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zephyroftheNorth -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 8:01:22 AM)
quote: loys people don't post here anymore because fed up the cliqs attacks Here's a genuine suggestion: forget about all those other people and focus on your own problems; for starters seeing yourself as a victim of the cliques. It's your relentless negativity and self view as a victim that results in the responses you get. Seriously you've posted one negative thread after another and it's exhausting! You were doing well for a while there, starting some really good threads then bang back to the negativity and I don't understand why. Zeph

Iamsemisweet -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 8:09:54 AM)
Apparently the only reaction to your posts that you find acceptable is to ignore them. I will do so in the future.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 8:18:36 AM)
quote: The only members here that have power over another are the Mods, and those people who are involved in personal dynamics controlling their own submissive. The way I see it is that the only people who have control over us is the people we allow to have control over us. Which is why I ignore those who suck the energy out of me. Life is easier that way. Zeph

DavidLee44UK -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 8:48:06 AM)
ok zephyr no prob everyone thats rude ill report anyone that intentionally sabotages my threads ill report and greedy that involves emmoticons posted 4 minutes after i post im sick tired being told that for so and so reason people feel like being rude or thinking there better than others

Kirata -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 9:14:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK no im juswt sick people thinking they can by their own lack of self worth attack others loys people don't post here anymore because fed up the cliqs attacks just sick off it not resentlful I gotta ask you something. Not bullying, just askin. Because it could explain a lot. Are you drunk when you post? K.

LadyConstanze -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 9:17:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK ok zephyr no prob everyone thats rude ill report anyone that intentionally sabotages my threads ill report and greedy that involves emmoticons posted 4 minutes after i post im sick tired being told that for so and so reason people feel like being rude or thinking there better than others Did you actually bother to READ our replies or did you bother to go back to the thread you complained was unfairly jacked? IT IS BACK! Now do you think that maybe, just maybe we might be sick of you being rude to us and then complaining loudly how horrible everybody is? Do you actually LIKE somebody on the forum? Go on, report away and wear the button out! Have you realized how much slack people have cut you due to the disabilities you claim? You are the guy who was cheering about somebody ending in a wheelchair, that's the kind of "nice guy" you are. You want respect? Well initially you got some but you pissed it all away and now you demand respect? For what exactly? For behaving like a spoiled brat? Though that is unfair, most of them behave better than you do! Now when somebody starts a thread, it's usually about something and not just a whine fest, then they do read the answers and reply, you don't care, you just throw a paddy when you don't get the answers you like and we don't all pad you on the head and tell you that you're oh so right and freaking brilliant... You know why we don't do that? Because we're not liars! Now stop being rude to others and for sabotaging your threads, nobody needs to do that, they actually try to rescue something from the train wreck most of your threads are from the start! Now go on and report me for speaking the truth, because you hate hearing the truth!

VaguelyCurious -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 9:26:41 AM)
FR It continues to surprise me just how much you care about what happens in these forums, David. Almost to the point where I'm kind of impressed. But, at the same time: this is the internet. If you think you're being bullied by the internet then you're doing it wrong.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 9:36:47 AM)
quote: Now do you think that maybe, just maybe we might be sick of you being rude to us and then complaining loudly how horrible everybody is? Speaking for myself, I actually don't give a shit what he does. He doesn't affect me or my life all that much, in fact he doesn't affect me at all. I basically ignore most of what he writes here as he shows that either he doesn't take the time to read replies or at least to understand what we write. It appears that he is convinced that we are all out to get him and that there is no way to change his mind. Getting all upset about his posts will achieve nothing but you getting upset. As you and others have posted, this...is...just...the... INTERWEBZ! Zeph

LadyConstanze -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 9:45:32 AM)
I don't get upset, you might not believe it, but in a way I am feeling a bit sorry for him, it's just really wearing out now because quite a lot of us build golden bridges for him, I understand that he is a very lonely person, nobody should be that way, but the more I see about him, I also understand why. If he doesn't want to be lonely, he needs to change the way he interacts with people, but that doesn't seem to sink in... When in doubt I usually adopt the dog training technique, repeat the same exercise until it's become 2nd nature, though I have yet to find a dog that's quite as unresponsive to all approaches as the OP - hmm, well maybe the Beagle of friends, he's 9 years old and hasn't learned to give the paw and after 6 months I gave up trying to teach him...

Egillandpet -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 10:30:06 AM)
David after I read a comment you made to My pet about her disabilities and how you have it so much worse I lost alot of respect. Since you do not know what O/our daily life is like you need to reconsider 2 things. 1. The only person bullying you is yourself.. 2. You are not the only disabled one here and I am not being rude but I dont know what disability you claim. I was nice and did not say a word. Now you are back and this post does come across as whining. Maybe that is not your intention. You do not listen to what O/others have to say so maybe a break from the boards would do you good. One more tiny suggestion. Before you mock someone else for a disability next time make sure you know what it is.

LadyPact -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 10:59:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth quote: The only members here that have power over another are the Mods, and those people who are involved in personal dynamics controlling their own submissive. The way I see it is that the only people who have control over us is the people we allow to have control over us. Which is why I ignore those who suck the energy out of me. Life is easier that way. Zeph Which we're in agreement on, Zeph. When we sign up, we automatically agree to give that power to the Mods. That's just part of TOS. Of course, it's still a BDSM site, so it's a given that when both parties of a D/s dynamic participate here, if the Dominant has control over their own submissive, that may be reflected on the boards depending on what kind of dynamic those two (or more) parties have. Anybody else giving power over themselves to another poster is doing so freely, whether the other party asked for it or not. That's part of why the concept of bullying just really doesn't work on an adult site because your average, sane adult realizes that other posters don't have power over them unless they are giving it to them.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 11:19:23 AM)
quote: everyone thats rude ill report anyone that intentionally sabotages my threads ill report really? shit that means somebody's post might get pulled. and they'll go start a thread bitching that some fucking clique is censoring them. weeeeeeeeee such fun. report away buckers, report away. the absolute worst thing that could happen is that somebody gets put on moderation for a while. trust me, its no big deal. lets you get some fucking house work done. christ on a cupcake man, you're skin is so thin. how the fuck do you walk down the street without bleeding to death.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 11:49:22 AM)
quote: I don't get upset, you might not believe it, but in a way I am feeling a bit sorry for him, it's just really wearing out now because quite a lot of us build golden bridges for him, I understand that he is a very lonely person, nobody should be that way, but the more I see about him, I also understand why. If he doesn't want to be lonely, he needs to change the way he interacts with people, but that doesn't seem to sink in... I understand that and it's nice to make the effort but until he wants to change it's a waste of energy....and in this heat this is about as much energy as I'm going to put into this response [:D] Zeph

DavidLee44UK -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 12:04:45 PM)
lol shall we tell them that ive hidden them lol

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 12:33:22 PM)
David what's with the "we"? To memory I have only blocked/hidden one person and I don't care what you do. Zeph

LadyPact -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 1:00:54 PM)
I was going to say the same thing, Zeph. Actually, I never hide anyone. I'll have to go take a look for that thread that Domi started sometime back about the "public announcing" of putting people on hide and/or block or such. It was freaking hilarious.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 1:06:16 PM)
OMG I remember that thread, yeah it was freaking hilarious. I'll just have to remember to not be eating and/or drinking when I reread it. Zeph

VideoAdminTheta -> RE: a typical response (7/22/2011 1:23:03 PM)
I do think that just about everything that can be said on this topic, has been said and then some. The thread will not be removed, but it will be locked. Thank you all for taking part at Collarme and have a wonderful day!

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