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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 6:37:45 PM

kalikshama

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I would be too. A Dom should always have exquisite taste.

The same goes for subs though. I suppose that's why we're both still single, eh?

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 6:38:14 PM

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seconded! ^_^

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RE: Changes - 7/26/2011 2:22:52 AM

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OP nothing normal or abnormal about it ... go with what you want to experience! As people have said, you don't necessarily have to give up being a D to bottom ... find a sub with a sado streak and order them to whup you!

Of course, you could also be like Me ... a duality ... who loves to be sub/slave to Master AND have a subby boy to Dominate. There's as many flavours of bdsm as there are B & R icecream ... at least!

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RE: Changes - 7/26/2011 7:19:05 AM

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hello A/all in was a strict Domme but now i want to feel the whip on my skin be the other side of the bars. Has any other Dommes been through this and is it normal to go from Domme to slave

You can do anything that you wish to do. And you don't have to ask others for approval before doing it.

When I first got into BDSM, I started out as a Dom. I have a naturally outgoing and dominant personality, so it seemed logical. However, today I identify as a sub. I find that I enjoy this side of the kneel more.

Despite that, most people who meet me assume that I'm a Dom. And outside of D/s relationships, I'm dominant in every other aspect of life.

So if you're curious about the other side of the kneel, give it a try. You can always switch back if you don't like it.

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RE: Changes - 7/26/2011 11:04:44 AM

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And of course, many times it's not the change in relationship dynamic that is sought, but instead the desire to be the receiver of the sensation rather than the giver.

This. I have no desire to switch, but one of the first things I do is teach my partner how to use my favorite flogger on me. The dang thing just feels great, especially for pain relief and increased circulation. It is wonderful to be able to instruct him exactly where and how to apply it.

I know a Dom who for 40 years didn't think he had a sub side. Then we started spending time together first in vanilla activities, then in more intimate ones with the understanding there needn't be any defined roles. It wasn't long before he wanted to switch for me. Fun for him, fun for me. Roles/dynamics can be fluid. Focus on having your current needs met.

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RE: Changes - 7/26/2011 3:57:39 PM

mirror88

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dont fret over what other people do.

if you NEED to be normal, marry a boy scout.

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