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Seeking my cherished online female subbie - 7/20/2011 3:08:27 PM   
MasterSteve1977


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Status: offline 		Hello,
I'm looking for a sweet subbie to train and play with. You will find I am genuine, caring and understanding, however you will also find I am very creative and you will find yourself exploring things you never imagined.

I will make you feel cherished, cared-for and safe, but also wild, excited and owned. I will take a keen interest in all aspects of your life and sexuality. I will truly know you, knowing what you need, crave, desire, perhaps better than you know yourself.

I am very discreet, and you are safe in knowing that what we share will always remain secret between us. I will never comprimise on that. However, I expect total honesty from you. I will never make you do anything that you can't handle, but also expect you will make a genuine effort to try or let me know honestly the reasons why you are not able to complete a task.

The majority of our communications will be via email and instant messaging.

If this at all interests you, and of course you are over the age of 18, then please email me at [email address] or respond by im and tell me all about yourself and why you think you deserve to be my sweet little subbie, to cherish and care for.

Your new Master


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RE: Seeking my cherished online female subbie - 7/20/2011 4:43:39 PM   
ashjor911


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RE: Seeking my cherished online female subbie - 7/20/2011 4:44:50 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		Welcome and you know your little search here does sound like you're married and you expect somebody to be your online bit on the side... Might be better to say that upfront.

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RE: Seeking my cherished online female subbie - 7/20/2011 7:22:04 PM   
erieangel


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM.

I agree with LadyC, sounds like you're married.

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RE: Seeking my cherished online female subbie - 7/21/2011 3:46:40 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Well there you go, welcome to CM.

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RE: Seeking my cherished online female subbie - 7/21/2011 5:41:23 AM   
wandersalone


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Status: offline 		Melbourne is probably the kink capital of Australia, we have events on every weekend so if you are interested in meeting people in real life there are stacks of opportunities.

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RE: Seeking my cherished online female subbie - 7/21/2011 6:05:09 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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From: The t'aint of the Midwest -- Indiana
Status: offline 		Welcome to the forum side of CM. This side is not like the profile side, we're far less meat market here as well as being more into real time than online.

May we assume from your intro/advertisement that you are married or attached and seeking an "online only" sub? By "online only" I mean one you never intend to actually meet?

You can (maybe) find that on the profile side, but cheating on significant others tends to be frowned on here, as in real life.

Since I'm in a benevolent mood this AM I won't cast any aspersions as to your moral character. But please note many feel the foundation of a D/s relationship is honesty and trust.





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RE: Seeking my cherished online female subbie - 7/21/2011 7:15:43 AM   
GreedyTop


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From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		*echoes Chatte, because I am also feeling somewhat 'kind', today..

(hey, I'm headed to the Beach for 4 days tomorrow!!!)

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RE: Seeking my cherished online female subbie - 7/21/2011 3:46:36 PM   
MasterSteve1977


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Status: offline 		Hi all,
Thanks for all your replies. LadyConstanze you are 100% correct:

"Welcome and you know your little search here does sound like you're married and you expect somebody to be your online bit on the side... Might be better to say that upfront."

I wasn't really trying to hide that fact, but you are correct I should have clearly stated that in my post. Also, no my wife doesn't know about this. She does, however, know about my desires and we have discussed them at length. Unfortunately she is not interested in exploring them, which I do understand. I'm not looking to "cheat" on her in the physical sense but don't see much harm in a little fun online, if it also gives another what they need and crave.  Many will disagree on this, I can understand that.

I wish you all well, and this does sound like a good caring community.

Take care,
MasterSteve

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RE: Seeking my cherished online female subbie - 7/21/2011 4:03:20 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		I'm not getting moral on your arse, but you might want to consider that if your wife finds out that it will have an impact on your relationship and I can almost guarantee you it won't be positive. Then what if you find it to your liking? Won't you miss it even more in your marriage?

Then there is the sub, what if she develops strong feelings for you and can't deal with the fact that you're in a committed relationship if you don't tell her in advance?

Just a few things worth to take into consideration...

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RE: Seeking my cherished online female subbie - 7/21/2011 10:14:20 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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ORIGINAL: MasterSteve1977

I'm not looking to "cheat" on her in the physical sense but don't see much harm in a little fun online, if it also gives another what they need and crave. 




Welcome, OP. Good luck finding 'another' to play along. Plenty of HNG guys posing as women here who will be happy to help. The two (or more) of you enjoy now!

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RE: Seeking my cherished online female subbie - 7/21/2011 10:21:33 PM   
myotherself


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ORIGINAL: MasterSteve1977

I'm not looking to "cheat" on her in the physical sense but don't see much harm in a little fun online, if it also gives another what they need and crave.  Many will disagree on this, I can understand that.




Imagine the reaction of the woman who loves and trusts you when she finds out you're having an online "relationship" with someone else. You know the woman - would she be angry/hurt/upset? That should set your moral compass in the right direction.

But having said all that, good luck. You're going to need it.

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