LadyConstanze
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ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK
LC has said shes gonna ignore me more times than i have had hot dinners
What you only had ONE hot dinner all your life? Oh you poor poor baby! Do you want me to order you a pizza?
You come on and you complain that you want to be liked? What is to be liked about you? You are going out of your way to be nasty to everybody.
You started a thread here about a pro sub, OK, you were talking BS and the she never existed, still most of us indulged you and tried to give answers to understand the dynamic.
As a result you have a complete and utter meltdown and make us responsible for all your problems in life.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3775987/tm.htm
Then you start another thread where you complain that the previous thread has been yanked
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3777380/tm.htm
All our fault, you are censored, you play the victim AGAIN (try not to eat as many hot dinners as you play victim, obesity is dangerous), so the mods put your thread back up, instead of being happy about it and going back to it, you ignore it and start another thread about how you are victimized (yawn).
Apparently you haven't noticed how people went out of their way to answer your question, you didn't even give them the minimal common courtesy of a reply, that's appalling bad manners, instead you start to have a hissy fit about how everybody is horrible to you (despite the fact that most people were actually NICE to you), how this is a conspiracy against you, blah blah.
Look, we are all sympathetic that you do have a disability, however that disability doesn't give you a free pass to be a complete dick to people.
Try this angle, if you walk into a pub and you are being really awful to everybody in there, do you think people want to make you feel welcome? Why do you think people ANYWHERE owe you to change their ways just to make you feel happy? You managed to piss off almost every person on this board, do you think there is something wrong with ALL THOSE PEOPLE or do you think it might have to do with your behaviour?
Now you complain that you have been bullied since you were 10
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ive been bullied since age 10 and fed up with it and as a 45 yr old adult will not accept it
35 years of the same thing happening over and over again and you never thought that something you do might bring it on? And from your previous reactions, it's plainly obvious that for you "bullying" is if somebody disagrees with you, don't you think that is a real insult to people who really get bullied? I've your a disagreeable person out to create conflict, you aren't getting bullied, you reap what you sow. Now if in 35 years you haven't learned to take a step back and wonder why people disagree with you (which you call bullying), then it's about time. Disagreements happen here quite often, people have different opinions, but you set out with stuff that is meant to insult people (Remember your first post that got yanked? It was an attack on women into BDSM) and then complain if people give you the reaction you obviously seem to be looking for.
I mean if you would have a glass door and you would run into it a few times and bang your head, wouldn't you realize that YOU are running into a glass door, that there is a glass door there and you are doing something wrong?
So far every thread you posted, whenever somebody disagreed with you, you ignored or you started howling and screaming that people are mean to you. What do you want? Somebody who will agree with you all the time and not give you honest opinions? It's not going to happen in the real world, and your best bet might be this: http://karigirl.com/
Look, you came on here with all sorts of odd stories that were simply unbelievable and you got busted on them, we might now understand that you just made them up to fit in better, but you know this is a BDSM site and because you declare yourself a dominant doesn't automatically mean that everybody has to agree with you, just because you might have a certain sexual orientation. In fact people will react much harsher because as a dominant you do have a certain responsibility and if you do claim knowledge you don't have, they will come down on you because you could endanger somebody. That's not being mean, that's reasonable!
So really, your best bet will be to be honest, say you are interested in BDSM but you don't have much experience (I'm not being mean, that is plainly obvious) and you want to learn more about it and I am sure people will give you a lot of help.
Again, it's all down to you.
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