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LadyHugs -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/16/2006 1:37:18 PM)

Dear bedroomsexgod,
 
I am seeing clearly that the "color code" is correctly reflected.
 
In the use of "Doms" are you speaking about dominant men or women?  Dominant men usually go by Dom and although I cringe at it, most times females are referred as Domme`-- I prefer Dominatrix or Female Dominant but, that is just my quirk.
 
That said, this lifestyle does appreciate those who are discreet with their information and not seen as a bedroom/sexual conquest. 
 
Multiple squirting of females, in porn films, are often a repeat and edited into the film, according to a porn star and producer that talked to a group about sex in the dungeon/bedroom.  It is uncommon to find women that are able to squirt, let alone multiple times.  Lot of women can fake orgasms as well. 
 
As far as I would be concerned, I would never consider anybody who feels I am a sex machine for some man's fantasy.  I rather ride a bucking horse.  At least I know where I'll land; and that is on the ground instead of some man's kink stories, hidden video sex tapes or tabloids.
 
Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs



Reflectivesoul -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/16/2006 2:28:43 PM)

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omg, this poor guy just hasn't a chance........My advise ditch this profile.......create a new one that does NOT have the two words sex or god......oh hell bedroom is not good either......okay....start over with a WHOLE new attitude....write LOTS of stuff about you, none of which includes none of the topics your old profile name or your interests in sex apply to......add a nice smiling face photo and then just THEN you might have an icecubes chance in hell...


lol lol lol I think we are in agreement that this id and profile have got ta go, but atleast do yourself a favor and DONT mention this id after you make a new one ( would in essence be like cutting your nose of to spite your face) lol lol [:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D]



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/16/2006 7:24:17 PM)

You know it wasnt even necessarily the s/n that had me think nope!..though yes I did check to see if he was Dominant..and found he wasnt..what gave me the big ol ewww factor was the word.."squart"..maybe pettiness on my part,but it definitely made the woman in me cringe...be well...Tempting



Sinergy -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/16/2006 7:31:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: angelface183

red is for dominant females, pink is for submissive; royal blue is for dominant males and lighter blue is submissive; purple is for couples



You know, this is just me, and all that.

But at munchs and play parties (when I have gone to them) I frequently take my own green name tags.

Somebody wants to know how I identify myself, they can ask.  Brad Pitt gave an interview to Rolling Stone magazine where he stated "I dont want people to know me."  I have to agree with him in a sense.  I could spend my entire life explaining who I am to people who really dont care one way or the other and not get a darn thing done.

Just me, and I could be wrong.

Sinergy



Reflectivesoul -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/16/2006 7:48:44 PM)

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You know it wasnt even necessarily the s/n that had me think nope!..though yes I did check to see if he was Dominant..and found he wasnt..what gave me the big ol ewww factor was the word.."squart"..maybe pettiness on my part,but it definitely made the woman in me cringe...be well...Tempting


And see I was being so nice and not even mentioning that part lol lol lol lol



feastie -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/16/2006 8:12:31 PM)

He's a 22 year old kid.  Of course he thinks he's a sex god and of course he uses completely stupid words like squart.

Time to do a little growing up.  You may well be a sex god, but, a little modesty never hurts in that area...think of it as being a surprise to the women you're with!  Forget you ever heard the word "squart".  Really.



gooddogbenji -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/16/2006 8:32:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: bedroomsexgod

Also I am very good at pleaseing sexually.  I've always had difficulty cumming and so I've always devoted my time during intercourse towards pleaseing the woman that I'm with.  I've read varoius books on the subject and I'm currently trying to find a way to give consistant multiple orgasims.  With my eventual goal of making a woman squart.  Now I said all that so that I can say this.  Is my ability to please sexually something that Doms look for?  Because I haven't really noticed it in to many profiles.



So, I read this book on pleasing women too.  Can I create a profile which names me a sex god too?

Oh, and I watched a porno once where this chick got kidnapped, whipped, and gangraped.  Does that make me an experienced Dom?

And how much thinner can a personal ad be veiled?  Granted, cock pictures seem to be almost more effective than this ad, but still, come on!

Yours,


benji



Reflectivesoul -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/16/2006 10:15:29 PM)

awww benji hunny are ya mad cause he was looking for your Dommes?



BitaTruble -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/17/2006 12:10:58 AM)

ok, this thread has made me realize that my monitor is color blind. I don't see any difference in colors other than purple for couples, pink for women and blue for men. There is no light blue or red for me.

Maybe I need to get some of those red/green 3d glasses. [:@]

Celeste



LdyS -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/17/2006 12:35:57 AM)

Beautifully said Proprietrix! Thank you for sharing!
Best wishes. LdyS



MissDiandSirHugh -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/17/2006 2:59:01 AM)

The name made us say no way but then looing at his profile seeing nothing about himself except his sexual conquests here it had us thinking more.
His intrest was in what he would do for a Dominate woman yet also says he is looking for a Dom/Dom Couple so wounder how he would satasfi the male side of the couple if he was with them.
But we did think that a Squart was a wet fart so the final straw was we are not into scat so so most definatly out of the arena for us.



antonlucchese -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/17/2006 3:07:42 AM)

This guy is definately a wanna-be, and obviously doesn't know what the lifestyle is all about, if you wanna be a sextoy, any vanilla man can suit that need.....ditch this goofball and move on.



TNstepsout -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/17/2006 6:24:54 AM)

Hmmmm yes I agree with the comments on the name, particularly since you have limited yourself to "bedroom sex". How dull.

Now perhaps if you were Kitchensexgod or Backyardsexgod, you might be taken seriously.

*shrug*

TN



angelface183 -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/17/2006 6:27:46 AM)

oooh kitchensexgod!!!!!  i like that!  oh but wait he's a sub too, nevermind



Reflectivesoul -> RE: I'm new to being a Sub and had a question (5/17/2006 11:02:43 AM)

lol angel n TN



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