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milfyclass -> RE: The Art of the search (7/4/2011 11:45:39 AM)
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Perhaps a more mainstream approach is required for those particular 'perfect' other. If there were just more honest and trusting people to reveal that they have a certain kink within a few days of being together (say 72 hours over many months of dating and socializing together). Perhaps like gay men since the 70s in SF and NY, there needs to be a code of sorts. Perhaps either wrist bands or pendants and charms, rather than handkerchiefs/bandannas in certain pockets (remember those?!)
Wish there was greater trust and maturity and respect for values and privacy so we could communicate these ideals/preferences of kinks in real time.
To Admin: how about like mainstream dating sites, more options to search for others by interest? And choosing what we're actually looking for. Me? I'm a novice non-lifestyle Mature Woman looking for a cute boyish genuine YM (18 to 25) interested in certain things. Filter results by those that are interested in Female Supremacy, but not into Lifestyle BDSM etcetera. Can we get a feature to do this?
Anyhow. I find it annoying that people just simply don't take 2 minutes to read the profile before sending a message. And when they do they are 'in scene' rather than just being themself and writing to me as simply a potential friend and woman. Maybe it's just me and those not so seriously into the whole Dominant 24/7 Lifestyle scene, but it's actually offputting when men (especially those older men with weird rude silly names, and overweight) write me with 'Mistress i want to be humiliated and serve you in whatever way you want, everything from foot massages to licking your toilet bowl clean!' Yikes. Not only is it a turn off but a bit over the top and desperate.
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