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LadyConstanze -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/11/2011 6:33:59 AM)


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ORIGINAL: KITTYLECTRO

@jennylandis

You're beautiful but this is not the place for you or any other transgender person. You would find a friendlier reception if you were black and showed up at a Klan rally.




Care to explain why? I don't think many people here have a problem with transgendered people, I have a problem with the question "why" anybody would be attracted to somebody transgendered, the only answer I can come up with is "Why not?"

Some people might only be attracted to their own gender, others only to the other gender, some might be focused on transgendered, it's how they are wired, there really is no "Why", you might as well ask why some people are attracted to a certain hair colour...



LadyHibiscus -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/11/2011 6:45:21 AM)

This is a very het site, but I haven't noticed nearlt the levels of transphobia that I have on Fet.

And I stand by my previous post, I am attracted to a person, gender and orientation are secondary. I certainly do not fetishize someone because they are not on a traditional gender path.



HannahLynHeather -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/11/2011 9:20:56 AM)

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This is a very het site
its a very het world.

jenny just ignore the fuckwits and be you. stick around and have fun, everybody can find a place here.

<not to imply you're a fuckwit hibs>



LadyHibiscus -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/11/2011 9:27:56 AM)

No worries, Hannah, if you thought I was a fuckwit, you would just come out and say so! [:D]



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/11/2011 9:37:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: KITTYLECTRO

@jennylandis

You're beautiful but this is not the place for you or any other transgender person. You would find a friendlier reception if you were black and showed up at a Klan rally.




Care to explain why?


Kitty's still bitter because the regulars soundly spanked her the last time she tried to turn AAMistress into Ask A Dumb Drag Queen.
 
To the OP:
 
Those of us who are regulars all know this section of the boards gets more than its fair share of HNGs who want to be "forced" to be femme.  The problem isn't with men who want to dress and act girly as much as it is with the attitude that comes with them.  A large percentage of the women here are straight and not attracted to women.  Consider it a validation of your correct gender that those women see you as a woman and, therefore, are not attracted to you.
 
For those who are attracted to women or to men who want to embrace their feminine sides, then it's all about your attitude.  How do you see yourself and women in general?  Is transitioning part of living an authentic life for you or is it a fetish that includes humilation?  If living as a woman is a healthy part of being yourself and you approach this forum with intelligence and courtesy, then most of the women here will welcome you.  If not, then you'll be treated accordingly, just like you would in any other group.
 
It's true; your photo is lovely.  If your inside is as beautiful as your outside, then you should do fine.



HeatherMcLeather -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/11/2011 10:55:44 AM)

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No worries, Hannah, if you thought I was a fuckwit, you would just come out and say so!
True, I'm surprised she even knows the meaning of the word "imply".

[sm=couch.gif]



sirsholly -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/11/2011 9:46:58 PM)

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Not a 600 lb. sasquatch in a dress though, please.

But BK...my jeans were feeling a wee bit tight.

Holly de Bigfoot



BitaTruble -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/14/2011 5:11:03 PM)


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ORIGINAL: jennylandis

i was wondering if any girls here are attracted to tgirls (I am bi) and if so, why? thanks


If what's above the neck attracts me then it doesn't matter what's below the waist. Their heart does need to be in the right place though.



Hisprettybaby -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/14/2011 5:56:23 PM)

Actually, I am attracted to either men or women, but not to someone with both boobs and a cock.



LadyConstanze -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/14/2011 6:13:42 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby

Actually, I am attracted to either men or women, but not to someone with both boobs and a cock.


I consider both secondary, much more attracted to personality, primarily men, women as well but somewhat less (just happens this way) and on occasion somebody who happens to be in between, well happened once so far. Gender is just gender, personality is a bit more... Or as a friend said at a fetish party, a gorgeous lady made the moves, I knew it was a lady boy, he didn't so I thought it was prudent to warn him, his comment was "If something looks that good, you have to ask yourself - does it really matter?" Had me in stitches because before that he was a this very straight guy... Perspectives sometimes change [;)]



MissImmortalPain -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/14/2011 8:38:59 PM)

*play with the two cents in her pocket* I can't think of a "polite" way to say I like tg because dick in a dress is just friggin hot. It's like a surprise gift at yule. You might know what the paper on the package looks like, but just wait there is something coming you weren't expecting.



Hisprettybaby -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/14/2011 8:39:11 PM)

I guess I should say, I'm not attracted primarily to someone's appearance or naughty bits. They aren't the most important thing. Rather what really catches me is personality, compatibility, intelligence, a sense of humor, interpersonal chemistry(not necessarily sexual), being able to "click," feeling comfortable w/ each other.....lots of things. I have a good friend that has both his and hers for naughty bits, but it would just tweek my mind to be with someone "in between" sexually. I do have some very good tg friends though.

~Hisprettybaby~



Giermo -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/14/2011 10:47:46 PM)

If it looks good, fuck it.

More specifically, if you are attracted to that person, it should not matter how they perceive their gender.

[:)]



SexyBossyBBW -> RE: why are you attracted to tg girls (7/14/2011 11:44:45 PM)

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jennylandis
i was wondering if any girls here are attracted to tgirls (I am bi) and if so, why? thanks
I hetero, so a girl would not be for me.   I think it would be too complicated to get involved with a transgendered person, but I never say never.    Especially since there are human beings, that are so awesome, that I wonder if I would care if he had a natural, or implanted penis.

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ORIGINAL: KITTYLECTRO
@jennylandis
You're beautiful but this is not the place for you or any other transgender person. You would find a friendlier reception if you were black and showed up at a Klan rally.
Wow!    You've had some exciting experiences, it would seem.     I've never witnessed the extreme negativity you're spewing, but I hope it's not just something you dragged in, and need to wipe off your shoes.    M



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