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SirLucifer -> Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 8:25:57 AM)

I acquired a very nice set of old-fashioned cast-iron locks with keys. I don't have a need for them now, and was going to gift them to my friend who is a very devout 24/7 slave. Not MY slave, note. She is not owned, either.

She suggested to me that it probably wasn't proper for a slave to own such a thing. I didn't really think about it at first, but I suppose if she feels that way, then it must be true.

What is a good gift for a female slave that is not your slave?




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 8:28:34 AM)

Why does it have to be a gift that's appropriate for a slave? If you want to give her a gift, make it something you would give to a friend and take the slave part of the equation out of it.




foxling -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 8:31:24 AM)

I'd personally love that as a present because I find locks beautiful. As already suggested, why do you have to consider their orientation in gift giving? Find something you think they'd like irrespective of that, no?




LillyBoPeep -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 8:32:26 AM)

is her entire identity wrapped up in what's proper for her idea of what a slave is? does she have hobbies or things she cares about that don't revolve around that? she's a friend, right? how do you choose gifts for other non-slave friends?
pick something they've talked about in passing, or something they might be interested in, or something that reminds you of them, blah blah blah

re: what's "proper" for a slave to have -- her opinion is only true FOR HER, no matter how "devout" she claims to be. =p




DesFIP -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 8:32:33 AM)

Gee, I can't imagine why she wouldn't want your ex's cast off irons. Did you wrap them in her leftover underwear as well?

What does this friend enjoy? Cooking? Then get her a cookbook by a chef she admires.
Going out to eat? Then get her a gift certificate to a restaurant she might enjoy trying.

It's not about how she relates when in a relationship, which she isn't in anyway at the  moment. It's about what kind of things she likes. And if you can't remember her ever telling you what she does or doesn't like, then you're not much of a friend.




SirLucifer -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 8:32:49 AM)

Well it's just what I had and decided I would give them to her, but alas.

I was really just curious if there was such an item.

I could probably stick to building her a set of rather expensive "steampunk speakers" she requested. That'll have to wait till I get home in November.




SirLucifer -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 8:35:35 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Gee, I can't imagine why she wouldn't want your ex's cast off irons. Did you wrap them in her leftover underwear as well?

What does this friend enjoy? Cooking? Then get her a cookbook by a chef she admires.
Going out to eat? Then get her a gift certificate to a restaurant she might enjoy trying.

It's not about how she relates when in a relationship, which she isn't in anyway at theĀ  moment. It's about what kind of things she likes. And if you can't remember her ever telling you what she does or doesn't like, then you're not much of a friend.



They certainly haven't been used on anyone, since I've purchased them since I've been here in Kuwait, and she was aware of that fact.




SashaSteel -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 9:12:53 AM)

If he really wants to score points, an Aston Martin DB9 Volante will do, preferably in the color option: Morning Frost White.




DecadentDesire -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 9:13:59 AM)

Cheetohs.

Anyone not like Cheetohs? I mean, really, anyone?

Nope.




agirl -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 9:36:05 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirLucifer

I acquired a very nice set of old-fashioned cast-iron locks with keys. I don't have a need for them now, and was going to gift them to my friend who is a very devout 24/7 slave. Not MY slave, note. She is not owned, either.

She suggested to me that it probably wasn't proper for a slave to own such a thing. I didn't really think about it at first, but I suppose if she feels that way, then it must be true.

What is a good gift for a female slave that is not your slave?


The cuffs would do quite nicely, thanks very much. Neither M nor I would have any hang-ups about it. :)

Regards, agirl




SirLucifer -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 10:42:00 AM)

Haha, thanks for all the suggestions, she's going to get a REALLY interesting box lol.




MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 12:30:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirLucifer

She is not owned... What is a good gift for a female slave... 



DUH... find her an Owner?!! [;)] [:D] [:D] [:D] [:D] [:D]





BonesFromAsh -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 12:42:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirLucifer

I acquired a very nice set of old-fashioned cast-iron locks with keys. I don't have a need for them now, and was going to gift them to my friend who is a very devout 24/7 slave. Not MY slave, note. She is not owned, either.

She suggested to me that it probably wasn't proper for a slave to own such a thing. I didn't really think about it at first, but I suppose if she feels that way, then it must be true.

What is a good gift for a female slave that is not your slave?


Question time....

What makes someone a "very devout 24/7 slave" ?

Who or what is she devoted to if she isn't owned?

Why did she feel the gift "wasn't proper for a slave to own"?

Why would this be "true" in general simply because she "feels that way"?

Why are you focusing on the fact that she identifies as a slave more than the fact that you call her a friend?





Giermo -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 1:00:44 PM)

Like the above, your FRIEND'S identity does not revolve around her preference in the bedroom. How about giving her something that plays to her interest? 




agirl -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 1:16:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirLucifer

Haha, thanks for all the suggestions, she's going to get a REALLY interesting box lol.


Frankly, if a friend of mine thought of giving me a gift like that, I'd think of the fact that he'd thought of me....NOT that I thought it was *unsuitable*. How crass is that?

agirl





coookie -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 2:44:30 PM)

A gift card to "slavesRus" just says you care.




littlewonder -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 3:29:09 PM)

well if it was me....

a full body massage
a nice dinner out or someone making me a nice dinner
a trip to somewhere
taking me shopping for whatever I want
money
cleaning my apartment
getting my business suits drycleaned
mending a few shirts with missing buttons

give me time...I know I can come up with more....





slaveluci -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 8:21:44 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SirLucifer


They certainly haven't been used on anyone, since I've purchased them since I've been here in Kuwait, and she was aware of that fact.

You in no way indicated or insinuated that they had. Some people just fill in the blanks with the first assumption their brain farts out. You can't help that. She may really like them. I know I would appreciate them. Thoughtful of you indeed.........luci




slaveluci -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/16/2011 8:23:16 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: agirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirLucifer

Haha, thanks for all the suggestions, she's going to get a REALLY interesting box lol.


Frankly, if a friend of mine thought of giving me a gift like that, I'd think of the fact that he'd thought of me....NOT that I thought it was *unsuitable*. How crass is that?

agirl



My sentiments exactly!
luci




BlackTigerDragon -> RE: Proper Gift For a Slave girl (7/17/2011 1:55:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

What does this friend enjoy? Cooking? Then get her a cookbook by a chef she admires.
Going out to eat? Then get her a gift certificate to a restaurant she might enjoy trying.



Hmmm. Were you hungry when you wrote this by any chance? [8D]
Whenever I'm hungry I eat Doritos. They are goooood. Perhaps you should try some Doritos?

And the OP should try some Doritos too. That might make a good present.

Doritos.




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