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MasterShake71 -> BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/2/2011 9:55:19 AM)

Hello,

6'5", 350lb man here in KC, hoping to find a female sub or slave. Ultimately looking for a serious or long-term relationship, but I'm open to just playing in the mean-time.

I'm 33, white, work full-time in computers. My hobbies include books, movies, and painting, which I do more as a creative release than a 'serious' hobby. I also love eating out and cooking (I know, duh!). I would love having a partner who'd be interested in coffee shops, bookstores, museums, art galleries, and similar 'finer things' type activities. I love intelligent and opinionated women, so even tho' I'm looking for a sub or slave I would still like you to be someone to talk about books and art and politics and everything else. A true equal who can better me as much as I hope to better her.

Relationship-wise, I will say that I would love to find someone interested in a long-term, committed relationship. I tend to devote myself to a relationship, meaning I would like to spoil you and flirt shamelessly with you and love having the same in return. While I take relationships seriously, they're also something I like just enjoying and indulging in. I would love to find a partner who wouldn't be opposed to making out in the rain, or cuddling in front of a window during a snow storm, or randomly going to a cafe late at night for coffee or cocktails and talking for hours.

I love seeing a woman happy and love it even more knowing I'm the one who's causing it. I love giving massages, baking treats or making breakfast, surprising her with a night out or delivering a nice lunch at her work.

Fetish-wise, what I love most is, yes, getting to stroke my male ego a little bit, but I love being able to indulge in my SO's body, physically and mentally. I have a high sex drive and am very much the touchy-feely, loves to be hugged and kissed type of person. I love love love spanking, but actual bruising or bleeding tends to be a turn-off for me. I much prefer open hand/bare hand only, and only until her cheeks are a nice pink blush. I absolutely love women's rear-ends, so the ideal partner would have no problem with ass play, including fingering and rimming. I love anal, but have no problem with it being an occasional thing, or even a no-go if that's her choice.

Preference-wise, I would love to find a petite (short and thin) FFA wanting to sub or maybe even be a slave. Age isn't a strong preference, although I've always wanted to try a daddy/daughter type relationship with a younger woman. As I said, I'm definitely an ass-man, love all sizes - big and bubbly or small and tight - and would love to find a woman open to spanking, ass play, and even anal, but I really love all parts of a woman, and another really big turn on for me is the shoulders and upper arms. I just love caressing and stroking them, even if it's just us cuddling on a couch or in bed. Did I mention I love hugs?

As a big man, I love belly play, and definitely love the feeling of size contrast between me and most women. Would love an FFA or similar-minded woman open to being 'crushed' or 'squished' by my belly - i.e. during missionary or similar.

Willing to go to yours or host at my place.




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/2/2011 10:00:18 AM)

You're in KC...there are half a dozen kink groups here.  Have you been to an AHS demo (www.ahskc.org) or any of the various social events that happen every month?




MasterShake71 -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/2/2011 10:15:02 AM)

Not yet, I just signed up and haven't had the opportunity to peruse the groups, here on in real life. Thanks for the reminder, tho! :)




BurntKitty -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/2/2011 10:23:23 AM)

quote:

Would love an FFA


You're looking for future farmers of America? Cool.

And welcome to CM.




ashjor911 -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/2/2011 10:31:22 AM)

Welcome To CM




DarkSteven -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/2/2011 10:47:23 AM)

FFA?




ModTwentyOne -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/2/2011 11:35:32 AM)

FFA = Female Fat Admirer or in other words, a girl, usually thin, who likes fat guys




windchymes -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/2/2011 11:39:03 AM)

Sunny needs to start an Acronym of the Day thread......




DarkSteven -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/2/2011 12:23:36 PM)

Damn, the mods really DO have word knowledge superpowers.




BurntKitty -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/2/2011 1:32:51 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Damn, the mods really DO have word knowledge superpowers.


I even googled it!! All I saw was about farming & leadership.




MasterShake71 -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/3/2011 8:02:34 PM)

haha, yes, in this context 'FFA' means 'female fat admirer'. I would disagree that there's any particular weight context to it - me liking petite women is just a personal preference.




OohAahMrs -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/4/2011 7:51:50 AM)

Welcome to CM It's not such a strange thing, many girls i know are married to big guys and they say it's not a problem and don't like thin weedy men!




MasterShake71 -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/4/2011 11:24:40 AM)

I keep hearing that but have yet to find any in real life, just a few on the intarwebz. Was hoping there might be a few from the KC area here that'd be interesting in meeting.




OohAahMrs -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/5/2011 8:24:56 AM)

Check out some of the Eastern European girls, some are complete babes and they're married to guys that make you look like a runt!




mnottertail -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/5/2011 8:25:59 AM)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PxyISsA0Oh0




MasterShake71 -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/5/2011 5:04:28 PM)

Is there a search function for geography on this site? I admit I've been slow in figuring out the navigation around here.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PxyISsA0Oh0





tiggerspoohbear -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/8/2011 5:21:43 AM)

Welcome to CM and the boards.  Your best bet is to google "munch and whatever city you live in or the nearest largest city".  This should give you a chance to meet and socialize with people who do this real life.  A chance to make friends and potential contacts.  Good luck in your search.




MasterShake71 -> RE: BHM dom looking for FFA sub/slave (7/8/2011 7:38:32 PM)

Thanks - my geography comment was actually in response to the comment about East European women being more open to bigger guys.

But thanks for the munch tip!

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ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

Welcome to CM and the boards.  Your best bet is to google "munch and whatever city you live in or the nearest largest city".  This should give you a chance to meet and socialize with people who do this real life.  A chance to make friends and potential contacts.  Good luck in your search.





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