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OsideGirl -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 2:03:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PainObjectForUse Supposing it was not about sexual harrasment at all, and that you were an unowned sub, and that you were feeling particularly brave and didn't mind anyone's opinion, and that it wouldn't put your job and social life at risk, would you do it? Tony 1) If it's a co-worker asking about my sex life, it's inappropriate. Which qualifies it as sexual harassment. Period. 2) If I were unowned, line number 1 would still apply. 3) If I were to do it, it would make me guilty of sexual harassment and my job and all future jobs would be at risk. If it involves the work place and anything remotely sexual that can make a co-worker uncomfortable....it can be considered sexual harassment. Accept that and move on.

IrishMist -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 2:55:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 I'd tell them to fuck off and that it was none of their business. Ditto Not to mention the FACT that every single person who I work with, knows about my little quirks and kinks...and not because I broadcast them, but because they did become curious and like the gentlemen that they are, they asked straight out. In the face of their own courage, I could only be honest in response [:)] Edited to add: Despite their knowing, it has never changed the actual dynamic of our working relationships. Those who are a part of my own team, are still part of my team. Those under us, are still under us, and those whom we take OUR orders from, we still take orders from.

LordOdhinn -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 3:30:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt [sm=wtf.gif] Sometimes you just slay me, OP. Not just no, but hell no. I don't need to prove my submission or my dominance for that matter to anyone, b/c I don't require another to validate who I am. Call you tell from the tone here sparky what I think of someone who does need that? Plus I'd send them to Canada to see HannahLyn. Would that make me an international conspirator to commit murder? Probably!

OwnedFemaleFlesh -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 3:54:45 PM)
Why does licking someone's foot or shoe show that you are submissive? This would seem to be a foot fetishist scenario, rather than a submissive scenario. owned

peppermint -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 3:57:16 PM)
Hypothetical scenario or not, a brain is supposed to be used.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 4:16:26 PM)
quote: Plus I'd send them to Canada to see HannahLyn. Would that make me an international conspirator to commit murder? Probably! meh! don't sweat it, one of these fuckers reduces the evidence to small easily disposable portions in no time flat. [image]local://upfiles/1188372/C4C6493E18AA4024B5B7C3A0FF2E4875.jpg[/image]

Hisprettybaby -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 4:39:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PainObjectForUse Imagine your friends or co-workers find out about your submissive tendencies and specific kinks or your profile on Collarme. They become curious and test you by asking you to prove it by dropping to your hands and knees and kissing or licking someone's shoe or foot. Even asking me would be sexual harrassment and against the law, to say nothing of being grossly inappropriate. Scenario : - would you do it if you were asked to do it in a crowded / public place like a restaurant or a bar or at your workplace during a coffee break? Hell no!! The only one I would do something like that for is Daddy. Firstly, he wouldn't ask me to do that at all, because he's not into that. Secondly, even if he was, he would not ask me to humiliate myself in front of vanillas and non-consensually expose them to my kink. - Or would you admit but refuse to do it. I would say it's none of their business. Neither admitting or denying it. - Or would you be too unconfortable too acknowledge it publicly and deny it till the end? As I said, I would neither admit or deny if the person didn't already know. They are on a need-to-know basis and they DON"T NEED TO KNOW. Tony quote: ORIGINAL: PainObjectForUse Supposing it was not about sexual harrasment at all, and that you were an unowned sub, and that you were feeling particularly brave and didn't mind anyone's opinion, and that it wouldn't put your job and social life at risk, would you do it? Owned or not, it would STILL be sexual harrassment. I'm brave enough, but not stupid. Why the hell would I want to display my private kinks and turn-ons publicly to a bunch of 'nillas or anyone else for that matter just to appease their morbid curiosity? I'm not some circus freak for their amusement. Just because I'm kinky, it doesn't mean Tony

windchymes -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 5:33:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 I'd tell them to fuck off and that it was none of their business. This, but I would snort and say "yeah, right" first.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 5:38:23 PM)
quote: non-consensually expose them to my kink. oh don't even start with that fucking bullshit.

