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LadyNTrainer -> RE: hi (7/5/2011 7:57:43 PM)
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ORIGINAL: tom15slave
hello mistresses im looking for advice on how i can sell my self to a mistress im looking to serve 24/7 and become the sub wife can you help thank you
There are no fucking shortcuts. None. The mail order bride thing never works, and it mostly went out of fashion fifty years ago.
You want to live with someone, share their life and serve them. It's a lot like getting married, only with a collar instead of a ring. And nobody's gonna jump into that with you unless they know you well enough to want to share a substantial part of their lives and their waking hours with you. Being kinky or D/s really doesn't change that.
If I was an asshole, I'd bold that statement and put it in big font with eye-burning colors. Oh wait, I am an asshole.
There are no fucking shortcuts.
Get the picture? Get to know people. Get active in your local community. Find someone who wants to commit to sharing their life and their home with you. It's not an instant process, and it ain't gonna happen on Ebay.
People who think that kink is a substitute for human relationships are unlikely to succeed at either. D/s is a fabulous *addition* to a human relationship, and it can even be the essential core and the central focus of the thing. But it is still a human relationship, and as such, the human stuff like getting to know people really matters. Ignore this at your own risk.
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