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RE: If it pleases Master. - 10/19/2004 12:57:28 AM

compes

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I've seen a couple use something suggested in a BDSM book. They use, "If it pleases you Master," to indicate the submissive's willingness to comply with her Master's wishes. But if she really does NOT want to do something she will instead say, "Only if it pleases you, Master."

Her master is still the one who finally decides upon the action - but when he gets the "Only if it pleases you, Master," he usually takes that as a cue to set that request aside for discussion.

I dunno which of the mainstream BDSM books I've also read this in. Maybe "The New Topping Book" or "The Loving Dominant?" If it doesn't ring a bell with anyone, I'll go look it up again.

In any case, a Dom invited to visit an established couple is sailing through uncharted territory - he has no idea what sort of verbal or visual shorthand that couple has decided to use. Making an assumption here is sure to sink him.

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RE: If it pleases Master. - 10/19/2004 8:57:30 AM

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Bottom line - imo - the comment sounds disrespectful to both your Master and yourself, and your relationship with another

I have to agree 100%. I would also point this out to said individual that they have no
place talking to my submissive that way, and politely ask them to refrain from speaking to her and addressing any concerns to me.

If it is a public place and I received any flak back, I would notify the Dungeon Master that
said individual was attempting to pick a fight with she and I and then leave it at that.

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RE: If it pleases Master. - 10/19/2004 10:49:01 AM

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This is part of what kept me from spending too much time with people in the "lifestyle" for so many years.
I personally do not want someone to impress anyone else. She does what pleases me, and only me. That is her one and only job.
There's far too many buffoons out there that think they are automatically Master of any slave. I don't expect it from another's and certainly don't even want mine to act that way unless instructed to please ME.
She is mine because I earned to right to call her that. No one else has.

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