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RqrCompanionS -> Hello (7/20/2011 11:51:37 AM)

Figured I should introduce myself to be polite - but, not sure how to best go about it due to being socially awkward. Do I do a George Jefferson, "I was born the poor son of a share cropper" thing? Or, is it enough to be like Kilroy, and, just announce I've been here?

I've had a varied lifestyle - I've served as a slave and servant. Do not mistake that as being submissive, as I am not. Do not mistake that for not being able to submit, because, I can. I just need a reason, and, yes "It's different and fun." might just be the reason. I've owned slaves, I've trained other people's slaves. I am dominant by nature, not choice, not nurture, not training.

My lifestyle is mostly laid back, my motivation is mostly toward helping other people and creating things of beauty and/or entertainment (painting, drawing, beadwork, writing).

To me, the best things in life are found in comfort, comfortableness, friends, family, sharing life together, nature, music, and, what beauty I espy with my little eye.

I do want slaves, but, only slaves who are likewise positive-minded and interested in helping other people to make lives better. If that is not a cause they can dedicate their life to, then, I am not the Mistress for them.

I do want a husband, but "" lol

And, I am not looking for people to abuse, to force, to grovel I like willing participation, strength, intelligence and good things of that nature. I love dominant people, and, I love them even more when they obey me, or, are worth obeying their own selves. I could be happy with a dominant husband, who was dominant as in self confident, thoughtful, a good provider, whether he wanted to take the lead or he wanted me to.

I am a Christian and I take that very seriously. I celebrate mankind the way they have been created to be, so, while I will show you the respect you deserve as a human being, I do not have much time, thought, or energy to give to those who wish to live in unnatural fashions. If you need to know what I mean by that, then, should you approach me with an offer, I will probably tell you. Otherwise, there is no point in going into further detail, as I am not here to offend, just to make my own introduction.

Part of being a Christian is a full belief in the wonderfulness of monogamous, married life and in not having sex before marriage. I've been married once, it did not work out well - and that is a dire understatement. So, please do not tell me that you have to have sex with someone to determine compatibility, before marriage, as I did that with him and it was still pure, living evil to be married to him. Kissing might need to be done, beforehand, as kissing is one of the most important things in life. If you can kiss well enough, you don't need to put much effort in, otherwise, so any other kind of sex is just "plus" anyway. lol

I have Fibromyalgia, an underactive thyroid, allergies, and other sexy things, that are not contagious, but, which do affect my level of energy, memory, etc. Therefore, if I tell you I am too tired, I don't want to argue, I can't take a phone call right now, or, I don't remember you, this is not just an excuse. This is me protecting my health, and, it will be respected by those who wish to be in my life.

And, as you can tell, I can, and do, enjoy a good ramble.




LadyPact -> RE: Hello (7/20/2011 12:10:40 PM)

Welcome to the forums.  I've had the opportunity to read a few of your posts and I'm sure you'll be well received here.




DarkSteven -> RE: Hello (7/20/2011 12:13:22 PM)

Hi there!




ashjor911 -> RE: Hello (7/20/2011 12:20:14 PM)

Welcome To CM




DarthVaderOfLove -> RE: Hello (7/20/2011 12:46:23 PM)

Welcome aboard!




RqrCompanionS -> RE: Hello (7/20/2011 4:39:26 PM)

LadyPact: Right now, that is incredibly funny to read, considering I just tore you a new arse, so to speak, for picking on the disabled on another thread. However, I accept your welcome, anyway, and, hope you were just having a bad day or something.

My son is learning disabled, and, I am physically disabled, so, I'm not real keen on reading intolerant sounding comments.

Everyone else: Thank you!




LadyPact -> RE: Hello (7/20/2011 5:19:43 PM)

Editing this post, as I hadn't been back to the other thread yet.  While I still believe you are mistaken, OP, I think the matter should be handled on the thread that you are referencing.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Hello (7/20/2011 5:31:01 PM)

Oh you got yours later....

Btw did you notice that our oh so moral upstanding person wants a slave who pays all her bills, does all her work and in another thread likens pro dommes to whores. But of course we have to bow because she's so morally superior and of course she looked into all of Dave's claims about being this successful world traveler, this successful entrepreneur and business owner who earns money while he sleeps... Maybe he would be the right one for her?




