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MaamJay -> RE: It's just so silly (7/2/2011 10:30:38 PM)
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Back to the OP:
I think "silly" was meant in its sense of being absurd, rather than its sense of being pointless, stupid or weak-minded. There's the rub with English and its multiple meanings for one word!
Taken that way, then yes, I identify with the OP. As a Domme I have giggled at My pleasure in striking someone in play, because it goes against all My childhood conditioning about not hitting someone ... and here he is begging for it! As a sub even moreso, it's the source of the 'giggle space' i go through on my way into subspace, the absurdity of me being tied, kneeling (in the old days when i could LOL) or in some other position wanting someone i love deeply to inflict pain on me is just hilarious! Not so often in everyday language interactions, i love calling Him Master and that is not absurd at all, any more than His given name is absurd (unless you dyslex it, then He becomes a drain). However, when my face betrays my inner naughty thoughts and He starts interrogating me then the absurdity kicks in and i go all giggly again. But He doesn't take it the wrong way either, in fact He enjoys making me squirm and giggle. And of course, when i call Him (who is 15 years younger) "dadda" and He calls me "bubba" in our lovey-dovey form of age play, well, i can't think of a nicer kind of silly! Silly is not necessarily a bad thing.
Ma'am Jay aka violet[A]
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