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What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 4:31:24 AM

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I found this thread quite intriguing and somewhat horny in parts. I particularly liked the concise answers that the Dommes gave. Something about that brevity really helped to hit things home.

So I would like all you Dommes to contribute your own few lines each on a new thread so that I can have some jollies before bedtime with it.

There it is. Get on with it - I don't like to be kept waiting.

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 5:37:24 AM

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I want to do it and it's fun, is that a good enough reason for you? It is for me

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 6:39:23 AM

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It's the powerrrrrr!! I love it when my views are consistent. [image][/image]

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 6:40:48 AM

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They don't do it for the fame or the money.... They do it for the badonkadonk.

Silly peon!

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 10:26:39 AM

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The simplistic answer is that it's fun. I just plain enjoy it. Putting other people in pain or discomfort hits My jolly button. Control is a great aphrodisiac.

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 10:41:41 AM

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Fun fun fun fun fun! And sexy. And fun!

And also fulfilling. It feels right.

And fun!

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 11:47:53 AM

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I think being comfortable in control or being the decision maker in my relationships with men is more a function of my personality, not my kinky femdom side.

My kinky femdom side is all sadist. I have a compelling need to see a man willingly suffer for my pleasure, amusement or erotic thrill. The more uncomfortable he is with the situation (but willing), the better. I like fear, vulnerability and surrender. It's not just a "hey cool this is fun" thing for me, it's more like a lust, desire, hunger for submission that comes in waves. I generally will always find bondage and suffering to be entertaining and exciting, but some days I wake up and I just need it.

Male discomfort and helplessness in all forms is highly arousing to me. To be the cause of it is hot. To be the cause of it with a man willing to compromise his ego, pride, comfort - that's better than drugs or sex for me.

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 12:24:07 PM

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i am the only one feeling a little warm after reading AAkasha's post...?

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 12:42:21 PM

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Hell's bells, yes. Phwoargh!

I mean, it's great that everybody has fun - God knows, I've felt that the element of fun could do with some re-stressing on this board at times, with some people wanting to elevate D/s into some kind of religion, social organisation or Zen technique. But it's good to know the key things, stated in a punchy way, that make a femdom horny, and why.

Heh. One thing I love to read is just how *hungry* femdoms feel. They just *have to* take it, have it and do it. Coz the flip side of that is: whoa, it's so horny to think you, as the submale, are being seen as an object that 'she' wants to devour. Bonzer!

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 12:49:45 PM

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And a good indicator of why I havent felt motivated to play in a good long while!! Except in my Rich Inner Life, of course!

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 1:05:11 PM

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That's sad, Lady Hib.

But I'm beginning to see another reason why femdoms get so frustrated with the 'do-mes'. It must be like having the mirage of a good dinner put in front of them when they're ravenously hungry, only to have it swiped away.

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 1:08:07 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

That's sad, Lady Hib.

But I'm beginning to see another reason why femdoms get so frustrated with the 'do-mes'. It must be like having the mirage of a good dinner put in front of them when they're ravenously hungry, only to have it swiped away.

Not even. There is just not a living soul here that interests me. Since I am not the only femdom that feels this way that lives in my area, I KNOW it's not just me.

I am proof positive that being gay is NOT a choice, because if I were a lesbian, I would be spoilt for choice. I suppose I could pursue a female, but it seems really unfair to not be able to offer SINCERE sex.

So. When are you moving here?

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 1:17:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

I think being comfortable in control or being the decision maker in my relationships with men is more a function of my personality, not my kinky femdom side.
My kinky femdom side is all sadist. I have a compelling need to see a man willingly suffer for my pleasure, amusement or erotic thrill. The more uncomfortable he is with the situation (but willing), the better. I like fear, vulnerability and surrender. It's not just a "hey cool this is fun" thing for me, it's more like a lust, desire, hunger for submission that comes in waves. I generally will always find bondage and suffering to be entertaining and exciting, but some days I wake up and I just need it.

