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RE: learning about your sub/slave - 7/25/2011 10:35:08 PM

SneakerWorship

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I initially got into BDSM as a sub. My Dom was a roommate of a friend and we had great sexual chemistry. But after a year of "training" he was clueless about me and our relationship had no where to go.

If you aren't going to have a dynamic relationship with a person and make connections with them on many levels, it can only keep the relationship on superficial grounds. If people don't grow together, they grow apart.

I think that learning about subs have negative connotations, but honestly true collaring is a process which is founded in knowing and understanding the thought processes of your sub. From ordering their favorite foods to manipulating them to breaking down their limits -- a holistic approach results in better dominance.

Warmest Regards,
Holly

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RE: learning about your sub/slave - 7/26/2011 8:58:42 AM

Steponme73

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The way to find out is have your people talk to his people and get back to you...

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RE: learning about your sub/slave - 7/31/2011 1:00:49 PM

HoneyedMistress

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

Apparently talking is a lost art. I think it's been replaced by texting. Only us dinosaurs believe in talking anymore.

Good to know I'm ancient & creaky at the ripe old age of 26

I do do a great T-rex impersonation though *tiny arms*

I agree with the rest however, why can't people just get to know each other as PEOPLE? *creaks off to go find a real live person to pester*

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