Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less?

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fantasy69maker -> Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 12:13:43 PM)
I love minimilest submission Im one of those cruel Doms that will tie a girl naked to the bed blindfolded and then spends a LONG Long time barely touching her. Its getting to be with less and less. I useded to caress her with my hand, then just my fingers, later I got to the stage where I would carress her with the BAREST touch of the tip of my finger. Now I want to explore using just my proximity. Has anyone else explored making a girl cum with just their nearness?

frazzle -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 1:37:30 PM)
Sorry but if i wanted no physical contact id be doing cyber. If someone tried that on me id just fall asleep.

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 1:47:39 PM)
Are you at least talking to her/him? Or just letting her lay there with no clue as to what's going on. I'm going with Frazzle here, I'd be falling asleep and start to snore. Sleep apnea will getcha every time.

DarkSteven -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 2:11:26 PM)
Don't believe them. I cause women to orgasm right and left merely by entering a forum. Seriously, OP, what is the point of your post? Since it's in Ask a Submissive, I assume it's a veiled attempt to fish for submissives, disguised as a question to Doms.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 2:25:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fantasy69maker I love minimilest submission Im one of those cruel Doms that will tie a girl naked to the bed blindfolded and then spends a LONG Long time barely touching her. Its getting to be with less and less. I useded to caress her with my hand, then just my fingers, later I got to the stage where I would carress her with the BAREST touch of the tip of my finger. Now I want to explore using just my proximity. Has anyone else explored making a girl cum with just their nearness? Yawn.

Arpig -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 2:32:42 PM)
quote: Don't believe them. I cause women to orgasm right and left merely by entering a forum. Not only women, you sexy hunk of man meat!!! Now hand me some Kleenex will you?

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 2:37:59 PM)
You guys are doing it again to this OP... Why not give him the benefit of the doubt and before we assume that's the only thing he's doing to stimulate his sub, why not ask him? OP, IS that the only form of sensory stimulation you give to your sub???

leadership527 -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 2:40:20 PM)
I've heard plenty of stories of someone training their sub to cum on command. I see no reason why the command couldn't be implied by you entering the room (eg: no verbal cue).

Aileen1968 -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 3:24:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 I've heard plenty of stories of someone training their sub to cum on command. I see no reason why the command couldn't be implied by you entering the room (eg: no verbal cue). Not going to get into the whole cumming on command stuff since I think it's faked 99.9% of the time. But....I find what the op proposes to be so boring. I want to touch. I want to be touched. If we're in the same room and he isn't touching me, then I'm wondering if everything is ok. If we're getting down and dirty and he's not touching me???? Then I'm really wondering if everything is ok.

leadership527 -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 3:24:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Don't believe them. I cause women to orgasm right and left merely by entering a forum. Carol just had an orgasm.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 3:38:48 PM)
POINTS to BossyShoeBitch! to the OP -- i happen to like touching, and you're describing something that a friend of mine likes to do. very small touches -- my first reaction is to flip out because it feels like a tickle to me, and i'm RIDICULOUSLY ticklish, but if i'm told to stay still or i just make myself (which is haaarrrrdd) it's a different kind of sensation. it's actually really intense and interesting in its own way. i don't think i would dig the "proximity" thing as the ONLY thing i did with someone. but as part of an arsenal? sure (my late M did this a few times). when you're blindfolded or experiencing sensory deprivation of some kind, perceiving touch and proximity can be really intense. being aware that someone is very near to you, even though they aren't touching you, or you can't see/hear them -- it's interesting to me.

coookie -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 3:57:00 PM)
I like variety. I think light touch has a place and i think waiting in suspense to be touched has a place but they need to be in conjunction with good ol' fashioned man-handling for me. Good luck though.

coookie -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 3:58:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig quote: Don't believe them. I cause women to orgasm right and left merely by entering a forum. Not only women, you sexy hunk of man meat!!! Now hand me some Kleenex will you? Great Steven ... now you've made a mess of Canada!!

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 4:07:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Don't believe them. I cause women to orgasm right and left merely by entering a forum. Carol just had an orgasm. Oh admit it Jeff so did you [8D]

SimplyMichael -> RE: I Admit It I........ (7/8/2011 4:12:42 PM)
@op, i like your style. This wouldn't work for a first date, but tease and denial can be hot. There are lots of ways to play with this and just to show Jeff what a pervert i am... Making her lie there while you go through the motions of almost kissing her lips, pretending to blow softly on her naked flesh, of playing with her favorite toys. Keep her thighs apart so she can't squeeze them and slowly pleasure yourself but when you are about to cum, step out of her vision, then shoot your load on the floor and as you finally speak, you simply order her to lick the mess up and if you did it right you can tell the little whore good girls cum while tasting their owners seed. You could also whisper in her ear that she can't cum, that you are inspecting her body, and examine her closely, only touching her to expose her more, treating her like an art object. Take a pad and write and draw things about her, study her intently then write furiously. Call someone and describe a hot scene the two of you did as if she isn't there. Blindfold her and blow scent on her, your manly smell, the scent of leather latex and blood. Just a couple ideas i tossed off.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 4:27:50 PM)
yeah i like the nearness/proximity shit too. one of the things i find really fucking cool is my breath. you'd be amazed at the reaction just blowing on her can get once she is worked up and all a-tingle. another i like is to brush my nipples across her ever so lightly rather than fingers. knowing its my tits and not my hand seems to drive her fucking crazy, especially when i do it to her lips, she's so cute the way she tries to catch it. [:D] i find the combination of what you call minimalist play with what i guess would have to be called maximalist play is fucking awesome. when she is bound, blind and helpless, to keep her guessing, to never know what sort of sensation is coming next or where. fucking delicious. will it be a stroke of a cane or a tongue, a soft breath, a drop of wax, or maybe just nothing? this is fun shit, this is where it gets really fucking fun for me. i also like not hitting her, swinging the cane/flogger/whip/crop/whatever through the air so she can hear it and feel it passing, throw a few of those into a beating and watch her twitch and squirm. [:D] fun, fun, fun.

DesFIP -> RE: I Admit It I........ (7/8/2011 4:29:45 PM)
It would be hard to tell that he was playing with toys with my eyes blindfolded, and me falling asleep. I'd have to know he's entered the room. Is he whistling Dixie?

HannahLynHeather -> RE: I Admit It I........ (7/8/2011 4:29:56 PM)
quote: Take a pad and write and draw things about her, study her intently then write furiously. fuck yeah! consider this idea stolen!

poise -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 5:14:59 PM)
If some of the men in this thread were in close proximity to me...... be back later

Iamsemisweet -> RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? (7/8/2011 5:44:16 PM)
Sounded boring until SimplyMichael talked about it

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