tiggerspoohbear
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OP, The last 3 men who contacted me on the other side claimed to be single. Thank the rubber duckies I have a friend who's looking out for me and she gets involved in asking them questions I need to ask but don't. They were all married. One did admit to me when I asked that he was married but "in the middle of separating". Turns out the "middle of separation" was bullcrap. And I'm the one who was told by him that he'd told me he was married, so what was the problem? Well, you lied twice. You won't be able to see me unless you can get away. I can't & wouldn't introduce you to my family. I'll spend all the special holidays alone. So what is it you have to offer again? This is supposed to be about honesty and trust. How can you trust someone who won't be honest with his wife? Someone who wants his cake and eat it too. Sure, start up a profile that says you're single. But then you can't give out your home phone #, you can't ever do anything but come over to my place when it's convenient to you. Why would I make you a priority when you can only make me an option? And if you eventually leave your wife for the other woman, chances are you'll cheat on her too. Take this from someone who's experienced it first hand and was left heartbroken. Grow a set, either tell your wife or leave her. No whining about "but the house, my pension, my this, my that". Accept the consequences for your actions. You're a grown man, act like it. 'Nuff said.
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