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RqrCompanionS -> RE: Collar before first playtime with master (7/23/2011 10:32:41 AM)
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When I started out, I was a slave. And, the way I became a slave is that we both discussed needs, pussyfooted around the subject lightly, and, then I told him I was his slave, found the collar, put in on, and, made him aware that there was no going back, so it was time for him to step up and be the Master.
It surely was not the conventional way to go about things, and, I would not recommend it for most people, but, there is a point to me telling you that.
I could do that with him, because, I knew I could trust him. He had already shown me, kindness, consideration, respect; protected me from someone else who would have done me a great deal of harm; given me his time and consideration; and, we had mutual goals.
If you have that, pleasing each other is inevitable, even if it means muddling through some bits and learning as you go.
If you trust him, and, he wants a honeymoon effect, it is probably not for some creepy reason. He's probably a romantic. Romantics tend to be more open and less selfish, than some, in their pleasures, to begin with. So, while I would not recommend most people take a collar before any play time, I would suggest that you consider it all very carefully, as regards your trust of him and whether that trust is because of what he has shown you or only because of a lack of current bad, the length of time you've known each other, what you know of his goals, and, what you know of what he wants from you once you are owned by him, and, make the decision based on your knowledge and gut instincts.
For me, personally, a slave who comes and takes my collar based on who I am, rather than what we have done together, is an endearing creature that I will cherish. Some people will simply use and abuse that same creature, assuming it is worthless for having been so easily gained. If you know him, you know which type he is, already.
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