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What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/18/2006 1:04:14 PM

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What is the single cruelest most painful thing You have ever did to a sub? Sadistcly spealing that is, any sub knows the cruelest thing his Mistress can do is give him the silent treatment..
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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/18/2006 1:06:42 PM

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The cruelest thing that I ever did was catch him in a huge lie. I arranged a play date, tied him up,got him all excited and then confronted him. I let him know I knew everything and I removed his collar, untied him, told him to get dressed and get the hell out. I never wanted to see him again.

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/18/2006 1:09:05 PM

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The cruelest thing that I ever did was catch him in a huge lie. I arranged a play date, tied him up,got him all excited and then confronted him. I let him know I knew everything and I removed his collar, untied him, told him to get dressed and get the hell out. I never wanted to see him again.

~Lashra

I don't think that was cruel at all...I think it was smart and well deserved!

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/18/2006 1:18:09 PM

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No that was not cruel that was justice. Hope You stuck to Your guns on it too.

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/18/2006 4:25:06 PM

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dear sub ash 1
theres a shop joke in the community of tops that goes something like this
whats the worst thing you can do to a masochist?
be real nice and, kind,to them; personally: i'm an m and i hate that joke;i'd be b.s ,if i'm ,w/ a big top,and they are real kind to ME!!!!WHAT: YOU TIRED NOW OR SOMETHING?!
the worst thing i can think of now is oh.... not step on my head on the first date ....and make the m ask.... which is not only very awkward ,but, its" begging", to me ;something ;i also don't do well ;and dont particulary like either....in other words ;it's usually handed to me on a silver platter
,or what ?!:....are you a bottom-m too?! well:pardon me; that's the blind -date of the century!
,another time i volunteered for research-study ,as a volunteer-subject ,with phobias ,and ,they said what's the phobia and how does it stop you ,from functioning?
how do i say:well:.... i'm very afraid of bugs ,and, sexually i really can't function, when i bury myself....,cause ,with this phobia and ,my sexual-proclivities; let's face it ; it's a real pain in the az
....
so ,BEING AN 'M'; LEFT OUT THERE TO THE WOLVES,IN VANILLA LAND ;THE AKA; NARROW-MIND-WORLD ,OR,
just ,not having your 'top', around ,
or
your S and M community;
WHERE YOU CAN "BLEND";
can ,also be a very cruel displacement experience

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*like the" top " don't know me, now

......

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/18/2006 7:08:07 PM

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I think the cruelest thing I have ever used on a submissive is the TENs unit during and Interrogation scene.
he was in the jail cell in a body harness with wrist and ankles secured to the wall,he was wearing a collar that was attached to a chain which hangs from the ceiling,in the cell.

I had him naked with the TENs on his balls (which were tied up with technique Mistress Anne from NH taught Me).I also had a squirt bottle of ice cold water. In between getting jolted he would get squirted.I love to watch
them squirm.

After writing and reading this...it really wasnt that cruel...I must do better.

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/18/2006 7:18:41 PM

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Gave my sub a Chilled Oil enema, a full gallon, the n Put Ginger root In her Vagina, Caned her, then Filled her with a HUGE Plug Lubed with wasabi paste, and Left her caged Overnight... Oh, almost forgot, Bound her to the cage, so she was On all 4's all Night, weighted Nipple clamps(clovers) on her Nipples

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/18/2006 7:27:54 PM

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No that was not cruel that was justice. Hope You stuck to Your guns on it too.

OH yes, I always stick to my guns. To me it was justice, to him it was a fate worse then death, or so I heard he said.

~Lashra

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/18/2006 7:29:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

I think the cruelest thing I have ever used on a submissive is the TENs unit during and Interrogation scene.
he was in the jail cell in a body harness with wrist and ankles secured to the wall,he was wearing a collar that was attached to a chain which hangs from the ceiling,in the cell.

I had him naked with the TENs on his balls (which were tied up with technique Mistress Anne from NH taught Me).I also had a squirt bottle of ice cold water. In between getting jolted he would get squirted.I love to watch
them squirm.

After writing and reading this...it really wasnt that cruel...I must do better.

Haha nothing like a good ole bottle of ice water to make a sub go thru the cieling. I did that last weekend we started off with warm oil, hot wax and freezing cold water <snickers evily> he nearly went thru the roof. I loved it

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/18/2006 8:50:21 PM

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I had a paper cut once. It hurt a lot.

(looks around)

What?

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/18/2006 9:14:56 PM

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Okay...That is a close second the hot wax then ice water.

