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four20Master -> hard & sweet master (7/5/2011 1:41:24 PM)

so, would a submissive woman like a man who was both ready to do her hard bound but at the same time was sweet and doting over her? Randy



windchymes -> RE: hard & sweet master (7/5/2011 1:49:48 PM)

Sure! There's no law that says the top/dom/whatever has to be ranting and raging like his Fruit Loops had bugs in them that morning. I personally prefer that he enjoys what he's doing while he's doing it, not feel like he's pissed off about something and is going to take it out on me.



Canaille -> RE: hard & sweet master (7/5/2011 1:52:40 PM)

If that's a request for a date, then the answer is probably going to be no. :)

For the serious response, yes. There are some that this is a good dynamic for. They were a princess out of the bedroom and a whore in it, and it worked great for both parties involved.

I'll just turn into a spoiled hellion if I get doted over, though, so if that seriously was a request for a date, try searching princess and babygirl and be prepared to sift through a lot of scammers. Of course, you're going to get that no matter what you search for.





IrishMist -> RE: hard & sweet master (7/5/2011 1:54:06 PM)


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ORIGINAL: four20Master

so, would a submissive woman like a man who was both ready to do her hard bound but at the same time was sweet and doting over her? Randy

Sure, why not?



poise -> RE: hard & sweet master (7/5/2011 2:06:26 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: four20Master

so, would a submissive woman like a man who was both ready to do her hard bound but at the same time was sweet and doting over her? Randy

Absolutely! Preferably in reverse order though.



Arpig -> RE: hard & sweet master (7/5/2011 2:12:39 PM)

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Of course, you're going to get that no matter what you search for.
Nah-huh! Try searching for fat old men...hardly anybody pretends to be one of us! We can be trusted to be pretty much exactly what we say we are.



Canaille -> RE: hard & sweet master (7/5/2011 2:17:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Arpig

quote:

Of course, you're going to get that no matter what you search for.
Nah-huh! Try searching for fat old men...hardly anybody pretends to be one of us! We can be trusted to be pretty much exactly what we say we are.


Do you really count under the fat old men category? I put you in the awesomely geeky category of my brain. *rattling the dice* I'm one of those girls that gets asked if I like roleplay and starts reaching for the Crown Royal bag.



DesFIP -> RE: hard & sweet master (7/5/2011 2:47:25 PM)

OP, any time you ask if someone likes something, the answer is that yes, someone, somewhere does like that.

More importantly however is that if this is who you are then this is who you are. Could you be happy if you had to pretend to not like rough sex? Could you be happy if you had to pretend to be an abusive bastard all the time? Of course not. These are all parts of you, and you need to be yourself to be happy. You would come to resent anyone who you couldn't share your true self with.

Try going to local munches instead of just online. It's hard to truly express your personality in a three sentence opening email. You do better meeting people and making friends and having people come to like you for who you are.



IrishMist -> RE: hard & sweet master (7/5/2011 3:40:04 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig

quote:

Of course, you're going to get that no matter what you search for.
Nah-huh! Try searching for fat old men...hardly anybody pretends to be one of us! We can be trusted to be pretty much exactly what we say we are.

But not all of them are as tempting as you [:D]



myotherself -> RE: hard & sweet master (7/6/2011 10:40:48 AM)

I know some r/l subs for whom this would be the perfect partner.

Wouldn't work for me, but that's just my kink.



MasterSlaveLA -> RE: hard & sweet master (7/6/2011 10:48:10 AM)

 
I really have to laugh at questions like this, as they do so well to demonstrate how woefully ignorant, insecure, and inexperienced an alleged "Master" actually is -- as if, as humans, one could even be so self-limited to a single emotional state?!!  Just further proof that for so many, their supposed dominance is little more than an act.  Good Gawd... at least the HNGs are upfront about their cluelessness?!! [8|]





LillyBoPeep -> RE: hard & sweet master (7/6/2011 10:55:11 AM)

why not just be yourself and attract people to you that way?
even though MSLA's post is kinda harsh, i generally agree with the sentiment.  the idea that you must be either one or the other is just silly to me. be who you are and be honest; you'll find the people who like you for who you are.  it doesn't matter if 100 chicks in the room aren't your type, if there is one who is. =p




leadership527 -> RE: hard & sweet master (7/6/2011 4:12:13 PM)

Carol likes a guy who loves her to death, is in charge of the marriage, and uses her hard in the bedroom. No "badass dom" in this household.



KiGirl -> RE: hard & sweet master (7/6/2011 7:08:21 PM)

Sure, it's possible. BDSM is about loving hard and expressing affection in unexpected ways. Let the romance be as extreme as the kink. :)



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