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Need to be taught how to DOM... - 7/9/2011 11:34:27 AM   
cocoE


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Status: offline 		Im looking for a a woman that can teach me the rules of being a DOM, im interested and dont know where to begin.
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RE: Need to be taught how to DOM... - 7/9/2011 11:43:13 AM   
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RE: Need to be taught how to DOM... - 7/9/2011 12:11:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: cocoE
Im looking for a a woman that can teach me the rules of being a DOM, im interested and dont know where to begin.

The rules of being a dom? See... this is EXACTLY why I've run screaming from that title. If I was good enough at following rules to be a Dom then I'd be a sub. I'm more of the "make the rules" kind of person.


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RE: Need to be taught how to DOM... - 7/9/2011 1:13:54 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Need to be taught how to DOM... - 7/9/2011 2:07:29 PM   
seekingOwnertoo


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ORIGINAL: cocoE

Im looking for a a woman that can teach me the rules of being a DOM, im interested and dont know where to begin.



If you want to learn in privacy, with a book first, try ....Elise Sutton's Female Superiority Page ... just Google it.

For particular tastes, Mystress World might suit you, too. She is listed on Collar me. Search Texas, if I recall correctly.

Otherwise, as Lady Pact said, just go to a munch in Your area ... there likely is someone who can point you the way.

Good luck!

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RE: Need to be taught how to DOM... - 7/9/2011 3:39:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Oh dear heaven, there are RULES?


Don't hit people in the kidneys.

That's a rule, right?

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RE: Need to be taught how to DOM... - 7/9/2011 9:18:53 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		But if you don't hit them in the kidneys how do they pee blood?

Iz confusded.

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RE: Need to be taught how to DOM... - 7/10/2011 6:06:18 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

But if you don't hit them in the kidneys how do they pee blood?

Iz confusded.



'The Manny Pacquiao Method of Domming'

New book. All of the best bookstores are stocking it.

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RE: Need to be taught how to DOM... - 7/10/2011 6:24:05 AM   
Buzzzz


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RE: Need to be taught how to DOM... - 7/10/2011 8:40:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: cocoE

Im looking for a a woman that can teach me the rules of being a DOM, im interested and dont know where to begin.


fetishscene.com for CA

Really, just type "bdsm groups Orange Co. CA" into google and it comes back with 7,340,000 results. You should be able to find something there.



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RE: Need to be taught how to DOM... - 7/10/2011 9:23:47 AM   
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RE: Need to be taught how to DOM... - 7/10/2011 1:29:35 PM   
HannahLynHeather


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Status: offline 		ok listen up here coco, ignore all the other crap about there being no fucking rules, there sure as fuck are rules, well one rule.

here it is: do what you fucking want.

got it? you're the fucking domme, you set the fucking agenda. what makes you happy is what goes. what you do together is up to you, how you treat your meat tou is up to you, how you interact with he/she/it is fucking up to you. anything goes babycakes, anyfuckingthing goes.

now if you want to learn techniques and shit, well fuck a duck's ass if it isn't just as simple. go to a local munch/fetish club, whatever the fuck is around oc <that's right  next fucking door to la la land, a regular pervert central, so it shouldn't be too god damned hard.> and find somebody who knows how to do whatever the fuck it is you're looking to learn that month and ask them, offer to pay them to teach you, just like you would if you wanted to learn how to knit a fucking sweater.


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