Male discomfort and helplessness in all forms is highly arousing to me. To be the cause of it is hot. To be the cause of it with a man willing to compromise his ego, pride, comfort - that's better than drugs or sex for me.

Akasha

This, and especially THIS.

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 5:35:07 PM

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I'm new to my switchy Domme side, but I do it because it's FUN. And I like the power. The power of knowing he will do what I want when I tell him to, that he's willing to suffer for my amusement, and knowing that I can do things that will blow his mind in ways he never imagined. We had a few bumps in the road very recently, but now he's like putty in my hands. I like the control. We are still working out the, umm, er, "kinks" in our new relationship, but it's already loads of fun.

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 5:49:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
So. When are you moving here?

Tomorrow, with a big bunch of redcoats. ;-)

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 7:18:03 PM

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Fabulous!! I'll put the kettle on!

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 6/30/2011 9:35:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I found this thread quite intriguing and somewhat horny in parts. I particularly liked the concise answers that the Dommes gave. Something about that brevity really helped to hit things home.

So I would like all you Dommes to contribute your own few lines each on a new thread so that I can have some jollies before bedtime with it.

After having a look at the link...

quote:

ORIGINAL: saret
What do you think, what is the cause behind your love of being on top?

...my answer isn't all that complicatied. I love the kinky stuff 'cause it's fun. Yeah, real original...ain't I.

Besides the kink...I love the power rush I get when a man is doing something...no matter how mundane...because it's what I want. Simple.

quote:

There it is. Get on with it - I don't like to be kept waiting.

I love this bossy Head Master attitude...makes me want to pinch you. Hard.

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 7/1/2011 4:45:54 AM

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I'm reiterating, but it's still true.
Because I come like a bull. Like. A. BULL!>
Because of the sound a good man makes when I enter him; like the door of a very, very expensive car being closed.
Because the sight of a good, naked man kneeling before me makes my back arch, my blood percolate, and my lips part.

quote:
ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
I'm beginning to see another reason why femdoms get so frustrated with the 'do-mes'. It must be like having the mirage of a good dinner put in front of them when they're ravenously hungry, only to have it swiped away.

An excellent, and sad, sad, analogy. 'I'll do anything for you as long as it's my kink on my terms and timetable.' Le sigh!
Crap! You made me realise 'do-mes' almost spells 'Dommes' , like jewish believers spelling Yahweh with a hyphen. god damn it!

But then there are the lovely, lovely good sub men who make this process/have made the process beyond worth it.
*tingling with happy memories of human banquets and orgies spread before me and NOT swiped away, and looking for my next hot meal

< Message edited by Tantriqu -- 7/1/2011 4:49:38 AM >

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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 7/1/2011 10:47:49 AM

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I really resonate with AAkasha's description below. It is not my sexuality that drives the power exchange. I choose to be in control of decisions around me, and live the consequences in a conscious manner. It's just how I'm wired at this point in my life. My ideal partner is very flexible, and actively seeks to offer me appealing choices without my asking.

Sadistically speaking, the energy exuded by the vulnerable, suffering, pliable person that I admire, is pure, delicious, and intoxicating.

Otter is OFTEN 'the prey'. Reoooooooooooooooooooowwwwwwwwwwwww!

[Quote]ORIGINAL: AAkasha

I think being comfortable in control or being the decision maker in my relationships with men is more a function of my personality, not my kinky femdom side.

My kinky femdom side is all sadist. I have a compelling need to see a man willingly suffer for my pleasure, amusement or erotic thrill. The more uncomfortable he is with the situation (but willing), the better. I like fear, vulnerability and surrender. It's not just a "hey cool this is fun" thing for me, it's more like a lust, desire, hunger for submission that comes in waves. I generally will always find bondage and suffering to be entertaining and exciting, but some days I wake up and I just need it.

Male discomfort and helplessness in all forms is highly arousing to me. To be the cause of it is hot. To be the cause of it with a man willing to compromise his ego, pride, comfort - that's better than drugs or sex for me.

Akasha
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RE: What's Your Motivation # 2 - 7/1/2011 12:43:04 PM

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It's fun.

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