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juliaoceania -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 3:08:04 PM)
My former dom knew a submissive that ended up in emergency due to a bad fisting experience. She was dating a novice dom when this happened to her. It is good to take things like this slow and not rush them. Even after hearing about this I still would like to try it, with someone that was patient with it and not intent on having the "goal" being that I am able to take the whole hand... I have more of a process than goal oriented attitude when it comes to things like this and I only would experiment with someone who felt that way too. But that is just my opinion.

knotnilla -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 5:02:05 PM)
mmmm no bad rap here... and why does that lady of the whatever have to post "awaiting approval" if you need your Man's approval WAIT TO POST UNTIL HE APPROVES IT. It's annoying a stupid.

aurora31 -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 5:10:34 PM)
MMMMMM.....I have only successfully been fisted once but OMG while the strech was a bit uncomfortable and I was not able to do it for long the sensations were mind blowing. I can not wait to try it again. auroa

truesub4u -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 5:15:00 PM)
Actually awaiting to post is from CM Mods... not a man or doms approval..... As for OP... smiles... nope. not a bad rep here... the journey... the ride... the pain... the pleasure......the fullfillment..... damn the 19th needs to hurry the hell up here... LOL

Lordandmaster -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 5:32:02 PM)
I've never understood why white-bread society has such a hard time with fisting. I'm not into it personally, but, looking at it objectively, you'd think it'd be at least as tolerable as, I don't know, clit piercing or something. But fisting has somehow been thrown into the sodomy category, and once Christianity gets involved, nothing makes sense anymore.

MistressLove999 -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 5:56:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: knotnilla mmmm no bad rap here... and why does that lady of the whatever have to post "awaiting approval" if you need your Man's approval WAIT TO POST UNTIL HE APPROVES IT. It's annoying a stupid. gee thanks now I have to clean the ice tea off the monitor goof.

xLilithx -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 6:04:17 PM)
Fisting is something that I enjoy rather a lot.. and I know the madonnas are tsk tsking here.. But what can I say? I'd rather be a whore. ;) It holds such a stigma and mystery almost, that the curiosity, anticipation and desire to do it is heightened, I believe, for those that would like to try it. Some women have a hard time dealing with the concept of this 'huge gaping maw' that would be between their legs.. because in the past (and probably in the future too) a large and accommodating cunt has been used as a derogatory put-down.. But I've actually heard quite the opposite from fans of fisting, in that fisted women have tighter cunts than usual because it's more like excercise than distortion.. (lol.. I don't know how much of that is true though.. the only way to tell would be to use your own cunt ;) ) To all those that wish to try it, my only advice would be - Go slowly! .. It's like anal sex in the way that you rush it and it will be terrible.. have patience and it will be divine. A good book for some details on technique and safety is "A hand in the bush - The fine art of vaginal fisting" (groans at the corn)

PlayfulOne -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 6:04:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: knotnilla mmmm no bad rap here... and why does that lady of the whatever have to post "awaiting approval" if you need your Man's approval WAIT TO POST UNTIL HE APPROVES IT. It's annoying a stupid. knot sweetie, please find out whats up before you jump someone. the waiting for approval means she has said something to get moderated and her post won't show until the moderators read it. K

twicehappy -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 6:08:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane Does grabbing my cock with my whole fist count? It is big!!!!!! My fist that is.[:D] Kevin Did you drink the whole bottle already?

tade -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 6:14:19 PM)
Was wondering if anyone had the same experience with a woman being tighter after being fisted. After we play like this my wife squeezes my cock like the last drop of toothpaste is in there. And I'm just your average white boy...

michaelGA2 -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 6:22:27 PM)
maybe it should be called "handing" [:D][;)]

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 6:26:43 PM)
Using the quick reply button here... Fistng has a bad rep? Maybe that is because you have been talking to people who did not know how to take the proper time, care and lube. LadyHugs, your post was wonderful and covered all the points. I have seen fisting go both ways...Heavenly or a terrible nightmare. Because, as was already stated, there are many who think it entails balling it up and ramming it in. It is not pretty to see someone who cares so little they can't even be bothered to learn how to do it right. And it still may not work all the time. I haven't heard it has a bad rep. I do know it is one of those things that even a horny vanilla will try. As a result, it is often done improperly and leaves a bad impression. That same vanilla wouldn't dream of picking up a whip, thank goodness.

