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Training a slave - 7/6/2011 10:29:33 AM

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If you were training a slave in sessions; what could a slave expect the first session?

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 10:33:20 AM

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if *I* was training a slave? first thing would be to train them that there is no training, just mutally agreed upon expectations, followed through on.

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 10:33:45 AM

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you will find that a lot of people here on CM don't have a very positive attitude towards "training relationships." and honestly, a lot of the people who say they're going to "train" you actually are just trying to get something from you without giving much of themselves back.

what to expect from any kind of training (hey, even on-the-job training) would depend on what you're being trained to do. in KinkLand there's no universal standard of accreditation for slave training academies. =p perhaps you should talk to the "trainer" and see what the plans are?

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 10:37:10 AM

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To learn the art of proper negotiation to include My position and definition of being a RACK player.

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 10:51:01 AM

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Just looked at your profile....

Is there some reason your current master/husband is unable to accomplish teaching you the "Gorean" ways all on his own?

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 12:51:58 PM

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My first "session" was to see how much coffee he used in the coffee pot and how much french vanilla creamer he wanted in his cup of coffee. Lesson two was how much Miracle Whip (never mayo) and mustard he liked on his sandwiches, hamburgers, and hot dogs.

I just read your profile and have the same question as LafayetteLady. Is your Master/husband incapable of training his slave/wife? Perhaps Master/husband should find a Gorean Master for some Master training so that he can then train his slave/wife. When Master/husband is trained then he would be more capable of training his own wife/slave. That way they BOTH learn. It would be rather sad to see a trained wife/slave having to obey a Master/husband who has no clue.

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 1:31:12 PM

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Having read your profile, I'd begin with basic grammar.

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 2:38:51 PM

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OP, since you're a Gor slave, might be better to ask the question in the "Gorean Lifestyle" forum. I'm sure it's going to be moved there at one point or another. They usually (Admin & Mods) frown upon cross-posting, but maybe in this case it'd be better. The Gorean clan will be more than happy to help you out with your question.

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 2:47:35 PM

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I looked at your profile; regardless of what kind of slave you are, why isn't your "Master" training you himself?

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 2:48:49 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KNRNEEDSTRAINING

If you were training a slave in sessions; what could a slave expect the first session?

To get the dogfuck kicked out of her. Or punched dead in the goddamn face.

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 2:53:49 PM

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jeez, Ron.. yer harsh!! LOL

go have some lutefisk!!

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 2:54:30 PM

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Well, it teaches them to pay attention for the second session.

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 3:00:01 PM

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*snort*

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 3:07:57 PM

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Yeah, I'd slap that snort outta you, right off.

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 3:09:13 PM

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ya right...

I'd slap ya right back, doncha know!

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 3:13:05 PM

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after reading your profile it seems your Master is too lazy to train His own sub/slave
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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 3:14:33 PM

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I'm going to answer you honesty. The first point is that there would only be one training session. Here it is, pretty much in it's entirety:

1. Do what I tell you to when I tell yo to do it.
2. You have a brain, use it & always speak your mind.
3. Housework is your responsibility, do it however you want to.
4. You will work, I will control the money.
5. Bills & other expenses are my job to pay, your job is to remind me to do so.
6. No liver or shellfish, also string beans are never to be combined with those tiny "breakfast" sausages in the same meal. Meals are whenever the Hell one of us gets around to making them.
7. Beer is preferably served chilled, but I'm not a stickler on this.
8. You fuck who, what, when, where, and how I decide.
9. If you run into any problems carrying out your duties, or if you have any questions...speak up right away, don't wait.
10. Have fun.
11. Get a piece of paper and some dice...you're going to roll up a D&D character and try the game.

That covers the essentials. Everything else is covered in Rules 1, 8, & 10.

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 3:18:47 PM

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Not sure how much help my answer will help, because training for me isn't divided into a series of sessions. It's an ongoing process that begins once a mutual connection is present between me and the girl that goes beyond simply being friends. One of my preferences is "yes, sir" and "no, sir" in response to a direct question or command and that is usually what I start off with for a couple of reasons. It's typically harmless, does not require much beyond simple repetition and consistent correction for it to become second nature, and helps establish the mentality that I am her dominant and she is my girl.

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 3:24:10 PM

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did you mean snot Master?

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RE: Training a slave - 7/6/2011 4:09:21 PM

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quote:

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If you were training a slave in sessions; what could a slave expect the first session?

Me? An awful lot of talk about what she means when she says "slave", where she's going with this and why, etc.

That'd probably occupy the first several sessions at which point I'd know enough to know if this slave needed to be talking to me or perhaps someone else... someone more leather, someone more gorean, someone more something.

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