Buzzzz -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 6:03:53 PM)
If I were a sub and if they found my profile on cm and wanted a proof, I would tell them that I do not know what they are talking about and that people steal other persons pictures all the time an that they also use those pics to make profiles. Maybe it is one of those ;) but then again, I don't have a face pic on my profile :)

poise -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 7:06:22 PM)
- would you do it if you were asked to do it in a crowded / public place like a restaurant or a bar or at your workplace during a coffee break? Nope. That would only prove that I was foolish. - Or would you admit but refuse to do it. I wouldn't deny it, but it would be more like a "Yeah, so?" How would you answer these same questions Tony, and why?

juliaoceania -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 8:50:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PainObjectForUse Supposing it was not about sexual harrasment at all, and that you were an unowned sub, and that you were feeling particularly brave and didn't mind anyone's opinion, and that it wouldn't put your job and social life at risk, would you do it? Tony Hi Tony, I think you have been fantasizing lately.

tj444 -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 9:00:54 PM)
hahaha I never gave a poopitty poop what anyone thought of me from the time i was a little kid, what makes anyone think it would matter to me now? [sm=tongue.gif]

twistedwillow -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/17/2011 9:08:48 PM)
I am one of these crazy submissives who tell people in general to get a life, if they try and "Dominate" me cause, well, i'm a sub and thats what i do, right? submit? So the short answer is no. Just no. the long answer is: get your hand off your dick, being submissive does not mean performing party tricks for the curious crowd. And no "proof" is needed.

PainObjectForUse -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/18/2011 1:35:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt [sm=wtf.gif] Sometimes you just slay me, OP. Not just no, but hell no. I don't need to prove my submission or my dominance for that matter to anyone, b/c I don't require another to validate who I am. Call you tell from the tone here sparky what I think of someone who does need that? Let me tell you a very badly kept secret Lady Chatte, when boys start using thier head, they don't use their head, and they fantasize without weighing all the pros and cons. It doesn't get any better than this, really it doesn't. When it happens, the old gals keep us from losing face by kicking our lame arses back to reality. Maybe one day we can arrange for You to do just that. quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: PainObjectForUse Supposing it was not about sexual harrasment at all, and that you were an unowned sub, and that you were feeling particularly brave and didn't mind anyone's opinion, and that it wouldn't put your job and social life at risk, would you do it? Tony Hi Tony, I think you have been fantasizing lately. Oh, boy, caught red handed, pants down. [:(] quote: ORIGINAL: poise - would you do it if you were asked to do it in a crowded / public place like a restaurant or a bar or at your workplace during a coffee break? Nope. That would only prove that I was foolish. - Or would you admit but refuse to do it. I wouldn't deny it, but it would be more like a "Yeah, so?" How would you answer these same questions Tony, and why? How and why would I answer? Maybe if I had a group of female co-workers/friends and one them happened to catch my eye, I wouldn't mind doing it, even in a public place. Who knows, maybe it could turn into something more - for the better or for the worse - but you don't know if you don't try, and life's too short for regrets. And of course it also involves brains, and also mood and timing. If you have all of this, a strong personality and a high self-esteem, anything is possible . Tony

poise -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/18/2011 3:39:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise How would you answer these same questions Tony, and why? How and why would I answer? Maybe if I had a group of female co-workers/friends and one them happened to catch my eye, I wouldn't mind doing it, even in a public place. Who knows, maybe it could turn into something more - for the better or for the worse - but you don't know if you don't try, and life's too short for regrets. And of course it also involves brains, and also mood and timing. If you have all of this, a strong personality and a high self-esteem, anything is possible . Tony Which basically means all this hypothesizing is pure fantasy. [8\|] I would like to now change my answer to say if it was Royce Gracie asking me to prove anything to him, the answer would be hell yes. With emphasis on the yes! [;)]

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/18/2011 3:52:25 AM)
i would tell them that that was harassment in the workplace. i've noticed that a lot of msubs have this "being found out and humiliated in public" fantasy. some gaggle of women saying "we've found out about you!"

agirl -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/18/2011 6:01:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PainObjectForUse Imagine your friends or co-workers find out about your submissive tendencies and specific kinks or your profile on Collarme. They become curious and test you by asking you to prove it by dropping to your hands and knees and kissing or licking someone's shoe or foot. Scenario : - would you do it if you were asked to do it in a crowded / public place like a restaurant or a bar or at your workplace during a coffee break? - Or would you admit but refuse to do it. - Or would you be too unconfortable too acknowledge it publicly and deny it till the end? Tony I'd just say * Yes, and....?* It's utterly juvenile and akin to someone saying I hear that you play the banjo....prove it. Anything I do, I do because I want to, not to satisfy other people's tasteless prurience. agirl

coookie -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/18/2011 8:07:27 AM)
I think i read this story on bdsm library once too!!

littleone35 -> RE: Hypothetical scenario (7/18/2011 11:01:16 AM)
I would look at them like what are you nuts then deny deny deny. If somehow they knew for sure i was a sub and siad i had to do that to prove it. I would say screw you i don't have to prove anything to anyone. To use the old saying i maybbe a sub but i am not YOUR sub applys to this situation i would think Matt's littleone

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