ArchangelMichael -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 6:56:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DigitBox quote: ORIGINAL: tade Why is it that fisting can raise an eyebrow, even among people with such different tastes as collected here? I would imagine that the big concern is potential damage to the anus and rectum. Just about anything we do that causes pain has the potential for damage. But we still do what we do anyway. Hopefully, the top will have done their research and can perform in the safest way possible and that all partners involved know the risks. This is why we have mantras like SSC and RACK. You can't go around telling everyone not to do a certain activity because it's dangerous. If we never did anything dangerous, we'd never leave our homes. And even then, there's still danger and risk.

vanillacreme -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 7:32:50 PM)
I have been fisted successfully exactly once. This was after a very long session and by this time, every sensation in my body regardless of the serverity was intense pleasure. It was amazing, and every moment that night lead up to it. I remember the "fullness" and feeling the finger's wiggling inside of me until I screamed in mindless orgasm. It was incredible, but as so many have said before...It takes a great deal of trust and should not be done with "just anyone"--especially a beginner or someone impatient (or unsanitary---a wonderful point brought up by another post).

MistressLorelei -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 7:52:49 PM)
Anal play is among My favorite activities. After a few months of playing regularly anally with My former submissive, 'fisting' (there should be a less aggressive or more attractive term for this practice) seemed like the natural next step. I read quite a bit about it before going all the way... gay men are a great source. It almost happened completely the first attempt... but the second time and all times after that, slowly and gently....success. I found it to be a very bonding experience... almost spiritual... a connection between two people unlike any connection shared by the majority of the people in the world. One person possessing another.... each entering a new and amazing 'head space'.

ArchangelMichael -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 8:07:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei Anal play is among My favorite activities. After a few months of playing regularly anally with My former submissive, 'fisting' (there should be a less aggressive or more attractive term for this practice) seemed like the natural next step. I read quite a bit about it before going all the way... gay men are a great source. It almost happened completely the first attempt... but the second time and all times after that, slowly and gently....success. I found it to be a very bonding experience... almost spiritual... a connection between two people unlike any connection shared by the majority of the people in the world. One person possessing another.... each entering a new and amazing 'head space'. Ma'am, I think someone else mentioned "handing." Or we could some up with more metaphorical euphemisms. How about "parking the car" or "spelunking?" [:)] BTW, fisting is something I'm curious about, that I'd like to try one day.

BeachMystress -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 9:04:26 PM)
I personally love being fisted. It feels awesome. It's also a great form of Domination the way I do it, because a guy doesn't get to stop when his arm gets tired after five minutes. :-D I'm quite greedy and will easily keep hubby at his "post" for 45 mins. As to fisting a male, I've done it, but it just doesn't have the same component for me. I'd rather use a strap on and have the whole thing.

sweetbbwsub31 -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/16/2006 10:56:32 PM)
i have given recently and it was amazing. Still working on receiving it all and it is wonderful trying. Some day. sub tara

xxmstrchasxx -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/17/2006 1:51:32 AM)
I have rather large hands as I used to box. I have only found one lady that I could fist and it was great for both of us. My sub now wants fisted and I have tried over and over and my hands are just to large. I have been able to get all my fingers in but not my hand. Special note: Don't believe that about big hands and big feet = big penis. [:D]

CanadianGuy -> RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... (5/17/2006 2:17:38 AM)
Not really something I'm interested in. To me, it doesn't feel like a natural thing, and I'm all about natural. My instincts don't urge me to stick my hand in my girl, so there's little chance that I'll do it. For those who enjoy it - great. :)

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