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candystripper -> Willing to help (5/17/2006 9:09:24 AM)

Lately i have received an inordinate amount of mail from male submissives.  My profile hasn't changed, so i assume they're not reading it.  i am more than happy to pass on these men to any Domme who feels She'd like to hear from them.  Meantime, if you are a male submissive, please do not ask me to Domme you.  i am a submissive. 
 
candystripper




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Willing to help (5/17/2006 9:13:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: candystripper
Lately i have received an inordinate amount of mail from male submissives.  My profile hasn't changed, so i assume they're not reading it.  i am more than happy to pass on these men to any Domme who feels She'd like to hear from them.  Meantime, if you are a male submissive, please do not ask me to Domme you.  i am a submissive. 

candystripper

What makes you think any decent dominant desires to start a dialogue with someone who can't even properly read a profile and send appropriate messages?




Najakcharmer -> RE: Willing to help (5/17/2006 9:44:35 AM)

*chuckles*  Exactly.  You should pass on these emails to dommes so that we can AVOID the ones who are incapable of reading or respecting another person's preferences.  




babysburnin -> RE: Willing to help (5/17/2006 12:50:04 PM)

It's Spring...maybe their hormones have gotten the better of them. [;)]




juliaoceania -> RE: Willing to help (5/17/2006 1:04:55 PM)

I was wondering if any of these subs would even be able to read this post since they obviously can't read your profile...LOL




yourMissTress -> RE: Willing to help (5/17/2006 1:15:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: candystripper

Lately i have received an inordinate amount of mail from male submissives.  My profile hasn't changed, so i assume they're not reading it.  i am more than happy to pass on these men to any Domme who feels She'd like to hear from them.  Meantime, if you are a male submissive, please do not ask me to Domme you.  i am a submissive. 
 
candystripper



I see this as an example of the lengths to which some will go to fulfill their fantasies.  These people have no regard for you, who or what you are or want to be.  They simply see you as a possible outlet for their own selfish needs. 
 
Without turning this into a gender or orientation issue, I would simply like to pose a question...and I think I will do it in a new thread so as not to hijack yours.
 
Good luck to you.







Sensualips -> RE: Willing to help (5/17/2006 1:15:30 PM)

That should take care of that then.  Let me try now.

Attention! If you are a monogamous, heterosexual woman please do not email me.  I am bi and poly-friendly and only interested in cheap, lustful encounters.  Gay men, dominant or submissive, are welcome to contact me, provided you are within a 150 mile radius. I realize I have no shot, but you always seem to smell so good.  Thank you all for your compliance.





HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Willing to help (5/17/2006 10:48:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: candystripper

Lately i have received an inordinate amount of mail from male submissives.  My profile hasn't changed, so i assume they're not reading it.  i am more than happy to pass on these men to any Domme who feels She'd like to hear from them.  Meantime, if you are a male submissive, please do not ask me to Domme you.  i am a submissive. 
 
candystripper



While I have great simpathy for you, I doubt that many of the "submissive" men writing to you read these forums.  I'd suggest that you put this into your profile, but I doubt that would help, since from what I hear, they don't bother reading them either.  I recommend that you simply delete this kind of mail and block the senders.




candystripper -> RE: Willing to help (5/19/2006 4:56:48 AM)

quote:

While I have great simpathy for you, I doubt that many of the "submissive" men writing to you read these forums.

HarryVanWinkle


Harry, i think sub Men read the forums just as any other species of BDSM, and that just as many are bright/articulate/idiotic/naieve as anyone else.
 
candystripper




Phoenixandnika -> RE: Willing to help (5/19/2006 5:09:37 AM)

geesh,
What did Dommes do to you to  have you send them to us.
 
*laughs*
 
Phoenix once had a Dominate ask if he switched to play. I thought it rather amusing though Phoenix didn't.
 
*laughs*
 
Seriously, though.
It happens all the time.
My suggestion is simply delete and block.
It's truly not worth much more energy than that.




Sensualips -> RE: Willing to help (5/19/2006 8:53:05 AM)

In all seriousness, if they disregard your profile information what would cause a person to think they might find a single forum post and comply with the request that was ignored in the profile? 





Sirandlittle1 -> RE: Willing to help (5/21/2006 12:05:03 AM)

Havent i read a similar thread started by yourself addressing this very issue when you first joined?
And back then, you were advised to just not bother reading and or block.

Nice learning curve love. Horizontal. Stand up and get proactive, not reactive.
No Domme wants a lazy assed sub. Why inflict them on Dommes when you do such a good job collecting them away from our message boxes. Think of the service you provide. Win win.

Why do you continue to invest your time with such matters. Id take a peek at that. What are you gaining from this?
littleone
Edited to add, that was to Candystripper, not sensualips, hit the wrong button, sorry.




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