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eleveninchgirth -> RE: toys (7/2/2011 3:01:27 AM)
It depends on what is expected and wanted from the relationship ,whatever gets you through the night is fine by me

DesFIP -> RE: toys (7/2/2011 6:43:41 AM)
The statement makes me think whoever said it is very bitter.

Canaille -> RE: toys (7/2/2011 10:22:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: XenoMaster quote: ORIGINAL: Canaille I can't speak for anyone else, but most of my toys run on batteries. Should I be looking for a place to insert AAAs on the next Dom I talk to? Only if you want D batteries inserted into you immediately afterwards. Sounds like fun to me. And a little less ludicrous than thinking of a Dom as a sex toy. :)

DecadentDesire -> RE: toys (7/2/2011 10:30:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: eleveninchgirth Just wondering what your take is on this ,I have had it said to me that Masters,Doms ,Bulls are nothing but sex toys for the subs .What do you think? My take on this can be summarized with the following... LOL I feel sorry for any girl that comes to me with that expecation. We're not all Service Tops. To this day, all I own is a collection of collars, a pair of leather cuffs and a blindfold. I've never needed anything else for what I want and the type of girls that I look for. Not all of us are here for play or even give it much time out of our day. My kink is a relationship dynamic revolving around the concept of ownership and being able to properly use a flogger or make a bondage dress has very little, if anything, to do with it.

whiteslavebitch -> RE: toys (7/2/2011 4:59:46 PM)
If that were the case, my "toys" would be all I needed, and I wouldn't have the Boss in my life.

LadyPact -> RE: toys (7/2/2011 5:57:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Sex toys are controlled and used by their owners. You don't serve the sex toy, it serves you (brats and delusional Daddy Doms excluded . . . LOL). I think your comment implies that the D-types are like Service Tops . . . sex toys under the control of the bottom, being used for the bottom's pleasure. Nothing wrong with Service Tops . . . of either gender. There is a plethora proDommes that are willing to service their clients' whims. There are also plenty of D-types that get sexually objectified, worshiped and deified without also getting topped from the bottom and turned into a service toy. My take on this? I think the person that told you "Masters, Doms, Bulls are nothing but sex toys for the subs" is either a Service Top or a submissive that plays with Service Tops and is a newcomer that wouldn't know the difference between a Dom, Master or a Service Top. This resonated the most with Me. Anybody who has ever had a cuck can tell you that the bull is more like the sex toy for the woman than he is for the submissive. Not every cuck out there is a fluffer or a clean up guy.

BurntKitty -> RE: toys (7/2/2011 6:12:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kalikshama Mine plugs into the wall: [image]http://www.eroscillator.com/images/eroscillator/eroscillator_ultimate_combo.gif[/image] Hey, put those back in my drawer. [/minihijack]

xssve -> RE: toys (7/3/2011 6:29:51 AM)
I don't think you can even call a service top a "toy" per se: more like a masseur, a physical therapist, or a personal trainer or something - a really good friend maybe. [:D] A "toy"is a completely separate and distinct fetish in my mind, it's more a factor of objectification than gratification - - i.e., different subs require different levels and types of gratification, some sexual, some not so much, i.e., the dominance can add to the sexual experience, or the sex can be symbolic of the dominance. Doesn't have to be any sex at all - but if you like making her come till she can't stand it any more, I don't know that that's any less domly than orgasm denial, it just depends on the internal dynamics of the dyad. But yeah, I suppose there are women in the lifestyle for the sex, just as there are men doing it for the same reason, and even couples can go through various phases, trying different things out, doesn't have to be one thing all the time, it's more like different roles and skill sets to my mind.

Errastas -> RE: toys (7/3/2011 9:17:41 AM)
Toys? I thought you'd never ask.

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