters.....

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 11:36:41 AM   
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findingmistress, I can see how difficult this is for you.  I used the search feature for Pakistan, for any female (sub, switch, dominant, etc.), from ages 18 to 99, and found only three women who have been at CM in the past year.  All subs.

There were five Dommes from Pakistan who haven't been to CollarMe since 2010. 

I have info from another site to help hook you up with munch groups in your area, and fellow kinksters.  I am putting a letter into your mailbox.

There is BDSM Pakistan group with 33 members.  You are not all alone, but remember that finding the right one will still take time.  You sound like you are in sub frenzy right now, needing your next power exchange dose but not getting it.  This will pass in a week or so if you stop fanning the flames.

When you are between relationships, it can be hard to calm yourself down but you need to try or you will risk making stupid decisions, okay?

Now go look in your mail box.  You have mail.

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 12:49:53 PM   
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thanx for this site i have joined i too but in 33 members only 3 are female and all are subs. so nothing for me but thanx u did effort for me.

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 3:52:16 PM   
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LOL, so join anyway. 

Many people read in stealth mode (yes, I can look at your profile and all of the entries you have made in these message boards without your even knowing about it if that is what I chose to do).  What makes you think that you are not being looked at and evaluated even now?  We have many who log in as Guest just to read and not to post...unless given a reason to sign in and post or make contact through the mail room.  You are making an impression even now, whether or not that is your intent to do so.

I can even hide my profile here and read, and send letters to friends.  Sometimes I do this to cut down on the mail I receive.  I am not the only one...maybe there is some woman in Pakistan doing the same thing.

If you are not too impatient, one of the new women who think they are sub might find out that she also has a Domme side she wants to explore.  Also, another thing you have not considered...sometimes Doms have fem subs and want their sub to dominate another male.  You said there are 30 males in the munch group already...

If nobody knows you at the munch in your area, how are you going to know when a Domme has joined?  If you have not put some effort into making a good impression, why will she even notice you?  Go to munches and get invited to play parties and to dungeons...

Someone I knew last year was stationed in Greece, and I prodded him to go to his local munch group.  I located it for him.  He went, found out that the organizers owned a dance club...and he went there.  Got to know them well...and he is a nice guy.  They liked him...and played matchmaker, and introduced him to a friend of theirs who was not listed as a member at any BDSM site.  (Last I heard, they were in love.)  Something like this could happen for you. 

I hope you find someone to give you that online fix you need, but think about this.  You have a chance to eventually take this into real time...but it will require action and patience on your part. 

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/25/2011 4:02:46 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: findingmistress

last leeave her means?


considering the thread title:
quote:


lost my mistress

My reply would be "Have you checked the Mistress lost & found?"

In a more serious answer, welcome to CM. Be patient, read the FAQs in the Ask a Mistress board, and the active & archived threads in it. There are a lot of fabulous dominant women who post there.
Good luck in your search.

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/26/2011 4:45:16 AM   
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My friend, are you for real? It could be more believeable if you did'nt sound so desperate!

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/26/2011 2:57:35 PM   
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yes i am real but my desperatness is bcoz i am trying my best and unable to find one :-( well thanx again CynthiaWVirginia for ur fruitful adive will act upon it. i am very glad that there is some one who is helping me to get a mistress. again thanx a lot mistress.

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/26/2011 2:58:53 PM   
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yes i am real but my desperatness is bcoz i am trying my best and unable to find one :-( well thanx again CynthiaWVirginia for ur fruitful adive will act upon it. i am very glad that there is some one who is helping me to get a mistress. again thanx a lot mistress.

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RE: lost my mistress - 6/26/2011 4:20:24 PM   
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If you can’t find an online proDomme on collarme.com in 60 seconds that will have you hopping on one leg with a pineapple up your ass while you bark like a dog . . . you are really doing something wrong or you are bullshitting us.  

* Right now, a proDomme/minute is logging in with “"Financial Domination" in her profile.
* On average, every 4 minutes a pro with "Financial Domination" in her profile logs in
* On average 350 proDommes login every day to maintain their presence & email
* On average 700 new proDommes with "Financial Domination" in profile every month

I'm not making this shit up.  I did a membership study and counted the damn profiles myself.  Set your radar and search "financial domination", 59 pros logged in the last hour.  In addition to "financial domination", if you search profiles for “pro”, "blackmail", "money", “tribute”, “session”, “$$” etc . . . the numbers become staggering.  

Of the thousands of proDommes on collarme.com, the vast majority are selling online & cam sessions only.  They would much rather watch you pull your pud online than wash your spunk & blood off their boots or have to blow you for being a "good boy" in person.

Outside collarme.com, proDommes on cam sites (cam girls with whip) are between $10 for quickie to $50 for an involved session with complex instructions or full nudity/penetration etc.

You really expect me to believe you can’t cough up a few bucks and find a pro?  



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RE: lost my mistress - 6/27/2011 3:28:18 AM   
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sorry i misunderstood regarding a pro... I cant do financial domination bcoz here in my country 1$ is equal 86rupee and we have a salary of 1500 rupes per mnth so not possible to have a finance in this... :-( i am searching for someone who is in online relationship only and accepts below 3 points....
No finance
consider cum eating my hard limit
can have me being enslaved without having my face shown. I wear underwear while performing
everythng else will be allowed including smething which even can cause serious pain... Or can make my blood out

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