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lostvale -> seeking for... (6/26/2011 11:17:45 AM)



[:)] well here i am.. not sure what im looking for myself but seeking for someone who can help me..finding myself..



SinFix -> RE: seeking for... (6/26/2011 11:19:16 AM)

Welcome... though the best place to find yourself is not on a message board but within yourself... just my 2 cents though...



WinsomeDefiance -> RE: seeking for... (6/26/2011 11:22:46 AM)

Hello Lostvale, welcome to CM and best of luck finding someone and finding yourself. 

Psst, Ya know, we are always in the last place we look.



myotherself -> RE: seeking for... (6/26/2011 11:23:26 AM)

First of all, welcome OP

Secondly, I think you're asking a hell of a lot from someone, having just read your profile. You want a white knight to take you away from your unhappy marriage and memories. Sadly, you will just take those thoughts and memories with you unless you get help.

You can't rely on another person to take away your sadness and pain - only you can do that. You need to see your physician, see if you can get some kind of counselling to help you deal with the very real issues in your life.

And your profile will be a magnet for all sorts of losers and users who will want to take advantage of your vulnerable state. I suggest you take a step back, deal with your past and present issues and only then will you be in a healthy state to start again, if that is your choice.

I wish you luck.



GreedyTop -> RE: seeking for... (6/26/2011 12:21:51 PM)

wise bunny speaks wisdom...



ashjor911 -> RE: seeking for... (6/26/2011 12:27:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: myotherself

Secondly, I think you're asking a hell of a lot from someone, having just read your profile. You want a white knight to take you away from your unhappy marriage and memories. Sadly, you will just take those thoughts and memories with you unless you get help.


quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself
You can't rely on another person to take away your sadness and pain - only you can do that. You need to see your physician, see if you can get some kind of counselling to help you deal with the very real issues in your life.


1- that dose not make any sence at all.
2- we can get pass rough times with help of good friends, new friends, & alot of good old times to remember, & try your best to wipe out all of the old sad memories,

for the OP:
I would recommend that you find something that you love the most & do it, just do it, (In my case always wanted to be a fireman (as a kid) & I did it , sad times.... yes but these 6 months of training, & 8 months of working was the best thing ever happend to me) before you find some one,

Edited: to say.... Welcome To CM



myotherself -> RE: seeking for... (6/26/2011 12:31:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ashjor911


quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself
You can't rely on another person to take away your sadness and pain - only you can do that. You need to see your physician, see if you can get some kind of counselling to help you deal with the very real issues in your life.


1- that dose not make any sence at all.
2- we can get pass rough times with help of good friends, new friends, & alot of good old times to remember, & try your best to wipe out all of the old sad memries,




Ashjor - did you even BOTHER to read the OP's profile? She is not talking about 'rough times'. She didn't have her car stolen or get dumped by a boyfriend. She's talking about serious abuse and all the shit that goes with that. Clearly this has impacted her current relationship, which is truly heartbreaking.

It doesn't make sense to you, but that doesn't matter. You aren't the important one here.

Edited to add - my apologies to the OP and the mods for this derail.



ashjor911 -> RE: seeking for... (6/26/2011 12:45:13 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself


'rough times'. She didn't have her car stolen or get dumped by a boyfriend.




If that is your definition of 'rough times', then let me apologies to you just for writing to you,

PS: I did red her profile... point is dont make assumptions on things you dont know,



GreedyTop -> RE: seeking for... (6/26/2011 12:48:12 PM)

:: head desk ::



myotherself -> RE: seeking for... (6/26/2011 12:53:23 PM)

Sighs...I know i'm wasting my breath here, but let's simplify it.

You said what she had been through was 'rough times'.

I pointed out they were significantly more than 'rough times'.

You said she could get through it with the help of good friends.

I suggested that more formal therapy would be more useful.

Anything else you want to add?



ResidentSadist -> RE: seeking for... (6/26/2011 2:59:43 PM)

I wonder if you can get a good Chicago style pizza in Turkey . . . to put on a bunny's head? 

Welcome to the boards. 



Sunny27 -> RE: seeking for... (6/27/2011 8:20:43 AM)

I just looked at your profile you'r probably a switch but you'd make a great slave/sub you sound like me!!
You love cooking so do I!
I bet your kitchen is tidy all the time!



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: seeking for... (6/28/2011 4:34:10 PM)

Welcome to CM and the boards.  The Bunny is wise in her ways, take care of yourself first then figure out where you want to go.  Take it from someone who's been there done that.  Good luck.



findingmistress -> RE: seeking for... (6/29/2011 9:26:53 AM)

atleast u should figure out ur choice that u like pain or u like to give pain...



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