Kaliko -> RE: Hello (7/20/2011 5:31:35 PM)


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ORIGINAL: RqrCompanionS

I am a Christian and I take that very seriously. I celebrate mankind the way they have been created to be, so, while I will show you the respect you deserve as a human being, I do not have much time, thought, or energy to give to those who wish to live in unnatural fashions. If you need to know what I mean by that, then, should you approach me with an offer, I will probably tell you.



I'm curious! Can you tell us? (I wonder if I will be blacklisted.)

quote:



Part of being a Christian is a full belief in the wonderfulness of monogamous, married life and in not having sex before marriage.



I agree! Well, not the monogamous part. Oh, and not the Christian part. But I do wish sometimes that I could do it over and have saved myself for the right man, until after marriage.




JanahX -> RE: Hello (7/20/2011 5:34:52 PM)

[sm=rofl.gif]




BurntKitty -> RE: Hello (7/20/2011 5:38:51 PM)

Welcome.





OohAahMrs -> RE: Hello (7/21/2011 3:48:17 AM)

Yep, welcome.




kalikshama -> RE: Hello (7/21/2011 5:06:34 AM)

quote:

I am a Christian and I take that very seriously. I celebrate mankind the way they have been created to be, so, while I will show you the respect you deserve as a human being, I do not have much time, thought, or energy to give to those who wish to live in unnatural fashions.


I'm interested in learning what you mean by the bolded part above.

quote:

My son is learning disabled, and, I am physically disabled, so, I'm not real keen on reading intolerant sounding comments.


My brother has a learning disability and is mentally ill. However, he has recently learned that he is still accountable for his actions, having spent two months incarcerated in the state high security psychiatric hospital after assaulting a police officer.

Similarly, some posters here feel that a disability does not excuse rude behavior. The "target of the intolerance" could be seen to be rude from his very first post, and some forum members and moderators have consistently held him accountable for his actions. As you did not know his full posting history, I can see how you could have perceived intolerant behavior. However, I do believe that you should have educated yourself on the context before drawing conclusions.

Anyway, welcome, and I like your quilt!




Kaliko -> RE: Hello (7/23/2011 4:48:38 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kaliko


quote:

ORIGINAL: RqrCompanionS

I am a Christian and I take that very seriously. I celebrate mankind the way they have been created to be, so, while I will show you the respect you deserve as a human being, I do not have much time, thought, or energy to give to those who wish to live in unnatural fashions. If you need to know what I mean by that, then, should you approach me with an offer, I will probably tell you.



I'm curious! Can you tell us? (I wonder if I will be blacklisted.)



Still curious. Waiting patiently to learn how fashionably unnatural I've been. Or...how unnaturally fashionable I've been. Or...in what fashion I've been unnatural in. Yes, that's it. :)

Seriously, though...I tend to think that if one doesn't want to discuss something, one shouldn't advertise it in their introductory post. If you didn't want to talk about it, why even mention it?





erieangel -> RE: Hello (7/23/2011 5:17:32 PM)

That opening post came off as uppity and self righteous to me. How does one live in an "unnatural fashion"? My son is gay. He was born gay. He's never had a girl friend and I suspected he was gay before he came out of the closet at the age of 15. For him, being gay is natural and to try to live otherwise would be an "unnatural fashion".




Kaliko -> RE: Hello (7/23/2011 5:25:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: erieangel

That opening post came off as uppity and self righteous to me. How does one live in an "unnatural fashion"? My son is gay. He was born gay. He's never had a girl friend and I suspected he was gay before he came out of the closet at the age of 15. For him, being gay is natural and to try to live otherwise would be an "unnatural fashion".



Oh, whew. I thought maybe she meant my having sex with machinery, or occasionally dry humping a rough-barked tree.

Sex with someone of the same gender? Really? That didn't even occur to me when I read "unnatural fashion," but yes, I suppose that may be what she meant.

Well, shit. Guess I'll be going to hell, then.*



(*That's my goal, anyway.)




tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Hello (7/23/2011 7:21:34 PM)

Welcome to CM and the boards.  Uhhh, yeah, good luck with that whole thingie.  




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