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introducing girl friend to Femdom ? help please :) - 7/10/2011 3:19:37 AM

frenchingermany

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Greetings all,

I am 23 years old living in France. I have a girl friend : it has been one year we first kissed.

I have always thought of becoming a slave to a beautifull Woman. And I feel like it would be a great thing if I could talk about Femdom to her. I am very hesitating about what I should do, I am scared she thinks I am crazy.

She is already a bit dominant in sexual act : often on top, she bite me and scratch me hard. But I don't know if it means she would love to go further.

I have thought about make her see a website who could make her read about femdom and boyfriend training, but I really don't want how to do it without making it to abrupt.

Please help me if You have experience about this.

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RE: introducing girl friend to Femdom ? help please :) - 7/10/2011 4:41:06 AM

CeriseNin

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Have you tried siting down with her and having a conversation about it? A website can't really do the relationship work for you - - at least it shouldn't, in my opinion. Just have the conversation with her, using your own words. Communication is key.

If you're scared that she's going to think you're crazy, sitting her in front of a Femdom site isn't going to help. Talk first, websites later.

< Message edited by CeriseNin -- 7/10/2011 4:44:38 AM >

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RE: introducing girl friend to Femdom ? help please :) - 7/10/2011 5:20:31 AM

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I answered your question in the Ask a Mistress post.

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RE: introducing girl friend to Femdom ? help please :) - 7/10/2011 12:43:35 PM

Palliata

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I answered your question in the Ask a Mistress post.

I expect this is a case of a new arrival not realizing that the forums aren't really segregated by proclivity; one could be forgiven for assuming that getting the opinion of both dommes and subs would require a post in each of their respective sections.

As to the question, not much to add to what has already been said - talking to your partner is the best first and last resort.

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