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first night out - 7/8/2011 10:01:22 PM

preferscuffs

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Tonight I surprised my slave by dressing her up in a short skirt and a tight fitting, low cut top. We went to a local Greek cafe that on fridays have a mix of kinks and vanillas. She was unaware that she was going to be in public the first time with others in the lifestyle and would be treating her as an owned slave. She quickly understood and was completly turned on by it.

For the slaves out there how did you feel the first time you were in a group setting where others knew you were an owned slave?

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RE: first night out - 7/8/2011 10:28:09 PM

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Well, we don't make a point of hanging out with "kinks" as you call them, but pretty much everybody we know, including my family, know my status in the relationship by now. It's not something we make much effort to hide. So I can't really pinpoint a "first" time. it's more a series of first times. When we do tell somebody for the first time about our dynamic, I feel incredibly proud. Proud because this amazing, beautiful, and fascinating woman chose me.

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RE: first night out - 7/9/2011 4:58:39 PM

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I'm sorry. I know this is not the answer you were seeking.

After I got collared we went to our usual munches and no one even noticed. Our close friends, of course, were told. We'd been going to the same munches for months so it was no big deal that we were there together. The people at munch did not treat me any differently than before I was collared. Same with our first event after the collaring. I was not treated any differently than I was treated the year before.

I'm really not sure why people would treat your lady differently now that she is owned. It's none of their business to tell her what do to. She is yours, not theirs.

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RE: first night out - 7/9/2011 5:12:13 PM

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not sure if this counts but the first time my Mistress had be purchase female thong underwear and wear it, was when i felt i have submitted to her control. it felt good and i realized i was Hers. after that is was downhill all the way. just the embarresment of buying the thongs was enough to make me realize how much Her influence on me was.

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RE: first night out - 7/9/2011 6:00:30 PM

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no different really. I never even took notice to others around since it really made zero difference to me who knew and didn't.

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RE: first night out - 7/10/2011 12:56:14 AM

MasterSlaveLA

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Not personally a fan of wearing one's private life on their sleeve... and quite frankly, detest the "public/club" thing.

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RE: first night out - 7/10/2011 12:59:31 AM

myotherself

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It made absolutely zero difference, except for a few friends who congratulated us.

I don't know if it's different in the OP's neck of the woods, but here you aren't treated any differently if you are an owned sub/slave or not.

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