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SimplyMichael -> RE: Masochism/Submission as a fetish.... (7/22/2011 2:24:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 Insofar as a reliable way to fix things, I very strongly suspect that there is. But you're not going to get that advice here because it's sacrilegious. Personally, I would be do this just because you said it would be sacrilegious but training someone to eroticize new and different things, even if they were vanilla is part and parcel of some of my core kinks.

catize -> RE: Masochism/Submission as a fetish.... (7/22/2011 5:11:56 PM)
For me, it is the S + M that makes it sooooo hawt! Sure, I can have orgasms just fine without pain, but (again, for me) it is the difference between a Sno-ball and a home made red velvet cake with cream cheese frosting for dessert. As one of my maso friends says, "I can enjoy regular sex, but why would I want to?''

kalikshama -> RE: Masochism/Submission as a fetish.... (7/22/2011 6:04:57 PM)
quote: I really need to get a Hitachi. Eroscillator! Plus BDSM stories from Nifty.org. There's lots there so you'll have do lots of research to find what works for you. I've also heard good things about literotica.com.

graceadieu -> RE: Masochism/Submission as a fetish.... (7/24/2011 3:53:52 PM)
Unfortunately, I can't say that I have much advice for you. I've been in the same boat pretty much since I entered puberty, and as wonderful as kinky sex is it'd be nice to be able to get off without it sometimes! I guess the only advice I can give you is to continue to do what you've been doing, and don't even bother with the subpar vanilla encounters.

graceadieu -> RE: Masochism/Submission as a fetish.... (7/24/2011 4:21:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Personally, I would be do this just because you said it would be sacrilegious but training someone to eroticize new and different things, even if they were vanilla is part and parcel of some of my core kinks. As much as I enjoy having that done to me in general, I can't quite imagine being conditioned to get off on vanilla sex (beyond enjoying the pleasure it gives my partner). I'm curious as to how you'd approach that.

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