Another thing I will do with slve bishop,is get a mouthful of hot coffee,
let it drip out on her nipples and then put an ice cube on her nipples.

Can do this with a guys tied up,electrified cock also.

So many fun things so little time....

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/19/2006 7:36:02 AM

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I don't agree in nonconsensual acts of punishment, I would ignore one who pissed me off and especially if it was intentionally. Most slaves love punishment, so they will do things by purpose to inflict it. However, I did once have my temper flare up with an arrogant boy, who tried to top from the bottom. Probably the harshes thing I've ever done.. he was begging me to use the larger dildo while I was taking him anally, so I instead, inserted a fast acting suppository laxative. The rest of the evening he was on the pot with no tissue! Hey, it could have been worse, I could have used a butt plug afterward and then had him clean up the mess he made, but I'm not into scat or having it on my carpet. I must say, he did learn his lesson after that. LOL.

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/19/2006 9:27:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MDPA1962

Gave my sub a Chilled Oil enema, a full gallon, the n Put Ginger root In her Vagina, Caned her, then Filled her with a HUGE Plug Lubed with wasabi paste, and Left her caged Overnight... Oh, almost forgot, Bound her to the cage, so she was On all 4's all Night, weighted Nipple clamps(clovers) on her Nipples

...is this physically possible and reasonably safe? I thought one shouldn't hold enemas for super long periods of time....

(Maybe I misread though)

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/19/2006 12:17:08 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

quote:

ORIGINAL: MDPA1962

Gave my sub a Chilled Oil enema, a full gallon, the n Put Ginger root In her Vagina, Caned her, then Filled her with a HUGE Plug Lubed with wasabi paste, and Left her caged Overnight... Oh, almost forgot, Bound her to the cage, so she was On all 4's all Night, weighted Nipple clamps(clovers) on her Nipples

...is this physically possible and reasonably safe? I thought one shouldn't hold enemas for super long periods of time....

(Maybe I misread though)

Where did the safe sane and consensual go

ok maybe there was a consensual but for real this's sick in MY opinion

maybe I'm just weak..I don't know

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/21/2006 7:49:53 AM

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The cruelest lesson is to not give them the attention they crave....silent and no looks or touches....they tend to try harder that way ; )

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/21/2006 10:18:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: MDPA1962

Gave my sub a Chilled Oil enema, a full gallon, the n Put Ginger root In her Vagina, Caned her, then Filled her with a HUGE Plug Lubed with wasabi paste, and Left her caged Overnight... Oh, almost forgot, Bound her to the cage, so she was On all 4's all Night, weighted Nipple clamps(clovers) on her Nipples

...is this physically possible and reasonably safe? I thought one shouldn't hold enemas for super long periods of time....

(Maybe I misread though)

My first thought reading that one was "someone has an overactive imagination." I hope anyway...

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/21/2006 10:22:42 AM

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a water enema Held for Long periods is Dangerous, Thats true, But It was an OIL enema <Vegetable oil

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/21/2006 11:04:03 AM

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All else aside in that scenario the clamping part alone is very concerning, tissue death occurs before an hour is up let alone several hours/overnight and coupled with the fact they are clover clamps and weighted...

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/21/2006 11:28:45 AM

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mmmmm… I remember once, being tied to a scaffolding at Thunder (ThunderInTheMountians.com). I was playing with a lovely Sadistic Dominant friend of mine who has lots of interesting toys. At one point he got out a stun-gun thingy; you know, with the two short prods on it? Well, he knew full well I am seriously afraid of electricity, and had only to let it snap, crackle and pop in the air to fill me with anxiety! Gawd…you can SMELL electricity! Ugg

Anyway, he may have had more than one because one made a HUGE noise next to my ear…but the one he put on my thigh wasn’t really all that bad, if I remember; but I sure did squeal! I was blindfolded and totally freaked.

At any rate, he came quite close to me and whispered, “bear, stick out your tongue”. OMFG!!! I begged him… “Please, Sir!” He waited a minute or two and said it again… “bear…stick out your tongue” OMG, I was crying by now. I wanted so much to please him…but…lordy!!! Electricty and my wet tongue? …can’t be good! I begged him… “Please…nooooo”

He said it once more. It took me more than five minutes to manage the courage to do as he said…and then he merely kissed me on the mouth and said ‘Good girl’. Sheesssshhhhhhhhhhh I about feinted.

(one of the best scenes I remember…LOL, but it took me hours to calm down)

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RE: What is the single cruelest thing? - 5/22/2006 9:26:56 AM

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