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jennylandis -> live-in relationship (7/8/2011 12:16:17 PM)

is anyone on here looking for more of a permanent soul-mate relationship or more brief?




LadyPact -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 12:18:25 PM)

This is three threads that you've started that give the impression that you just want to find someone who is going to be your meal ticket.  Are you currently being evicted or something that you need to find someplace to live right away?



kalikshama -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 12:28:34 PM)

/adores LadyPact/
/runs off to find the other threads/



jennylandis -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 12:58:31 PM)

no, and why do you have to be so negative, ms debbie downer? i have a job and an income. and u know, if i was in desperate times, nice ppl would only help, instead of chastising.



LadyPact -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 1:10:57 PM)

Because desperation or the "will anybody" type things are *never* attractive.  You started three threads in three sections in just a few minutes time for some version of 'anybody interested' type.  The any Master/Mistress approach never works.



leadership527 -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 1:55:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: jennylandis
is anyone on here looking for more of a permanent soul-mate relationship or more brief?

Yes.

Now, was that a rhetorical question?



jennylandis -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 1:59:03 PM)

sorry what do u mean



leadership527 -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 2:02:30 PM)

What I mean is that there are ... what... 10's of thousands of folks on this site. Your question was whether any of them are seeking something more than a quick fuck? Seriously... can you really, really believe that that many people are aligned on anything?



Arpig -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 2:36:45 PM)

Hey, I'm looking for a real long term relationship, but in the mean time I'll take the quick fuck. Anybody know a blind redheaded 20-year old with good tits?



windchymes -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 3:17:46 PM)

Kinda looks to me like peddling for the sites in the sig lines.



DesFIP -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 4:25:52 PM)

So if the op is gainfully employed, why is she so desperate to be anybody's live in wife? Inquiring minds want to know.



poise -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 5:01:51 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: jennylandis

is anyone on here looking for more of a permanent soul-mate relationship or more brief?



Ohhh Ohhhh! I know this answer! Me me me me me!! I am!



HannahLynHeather -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 5:15:06 PM)

quote:

So if the op is gainfully employed, why is she so desperate to be anybody's live in wife?
so she can quit her fucking job and be a housewife.



poise -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 5:19:04 PM)

Because if she remains employed, 2 incomes would be more beneficial in
covering the expense of her transitioning.



leadership527 -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 6:36:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP
So if the op is gainfully employed, why is she so desperate to be anybody's live in wife? Inquiring minds want to know.

Really? You REALLY can't think of any reason someone might want to be a live-in wife other than money? I sure as hell hope that wasn't the reason Carol married me. That's pretty jaded and cynical even for you.

Here. Let me help you out a bit with the actual full quote:

i would like to find a guy and live with him, be a housewife (or i can work ... either) and transition to be full-time woman

Note the "or I can work... either" part. I read this as chasing the role of being a woman more than the role of being a gold digger -- which.. you know... makes a lot of sense given the whole boy into girl gig going on here.



LillyBoPeep -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 7:34:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527
Here. Let me help you out a bit with the actual full quote:

i would like to find a guy and live with him, be a housewife (or i can work ... either) and transition to be full-time woman

Note the "or I can work... either" part. I read this as chasing the role of being a woman more than the role of being a gold digger -- which.. you know... makes a lot of sense given the whole boy into girl gig going on here.


that's the way i read it, too. it doesn't seem like gold-digging to me, just a person chasing an ideal, which is what nearly everyone does.
sometimes the instant negativity around here drives me nuts. but with that said, posting 3 threads that are generally about the same thing -- i.e. "does anyone want me?" -- is annoying.

so anyway, are people looking for long-term, live in relationships? permanent soul-mate type situations? sure they are! and of course there are those who are just looking to meet people and fuck around. and there are people looking for both! different strokes for different folks.
for me, i'm looking for a long-term relationship. i'm not opposed to housewifery if that was what was right for a future relationship. i'm also not opposed to working. i think it's better for people to work at SOMETHING.




SpiritedRadiance -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 7:45:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP
So if the op is gainfully employed, why is she so desperate to be anybody's live in wife? Inquiring minds want to know.

Really? You REALLY can't think of any reason someone might want to be a live-in wife other than money? I sure as hell hope that wasn't the reason Carol married me. That's pretty jaded and cynical even for you.

Here. Let me help you out a bit with the actual full quote:

i would like to find a guy and live with him, be a housewife (or i can work ... either) and transition to be full-time woman

Note the "or I can work... either" part. I read this as chasing the role of being a woman more than the role of being a gold digger -- which.. you know... makes a lot of sense given the whole boy into girl gig going on here.


And Jeff If you read the OP here and ONLY here Des's comment makes sense, Your pulling an op from another thread with information that isnt supplied here. Try not chastising someone because the OP didnt supply all the information in one thread...



Arpig -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 9:00:43 PM)

quote:

And Jeff If you read the OP here and ONLY here Des's comment makes sense, Your pulling an op from another thread with information that isnt supplied here. Try not chastising someone because the OP didnt supply all the information in one thread...
Because DesFIP obviously read those other threads as well, otherwise where did the idea that the OP wanted to be somebody's wife come from. Try not chastising someone because they can actually figure out what is going on....



jennylandis -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 11:46:51 PM)

i would like find someone to be there for me and for me to be there for them. i want someone to love and for them to love me back. i guess it don't necessarily need to be a housewife ... and in fact, i am a pretty ambitious person ... i have a college degree and in fact, program computers for a living ... i am also entrepreneurial ... i have started several businesses which have been somewhat successful and in fact, i've saved up a good amount of money

being a housewife appeals to me because of the image ... i picture a 1950's housewife type of deal and its appealing to me ... and in fact, i probably would work, for example, right now i am working on running my own employment agency

please don't be so negative, i joined this site like a year ago and haven't even posted anything, i don't know all the rules about where i should post or not sorry ...




HeatherMcLeather -> RE: live-in relationship (7/8/2011 11:57:59 PM)

Jenny, if you want to be a housewife, then you go right ahead and be one. If its OK for somebody to be a fucktoy sex slave, and for another to be a financial slave, then why not for you to be a loving housewife to a doting husband. Those sorts of people do exist, "50's household" is a recognized kink/dynamic, so if that's what you want go for it. Don't let anybdoy tell you that what you want is wrong, there's no real right or wrong when it comes to these sorts of relationship. I personally think your aim is admirable, especially keeping in mind all the complaints we see about do-me subs and bratty princesses.

I wish you all the very best of luck.

p.s. With programming as your trade, you could easily do that from home to earn yourself some personal mad money while maintaining your home. A win-win [:)]



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